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These can be the end of your love life
By Kelcey Connors — Written on Jun 16, 2017
Relationships are hard. Everyone knows it. It takes a lot to completely give yourself to someone.
It doesn't matter if they’re someone you met a month ago, or someone you've known for five years. Being in a relationship means giving a whole different part of yourself to that person.
There’s a lot to worry about during a relationship.
Are you spending too much time with them or are you not spending enough time with them? Are you ignoring your friends and family, and are you hogging all of their attention?
Do you share political views, or does that not matter too much? Will they like your dog and, more importantly, will your dog like them?
The worst part? These concerns are just the surface level. There is literally so much to consider when jumping into a new relationship you don't even want to think about the things that will really scare you.
Like the fear of moving too quickly, or the fear of being completely lead on.
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You know that you’re going to give this relationship your all, that’s just who you are. So you know that if it doesn't work out, you’re going to be completely heartbroken.
Your fears are validated. You have a wall up because you don't want to be hurt in the end.
But having this wall up is hurting your dating life, you feel like you’re not making deep and meaningful connections. You know you’re partly to blame because honestly, you’re not letting the other person in.
It’s time to acknowledge these fears because maybe once they’re out in the open, you can move past them.
Read on to figure out which relationship fear is your zodiac sign’s biggest. And once you’re aware of how the stars say you react, you’ll be one step closer to moving beyond it.
Aries (March 21- April 19)
You don't like to spend too much time on one thing, you like to finish up one task and start on another one.
While this doesn't happen in regards to a significant other, you fear that they will tie you down. You don't like the idea of not being free to do as you please.
This includes chances to travel, being able to take on new opportunities, and to not have to worry about someone disapproving of your choices.
That’s why the second you feel restrained in a relationship, you know it’s over.
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Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
You like to take things slow, and there’s no problem with that. However, sometimes that leaves you and your significant other at odds with where you are in your relationship.
You’re still in the "getting comfortable with each other" phase while they are practically living at your house and in your refrigerator.
You were scared that they were going to move too quickly and now you’re left uncomfortable and not sure what to do.
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Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
You’re social and always ready for a good time. Your biggest fear is that the love of your life will be the complete opposite.
While having a night in is always a good idea, that’s the only thing they ever want to do.
Even worse, they make you feel guilty for wanting to go out with your friends for the night. How could you be happy in a situation like this?
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Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
You tend to be sensitive and emotional, and you always form strong attachments to the people you surround yourself with.
That’s great except for when you consider your biggest fear which is that your significant other doesn’t actually care.
You fear that they’re just in this relationship to get something out of it. That’s not an easy fact to face once you’ve become completely attached to them and the idea of them.
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Leo (July 23 - August 22)
You are confident and are always on the move. So what happens when your one and only tries to tie you down? (And I don't mean by putting a ring on it.)
That’s your biggest fear because you are super loyal to them, but you also have to be loyal to yourself and your wants and needs.
You become completely torn on what to do. It would be so much easier if they shared your desire for keeping busy and involved.
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Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
You tend to pay attention to the little things, which is both a blessing and a curse. You notice when your significant other is acting the littlest bit off and you convince yourself that all your relationship fears are coming true.
They just don't care about you or the relationship. Of course, this is most likely not the case, but once you convince yourself that's happening, there’s almost no going back.
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Libra (September 23 - October 22)
One of your weaknesses is your indecisiveness. This becomes an issue early on in the relationship when they actually want to define it, and you’re just not sure where you are emotionally.
You fear that others will move too quickly in your relationships and leave you confused and frazzled which may lead you to make choices you’re just not yet ready to make.
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Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
You are a calm individual and can’t stand when people rush through life — everything will happen when it’s meant to happen. So when you meet someone and they show you their five-year-plan, you know it’s not meant to be.
You fear people who will move too quickly not because they haven’t thought things through, but because they’re simply not experiencing and enjoying all that life can offer.
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Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Your biggest fear in a relationship is plain and simple. You fear that they just wont capture your attention, or it just wont be exciting enough for you.
You have an intense thirst for adventure and fun, and you wont settle for any old cookie-cutter relationship.
You need drama, excitement, adventure, and surprises. Otherwise, you’ll lose interest about 5 minutes in.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
You are a master of self control, which means you don't need anyone else to be controlling you.
Not only is there nothing more unattractive than someone who is going to make all of your decisions for you, it is also your biggest fear. You never want to feel trapped.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
You’re a natural problem solver and sometimes problems take time, especially if you want the problem solved correctly.
So your biggest fear in your relationship is when your significant other tries to sweep the problem under the rug or look for the quick fix.
You know this wont work and that the problem will only return later on, bigger and badder.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
You will do anything to help others, especially the ones you love. The only thing is that you kind of expect the same in return.
In fact, your biggest fear is that you won't get the same in return. You know how important it is to be there for each other in a relationship and you wont settle for anything less.
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