Why She Went Cold & Doesn't Want A Relationship, According To Astrology

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Why She Went Cold (And Doesn't Want A Relationship), According To Her Zodiac Sign
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Want to know why she went cold towards you all of a sudden?

Personalities like zodiac signs are peculiar things. You can get along with someone in a flash and think you've made a soulmate connection.

Then, suddenly, for whatever reason whatsoever things don't work out the way that you planned. You have no idea why. 

She seemed to be interested in you and you expressed how much she meant to you. You text one another a million times a day keeping.

There were times when you tried overcome your own flaws, but there were no red flags or signals that your relationship wasn't headed in a positive direction.

It's not that she's ghosted you or even called you off as a friend. She's just not interested. You're not even sure how you got friend zoned.

But, what seemed like stars aligning between two compatible zodiac and Sun signs, personality traits, hobbies and interests, she's cold. You're lost, and the whole situation makes no sense at all.

Relationships are hard. They are even harder when one of the two parties is suddenly acting cold, uninvested and/or uninterested altogether.

When one person is cooling off just as the other is beginning to heat up (don’t be gross), it can be extremely overwhelming especially when you have no idea why.

In any relationship it can be difficult when one person suddenly doesn’t feel as into it as you. But it’s especially chilling (see what I did there) in a romantic relationship.

Maybe it’s time to breakup … or maybe that’s quitter talk! Maybe there is something small and fixable going on here. Depending on how long you’ve been trying to make this relationship work, there could be numerous reasons she’s acting different towards you.

Getting to know someone is difficult and understanding how they function can be anxiety inducing. The reason she is acting odd could be as simple as you don’t know how her moods well enough to know how they fluctuate.

I mean, come on, you’re not always a ray sunshine yourself. Don’t expect her to be.

But it’s also possible you’ve spent enough time with her to know that your concerns are valid here. She may legitimately be acting cooled off and that can be scary (especially if you’re still very much NOT cooling off).

Men like to pretend that they don’t get upset, but we all know you do. This anxiety inducing change in her behavior can’t be fun. I know this isn’t easy for you, but it’s not hopeless.

There could be a simple explanation for why she’s acting this way. I mean, she could have just broken up with you if she wasn’t interested anymore, right?  

Read on to find out why she could be “going cold” towards you and your relationship, according to her zodiac sign using astrology.

1. ARIES (March 21 – April 19)

An Aries is likely to be passionate, courageous and determined; but nobody can be this way ALL the time.

If an Aries you’ve been getting close to lately has started acting cold towards you it may be that they have recently taken a personal blow (maybe to their career, emotional life or ego) and are temporarily not feeling their normal optimistic, enthusiastic and confident selves.

An Aries tends to be extremely honest though, so if you’re really concerned, go ahead and ask them what’s up. Just be ready for some brutal truths if they’re ready to open up about whatever is wrong.

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2. TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)

The Taurus dislikes sudden changes or complications of any kind. If a Taurus you’ve been getting close to lately is suddenly acting cold towards you.

They may be going through a sudden life change or complication that they’re not ready to deal with yet. Try not to worry too much, the Taurus’s reliable nature should have them back to you in no time.

3. GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

If the Gemini you’ve been getting close to suddenly feels cold towards you, it could simply be because of the Gemini’s tendency to be inconsistent. They may be cold today, but tomorrow they may have warmed right on back up to you.

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4. CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

A Cancer’s tendency to be extremely emotional and sensitive could mean that the reason they have been feeling cold towards you is that you have hurt their feelings in some way.

Evaluate your past behavior and see if there is anything you may have done and/or said that may have upset them. Warning: Cancer’s CAN be very manipulative people so be careful that you’re not getting played.

5. LEO (July 23 – August 22)

If a Leo you’ve been getting close to is suddenly acting cold towards you, it is likely that they don’t feel as if you are treating them like they deserve.

The Leo’s tendency to be a bit dramatic mixed with their need to always be treated like royalty make them hard to please. But don’t worry too much, the Leo’s generous and warm hearted nature will make them come around in no time.

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6. VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)

Virgos have a tendency to have serious problems asking for help and have trouble handling it when people are rude to them.

If the Virgo in your life is suddenly acting cool towards you, evaluate your behavior and see if anything you’ve done recently could be seen as “rude””.

If not, consider asking them if they need help with anything, this may be just the nudge she needs to accept your assistance.

7. LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)

A Libra’s tendency to carry a grudge and avoid confrontations means that if a Libra you’re close to is acting cold towards you, they may still be mad about the last thing you fought about. It is equally possible that she may be avoiding you to avoid having another fight. Tread lightly.

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8. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)

Scorpio’s have trouble handling any level of dishonesty. If a Scorpio you’re close to is suddenly acting cold, it could be that she thinks you’re being less than completely honest with her about something.

9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)

People with the Sagittarius zodiac sign have a general dislike for any behavior that could be described as “clingy”. If the Sagittarius you’ve been spending time with lately is all of a sudden acting cold, consider whether any of your recent behaviors could be coming across as a bit “over the top”.

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10. CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)

If the Capricorn in your life is acting more cool towards you than normal consider that it may just be in their nature. Capricorns have a tendency to be annoyed by almost anything and everything at some point or another.

11. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)

People under the Aquarius zodiac sign are prone to being humanitarians with a progressive outlook on life that have trouble handing it when people disagree with them. Plus, they don’t handle their emotions very well.

If the Aquarius in your life is acting cold all of a sudden, consider any past disagreements about social issues. It’s possible that she’s still upset about a past disagreement and is just uncomfortable expressing it.

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12. PISCES (February 19 – March 20)

The Pisces have trouble with criticism and have a tendency to being sad more than others. If the Pisces in your life is cooling off suddenly, it’s possible you were overly critical of her in the past or it could just be a “blue” period for her right now.

Nicole Bradley-Bernard is a writer who needs coffee more than she needs anyone’s approval. She enjoys putting bright colors in her curly brown hair, spending time outside on cool days and being with her partner in life, Eric, who she considers a continuing source of inspiration.