How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You

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How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You

Born between March 21 and April 19, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and its presence in astrology symbolizes the start of something energetic.

A man born with an Aries zodiac sign looks for dynamic and speed.

He's competitive. He wants to be the first in everything.

An Aries man tends to lead with his instincts.

He tends to lean forward once he knows what it is that he wants, especially in love.

How to get an Aries man obsessed with you?

Using astrology, you can explore the inherent wants of an Aries man to capture his attention.

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Aries men are the most active out of the zodiac and it’s natural for them to take action.

The moment he begins to chase you is when you know you've caught his interest.

But how do you get it in the first place?

If you want to help the process of love a long, using astrology, tune into his zodiac sign.

Here's how to make an Aries man obsessed with you, based on his horoscope sign:

1. Stroke his ego.

Don’t be shy and be a huge flirt.

Aries tends to be a fiery and passionate sign.

If your insecurities take over rather than your impulsivity, an Aries will skip over you. 

So, start flirting straight out of the gate and make sure to keep at it.

In the eyes of an Aries, flirting can keep a situation very exciting.

Try to keep it entertaining with subtle ambiguities and puns. 

2. Be receptive.

Body language is VERY important.

Aries men tend to be concerned with their bodies, so appeal to that side of him.

For example, if you walk by him, touch him for a split second.

Aries men can be quite sensual and they would enjoy something as small as this.

Even though Aries men like to be physical, they also enjoy an intellectual woman.

So, don’t only focus on your physical looks.

3. Show your inner strength.

Be your most confident self.

To balance his enthusiasm and drive, an Aries man would love someone with a strong personality.

Even if you express your admiration for him, it doesn’t hurt to do that with confidence.

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Even though Aries men tend to love a damsel in distress, they would still want an independent woman.

Make sure to show that you love yourself and that you don’t necessarily anyone else to do it for you.

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4. Be adventurous.

Spontaneity has to run in your blood.

Aries men love to explore new things and they would want someone that’d enjoy that as well.

An Aries man is always planning the next adventure and if he invites you, you shouldn’t decline.

If he hasn’t invited you quite yet, make it know that you enjoy his interests.

It’s rare for an Aries man to find someone who enjoys the same things or shares his enthusiasm.

Which is why he’d appreciate you more if you share his interests.

5. Love freedom.

Independence is key.

An Aries man will be obsessed with you more if you show that you have a life of your own.

Having a life outside of him will make him more curious as to what you do when you’re not around him.

Even though you should be invested in his adventurous and spontaneous lifestyle, you should have one of your own.

Make sure to invest in yourself and the life that you have built for yourself.

6. Be optimistic.

Don’t be judgemental when he opens up.

Aries men tend to have tough exteriors, but they are actually teddy bears on the inside.

So, it will take a lot before they let their walls down; when they do, try to be the shoulder they cry on.

After an Aries man opens up to you, please don’t judge him.

Accept him for who he is and he will appreciate that. He will demonstrate that appreciation with his loyalty.

7. Challenge his mind.

Challenge him with your intelligence.

Aries men tend to like a challenge as it’s a way to show that they are up for it.

An Aries man doesn’t back down and they wouldn’t want to lose, but they appreciate the challenge.

They love it when one can push their intellectual boundaries.

Plus, Aries men love it when you can carry on a conversation with them.

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Chinyere Ibeh is a writer who covers entertainment and pop culture news, along with quotes and zodiac signs.