Your Zodiac Sign's Love Tarot Card Horoscope For The Week Of November 27 To December 3, 2017

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Here's how you can end the cycle of power struggles in your relationship.

There are five stages of falling in love.

The first stage is that of lust. The instantaneous meeting of eyes across a room and the sudden sensation that if the world had been different from the way it is, you would have thrown this person against a wall and done the deed right then and there. But the world is not as savage as it used to be during the caveman's era, and so we move onto the second stage... if we are fortunate to have mutual attraction.

The second stage of love is that of infatuation. You just can't get enough of the other person! Nothing they do can upset you. Not even if they fart during dinner when you are sitting in the poshest restaurant in town.

And then the third stage creeps in: The stage of disillusionment. How did the two of you even end up together? What were you thinking? Thoughts like this and others go through your mind quite often in the company of your equally disgruntled other. I mean, he doesn't even put the toilet seat down once he is done.

The third stage gradually changes into the fourth: The stage of power struggles. You love this person too much to leave him (or her). But you definitely cannot stand some of the things they do. So you try to change him, just the way he tries to change you. 

Unfortunately, for most couples, this is the last stage of love they ever witness before they either break up and move on, or grow old and die. And they are the very people who invented this saying about love: "You can't live with it, you can't live without it."

But what these people never find out is the last stage of love: The stage of unconditional, real, lasting love. The kind that can exist across long distances even when the two people are separated from each other forever. One that is strong because both individuals are strong independently and have hearts brimming over with love that they want to share with each other. True allies who are as much lovers as they are best friends.

And reaching this stage is not easy. Maybe that's why most never experience it in their lifetime. But that doesn't mean no one ever has.

So if you want to be one of those rare few couples, your weekly horoscope and tarot card reading for November 27 to December 3, 2017 will tell you what you need to do to reach that last stage in your relationship, all based on your zodiac sign.

ARIES: Sacrifice

Aries, you are the baby of the zodiac. And just like a child, you want to accomplish and possess everything without giving anything back in return.

Unfortunately, relationships are not built on selfishness; they are built on sacrifices. Short-term sacrifices and compromises that build trust between the partners and show that each is willing to meet the other halfway.

So be compassionate, Aries. You may not know how to nurture someone yet or how to compromise, but that's not an excuse not to learn it ever. After all, would you ever let a fifth grader get away with not learning geometry because they have never learned it before in their life?

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TAURUS: 4 of Staves

When you look at the 4 of Staves, you see a man and a woman tying the knot underneath a large floral canopy. And that, Taurus, is what you need to reach the fifth stage of love: strong, stable commitment and a happy union.

Whether that means marriage or a lifelong partnership based on free will and trust is up to you. But you definitely need to put down roots before you can experience that unconditional love.

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GEMINI: 4 of Arrows

Gemini, maybe the reason why you haven't experience lasting love yet is because you keep searching for a better relationship.

So, the Tarot's advice for you is this: Take some time off and introspect. Because without knowing who you are and what you can do to mend your own fatal flaws, you will always be stuck right where you are right now.

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CANCER: Prince of Staves

Cancer, the Tarot's advice for you today may frighten you at first. But listen carefully, nevertheless. 

If you want to feel lasting, unconditional love, you need to stop searching for it within your relationship and try to bring it to the world first. So connect with your soul and its mission here on Earth.

Why were you born? What is your purpose? Find out and then start living it. And then inspire others to live their own mission in life.

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LEO: Strength

Leo, the beauty and the beast both live within us. And while you may like to live through the beauty most of the time but deep inside you, you know that you also have a beast lurking in the shadows. A beast that comes out when it is the most inconvenient. But shutting it out and pretending it does not exist is not the path to happiness.

Because true strength is not about brute force and power. It is the strength to show compassion to your shadow self when all you want to do is tear it out and disown it. It is the strength to know that you are both the beauty and the beast, and that does not make you weak, but stronger.

Compassion breeds lasting love. But to love another compassionately, you need to first show yourself the same.

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VIRGO: Power

Here's the deal, Virgo. You want to feel lasting and unconditional love. But to get there you need to first understand the nature of the power struggles you always find yourself embroiled in.

Most relationships suffer because of an imbalance of power. Sometimes one partner has the upper hand and sometimes the other does. Unfortunately, love is not about who has got the other dancing on their finger. It is about knowing that you are equals and, therefore, have equal power in the relationship and equal responsibility.

So tap into your inner wisdom and see your relationship for what it truly is, and then inspire each other to become what you both envision it to be.

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LIBRA: 5 of Coins

You feel poor in love, Libra. Like a beggar who has lost hope after knocking on many doors and has now realized that she may never find what she is looking for — a soul who will fill her up and make her feel whole. The problem is you have been looking in the wrong places all your life.

Libra, the truth is no one can fill that gaping hole in your heart. No one but your own self. And the path to healing that bottomless pit lies through a lot of pain. The pain of introspection and growing up. Of building your self-esteem and self-compassion.

There are no quick fixes in love. Are you willing to invest in yourself before you are capable of investing in another, Libra? The choice, ultimately, is yours alone.

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SCORPIO: Judgment

Wow! Just... wow. Scorpio, this week the Tarot decided to serve you the same card as last week. It seems that out of all the zodiac signs, you are the one who is facing a life-changing moment now.

So I will repeat what I said last time: You can either choose fear and live a life full of regrets, or choose courage and experience something that will change your life forever. So, what's it going to be?

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SAGITTARIUS: 10 of Arrows

They say experience is the best teacher. But that is not completely true. Won't you agree, Sagittarius? Don't you think experience is the best teacher only when you actively dissect it and learn something from it? After all, humanity has a history of repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

So don't make the same mistake now. A certain phase of your life may have ended at the moment, but it is not the end in the grand scheme of things. So learn from this experience and vow to not repeat the same mistakes again.

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CAPRICORN: Fertility

Fertility can mean a lot of things, Capricorn. It can mean bearing a child, producing a work of art, or nurturing a relationship until it thrives.

But whatever the meaning might be for you in your unique life, the fact remains that you will only experience lasting love when you open your heart and let yourself tap into your hidden stream of emotions and nurturing ability.

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AQUARIUS: Ace of Coins

Having ideas and trying to revolutionize the world is all well and good, Aquarius. But we are living in the material plane and need to focus on the material aspect of life as well.

So focus on that. On this new venture that will bear fruits in the future. Or simply relish in the experiences of the material world and the contentment it brings. The way to lasting love is through fulfillment. And at this moment, fulfillment for you lies through the valley of coins.

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PISCES: 3 of Arrows

You have been heartbroken for a long time now, Pisces. Week after week we see cards that show only grief and offer up advice that is difficult to accept when your heart is in pieces.

Therefore, I will leave you with a short message this time: Lasting love cannot happen if your heart is too broken to find new love. So forget about everything else for now and just focus on healing yourself. You will know what to do once that process has run its course and you have come out whole on the other side once again.

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Valeria Black is an author and Tarot reader known for her in-depth psychological analyses. You can connect with her on Twitter @ValerieRBlack.