How To Attract A Sagittarius Man

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How To Attract A Sagittarius Man

Attracting a man is complicated. Finding out ways to get his attention can include learning about his zodiac sign's personality traits.

How do you attract a Sagittarius man?

How to attract a Sagittarius man starts with one rule — you need to be yourself.

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Sagittarius men are drawn to honesty, thanks to their own blunt personality. Sagittarius men are interested in adventure, too.

If you love to learn, a Sagittarius man will find this intriguing. Attract a Sagittarius man with your personality and then let your natural astrology and zodiac compatibility handle the rest.

Sagittarius men are born between the dates of November 21 - December 21. Ruled by the planet Jupiter, Sagittarius men are as over-achieving as they are under-rated.

Befriending a Sagittarius is easy as cake. No, pie. Attracting one, however, is tricky. Even trickier than a Sagittarius himself.

However, if you want to date one, how do you attract a Sagittarius man?

Here are some ideas on how to get a Sagittarius man's attention, per astrology:


How to attract a Sagittarius man — less is more.

Too much, too soon will be the death of your relationship with a Sagittarius man. It's ten times worse, no, twenty times worse, no, fifteen million times worse than too little too late.

Actually, it will be in your best interest to show up fifteen minutes late on your next few dates. Before you arrive, shoot him a brief text along the lines of "omw" or "cu soon."

Be sure to text in all lowercase. Never all caps and no exclamation points whatsoever. You'll give off the impression you're extra.

If a Sagittarius feels as though he is being complimented excessively or appreciated too much, he will surely retreat.

It's great that you've finally found someone you're interested in, but that doesn't mean he's ready to take it to the next level.

Playing it cool is never cool unless you're trying to attract a Sagittarius man.

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How to attract a Sagittarius man — surprise him.

Even better, surprise yourself. Wear all black. Attend poetry readings. Denounce poetry, but always read it. Drink black coffee in the snow.

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Wear sunglasses on a rainy day. Eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Sing to the flowers. Sing to them again. Sagittarius men are subversive. Subversive people attract.

Don't try to be mysterious, just be mysterious. Nobody likes a try-hard. Especially not a Sagittarius man.

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How to attract a Sagittarius man — stop hovering at one hundred.

Seriously, take a chill pill. No, take twenty. He didn’t respond to your text for three hours? Tough cookies. Nothing will escalate his doubts about you like bombarding him with text messages.

Turn off your phone, and go for a walk. You cannot obsess your way through the emotional wall he's built up. You won't earn brownie points for shattering his reasonable barriers.

This isn't a manipulation tactic. He's an adult with boundaries. Respect them.

So don't be a stage five clinger! Don't ruin a good thing by texting him "hey, haven't heard from you in three hours. Are you mad at me? I'm mad." Personal space is a beautiful thing. Let him flood his insides with beauty. Capeesh?

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How to attract a Sagittarius man — take him on an adventure.

Sagittarius men are constantly seeking adventure. Their boredom is your worst enemy. A Sagittarius man wants what he wants and doesn’t waste his time on what he doesn't.

They’re not the type to peel the band-aid off slowly. In fact, they kind of expect you to rip-off the band-aid yourself. Be careful. Sagittarius men are prone to ghosting.

While routine soothes your average Taurus or Cancer, it can break a Sagittarius down. Knowing what to expect will be detrimental to the psychological framework of their mind. A Sagittarius likes to keep things fresh.

So shake up his world on your next date. Take him dumpster diving, or to an alpaca farm. Be inventive. The world is your oyster.

Why meet up at a lousy bar for some lousy drinks and lousy conversations. I said, be inventive! You have one life. Live it. And take your Sagittarius man along for the ride.

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Izzy Casey is a writer who covers pop culture and body positivity. Her work is published in or forthcoming from Corriere della Sera, The Iowa Review, Bennington Review, Gulf Coast, Black Warrior Review, BOATT, NY Tyrant, and elsewhere. She received her MFA from the Iowa Writers’ Workshop.