How To Make A Man Fall Deeply In Love

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How To Make A Guy Fall In Love & Want To Get Married

Knock his socks off.

If you're like most women, at some point you've wondered not only how to get a guy to like you, but how to make a man fall in love so deeply that he can't imagine going one single day of the rest of his life without you.

Or, at least, so deeply that he'll want to make a commit (and maybe even get married).

The harsh truth is that there's never a "right time" for most men to commit in relationships, because in general, they're not usually in a big rush to give up their freedom.

The only time a guy is likely to want a relationship is when he believes that he simply cannot afford to lose you.

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It's at that point when the thought of you leaving him and being with another man becomes too much for him to bear that he'll see himself as "ready" to make a serious commitment.

But ... you can help him get there a little bit faster than he otherwise might.

If you want to know how to make a guy fall in love (and maybe even want to get married), follow these 3 simple steps.

1. Tell him that you understand.

When a man says he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, your response should be, "I understand."

Then say nothing else. Pause and wait.

Magically, because you didn't say anything else, he will keep talking in an attempt to explain his reasons to you.

At no point should you argue with him, try to discount what he is saying or attempt to change his mind.

When you say only, "I understand" again once he's finished speaking, he will come to believe you definitely do understand him and his reasons, which will be a great relief to him, and in time, he'll begin to relax and open up to you.

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2. Let him know what you want from him ... or from someone else if he can't provide it.

Once he believes you understand him and see that you still haven't tried to change him or his mind, he will definitely want to have sex with you (as though he didn't already).

When he makes a move to get things going in that direction, respond by telling him all the things you like and appreciate about him, following up with this magic phrase:

"I've made a commitment to myself not to have casual sex. The next person I have sex with will be a man who wants to build a future with me."

Then, if you want, you can dramatically look off into the distance.

This is where he gets the chance to be your hero, because he will become even more attracted to your virtue, as well as your confident self-love.

As we all know, men want to be your hero. And men marry virtue.

3. Say nothing else.

At this point, as much as he loves your "virtue", he may attempt to argue with you, at which point, you should tell him again that you understand.

You have planted the seed, and believe me, he heard you loud and clear.

By letting him know what you want — generally, in life and with someone (even if not specifically with him) — you've given him the opportunity to decide that he wants to a commitment to you because he wants you and not because you demanded it of him.

He feels no pressure from you, and you reinforce for yourself that if it's not him, it will be someone else.

It takes a lot of patience to pull this off, but it does work.

Give it a try and get the commitment and relationship you want.

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James Allen Hanrahan is a highly sought after relationship coach for STRONG women based in Los Angeles. Get his free Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love.