How To Know If He's Going To Break Up With You, Or If It's Up To You To Dump Him

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He’s miserable. You’re miserable. But if his zodiac sign means he avoids conflict, according to astrology you may have to be the one to say goodbye and breakup the relationship.

Break-ups suck. But they’re unavoidable, and a lot of times they need to happen. When either of you are unhappy, or both of you are unhappy, breaking up is the absolute best option.

Did the two of you stop having fun with each other as a couple? Did you stop sleeping together? When was the last time you told each other you "I love you"?

Whatever happened, it is obvious to you that the relationship has fallen apart, maybe it's even beyond repair, and you really just want to break up. 

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So who is going to be the bad guy? Which one of you will be the one who says, ‘we need to talk’ and initiate ending the relationship?

Common stereotypes may make you think that if they guy is unhappy, he is going to step up to the plate and end things. And maybe he will.

Maybe he will seem cold and emotionless, and maybe he is, or maybe he’s just really good at hiding how upset and torn apart he is by this decision.

On the flip side, guys are sensitive too. He may be a total crying mess. You may wish that he never got the nerve to break up with you at all because watching him fall a part in front of you is too much to handle. 

But maybe he has no plan of being the one to end things. Even if he is super unhappy, he may just hang on until you step up to the plate.

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Maybe he doesn't want to be the bad guy, or maybe he just won't have the guts to do it. If you're not sure who is likely to dump who in a breakup that's inevitable, his horoscope can help you out by looking to the zodiac signs.

Break-ups can be nasty, while others end and you’re able to maintain a friendship between the two of you. Sometimes you’ll resent him for being so harsh to you, or making you the one who needs to end the relationship.

Want to know which direction your break-up might be heading?

The answers lie in HIS zodiac sign. That’s right, astrology just may be behind who has the guts to end it all.

Some signs will jump on the chance to end your relationship for his benefit while other signs will make you miserable until you decide you’ve had enough.

To get a better idea of if you’ll be the dumper or the dumpee, here is if he will leave you or if you will leave him, based on his zodiac sign.

Aries (March 21- April 19)

Aries is all about being, and having, the latest and greatest. They want to be first and they want to come in first.

This means that they will be the one to leave you when he feels the time is right.

If you can’t keep up with him, or he doesn't think you’re complimenting him in the way that he thinks you should be, he will leave you in the dust and move on to the next one.

Harsh? Yes. But if he leaves you for selfish reasons, you’re probably off better in the end.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus is committed and likes to see things through to the end. If he feels like there is something wrong in the relationship, he is going to want to work on fixing it.

That is super admirable, but sometimes, things just cannot be fixed. This means you’re going to have to be the bearer of bad news and break it off.

Just know that both of you are going to be upset by the end of your relationship, but will be better off in the long run.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)


Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Gemini is going to want to break-up with you, but he probably doesn’t have the courage to do it.

The thing is, he is indecisive and he knows that once he breaks it off, there is probably no going back. Is he ready for the single life again? Is it worth going through a breakup? He’s not too sure.

But the thing is he is miserable and it’s making you absolutely miserable, too. So when it comes down to it, you will have to be the one who calls the relationship off.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Cancer want’s to break up and you know he wants to break up. And if you give him the chance to, he will find the strength and breakup with you.

But he will cry and be emotional through it all. He will be uncomfortable, and you will be uncomfortable, and it would be a very awkward situation to go through.

So if you want, you can take one for the team and be the one to end things. Chances are, he is still going to cry but he wont have to struggle through the tears to end it with you.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Leo doesn’t have the time to play games. He will leave you for someone else, or her will just leave you. If he feels like he can benefit from ending your relationship, he’ll end it.

Not giving Leo enough attention? He’s done with it. He started to get to know someone else. Bye.

The only positive to this is that since he doesn’t want to tarnish his own reputation, he’ll completely end things with you before he begins to move on with someone else.

READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo doesn’t want to be seen as the bad guy, so he is going to try and make your relationship as miserable and difficult as possible. He’ll pull at your patience, he’ll push your nerves, he is going to send you to the end.

In the end, who cares? Save yourself the drama and go ahead and just end it.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Libra is a man who is to the point. if he is ready for a breakup, he is going to tell you that he is ready for a breakup.

It may seem that he is unemotional and hasn’t cared at all about the two of you but that is not true. He does care about you, and he appreciates all that the two of you have shared, but when he wants to break up, he is going to break up. End of story.

READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpio is going to break up with you. He has a short temper and the words can come out of his mouth at anytime, without warning. He might not even mean it when he says it.

Chances are, you’ll hear him say those words a couple of times throughout your relationship. So, while he will break up with you, maybe multiple times, if you want the real deal end to your relationship, you might have to be the one who ends things.

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

When thins are going wrong in the relationship between you and Sagittarius, you will both be well aware that the end is near. You’re not sure if you broke up with him or if he broke up with you because it was almost a mutual agreement.

So when it comes down to it, don’t worry about who is going to be the one who ends it.

It will be low-key, calm and probably one of the best breakups you’ll ever be a part of.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Capricorn is going to complain to you about everything he doesn’t like about your relationship, and even things he doesn’t like about you!

But here’s the catch, he isn’t going to break off the relationship. So the things go from bad to worse, and you just cannot take it anymore, you will have to be the one to break the relationship off.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Aquarius is going to break up with you and he might not care too much about being nice about it either. He’s done, he’s over it, he’s ready to let himself free.

Knowing that this is the way he is going to treat the breakup, you might want to beat him to the punch before he can make a figurative punching bag out of your emotions.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Pisces will break up with you, but he’s going to be miserable and feel miserable about doing it. It going to be hard to watch him struggle though it, but let him be the one to end it when he is the one who initiates it.

If he is unhappy, and you know he is and you decide to end it, that will only make him unhappier and hurt him more.

In this situation, he needs to be the one who ends it, so let him have this.

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