Zodiac Signs That Won't Forgive (And The Ones That Believe In Second Chances)
Are you a grudge-holder?
Gorynvd / Shutterstock Anger is personal. When someone gets angry, usually their feelings and ego are involved.
Maybe you don't have an anger problem, but someone you love isn't happy with you at all. You've really messed up now!
But will they ever forgive you? If you're looking for answers to whether or not you've got a chance at forgiveness, look to astrology. Their horoscope and zodiac sign may hold the key to healing your relationship.
You forgot that special anniversary your loved one wanted you to remember... for the fourth time. You're trying to be the type of man or woman that they deserve, but things happen.
You broke your parents' prized glass China because you were a little tipsy that one night. Or, in a small misunderstanding, you "accidentally" aired out your friend's dirty laundry on Facebook in an emotional rage.
Some couples have relationships that are more complicated than others, and you really were just trying to help. Will they eventually forgive you? Or will they cling on to their frustration and rage with a death grip, never resting until you pay?
You know their anger is hiding something, perhaps even trying to protect you from what they really want to say, but you just want the problem resolved. You've asked for forgiveness, but right now, the silent treatment is deafening.
Will it ever happen? Well, it all depends on their zodiac sign, your history together, and how close you are. Some zodiac signs have a forgiving nature as told in their horoscope.
Here are the zodiac signs from most to least likely to forgive you after you've made them angry, according to astrology. Let's hope it will all turn out okay!
1. Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Peace-loving Libra values harmony above all else, and will absolutely forgive you! They are extremely diplomatic and will use their great communication skills to solve problems.
Libras can sometimes be too forgiving. You can find them randomly apologizing to others even when they aren't in the wrong. It's important for Libras to keep their balance and self-respect.
When you're giving out a fifteenth chance, maybe its time to throw in the towel. Don't put up with things just to keep the peace.
2. Gemini (May 22 - June 21)
Gemini is so focused on other things that they'll likely forget what they were mad at you about. These twins have two minds and are all over the place!
Never the stubborn one, Gemini moves freely in as many directions as they choose to. With their sharpened social skills, Gemini believes that the best way to solve problems is to talk it out.
Though they can have biting sarcasm if the problem goes unsolved, if Gemini has been hurt they want to understand the other person's point of view.
3. Cancer (June 22 - July 22)
If Cancer believes you are deserving, they will give you another shot. Cancer will try to sympathize with you, wanting to know what you did and why you did it.
Don't forget that this crab does have pinchers. Cancer can be easily hurt and has a little bit of difficulty truly letting go.
They are blessed with having an enormous amount of empathy, and can use their compassion for the greater good. They just have to tap into that deep insight to forgive.
4. Sagittarius (November 23 - December 21)
Sagittarius can be extremely stubborn, but they'll give you a second chance to make it up to them. If you need a third chance, you're out of luck!
They are extremely intelligent, being able to read into your situation enough to take a walk in your shoes. Sagittarius takes your relationship back to square one and gives you a fresh start.
Don't ever take advantage of them. Sagittarius may be happy-go-lucky but they will easily demolish you when push comes to shove.
5. Aries (March 21 - April 19)
You can bet that an Aries will be angry! When the first stages of anger pass they will be more than willing to forgive and forget.
Aries can easily wipe the slate clean, and your relationship will improve. Don't mention what you did again, or you will experience another burst of anger. You may have done something to hurt Aries, but chances are they've unintentionally hurt you too.
This ram can sometimes have trouble seeing other people's feelings. In the end, forgiveness isn't too difficult for an Aries.
6. Aquarius (January 21 - February 18)
Aquarius will avoid you because of their difficulty expressing their feelings. After a bit of time, they will forgive you to set a good example for themselves and others.
To forgive or not to forgive is the question that Aquarius ponders. Aquarius is unpredictable when it comes to forgiving. Sooner or later they'll figure out that it's better for them to forgive you.
They work best without the emotional baggage. You may have a list of conditions you have to fill, though.
7. Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Angering Leo isn't advised. They have explosive tempers that will leave you trembling. If they don't forgive you it means that they didn't like you enough to begin with.
If this relationship goes downhill, Leo will be more upset with themselves for having trusted you than anything else.
Leo will not tolerate you stepping on their ego. You must respect them and fully appreciate what they do. As long as you don't cross that line everything will eventually go back to normal.
8. Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
An enraged Virgo needs to know why you did it, how you did it and if you will do it again. They can always forgive but will never forget.
They would like to improve their relationship with you even if they've been wronged. But you aren't out of the woods yet. You still have to meet their downright crazy expectations before they would even consider forgiving you.
You're going to have to pull your weight if you want them to finally let bygones be bygones. Even when your relationship goes back to the status quo they'll keep bringing up!
9. Capricorn (December 22 - January 20)
Once Capricorn is angry, there's almost no way to make it up to them. The naturally cautious Capricorn will remember it and use it as a reason why you're a jerk and no good for them.
Forgiveness is not easy. They do not want to take chances of the same thing happening to them again.
They see the past as a glimpse into the kind of future they will have with you. The heartbreak, pain, and anything remotely negative is what they plan to avoid.
The only way to salvage this relationship is if you've consistently been dependable to them in the past.
10. Taurus (April 20 - May 21)
Angering this bull is an expressway to your relationship being in the graveyard. The more you try to fix it, the bigger the hole you dig.
Taurus is hands down the most stubborn sign. They refuse to let it go. Once Taurus is crossed, in their mind they'll label you negatively. From then on they will begin reacting and think of you as if you're a disease.
You politely hold the door open for them? It means you're hiding something. Let's say you try to win them over by getting a gift? They'll think you're trying to emotionally blackmail them.
Taurus has to learn to forgive you on their own, but it will be an uphill battle.
11. Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
When you've angered Pisces or made them feel terrible about themselves, even though they are sensitive creatures, forgiveness is something that often makes things worse.
You see, Pisces tend to forgive a little too easily, and when they get taken advantage of, it makes it difficult for them to trust you.
Though they don't hold grudges and forgive people to avoid conflict altogether, once you've gotten on their bad side after they have let you off the hook, it will be almost impossible to get into their good graces.
A word of advice: don't take advantage of Pisces and their terrible decision-making skills.
12. Scorpio (October 23 - November 22)
If you made Scorpio angry, your only option is to get out! The only way you'll be safe from Scorpio's deadly fury is if you join the witness protection program.
Forgiveness is not in their vocabulary, and they'll get even with you one way or another. Scorpio's poison is lethal.
The grudges they hold are legendary, spanning decades or even lifetimes. Sometimes they resort to spying to gather the information they need to exact their revenge.
If Scorpio forgives you right away, watch out. They could be manipulating you into a false sense of security. Watch your back.
Jamille Jones is a freelance writer who taught English in Hiroshima, Japan for 2 years. She writes about relationships and pop culture.