What A First Kiss Means To You & When You Want It To Happen, By Zodiac Sign

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When Is The Right Time For Your First Kiss, By Zodiac Sign
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A first kiss can make or break a relationship. 

No matter what your age, a first kiss is special, especially when it's with someone you care deeply about. You want to be a good kisser, and perhaps the thought of exchanging saliva with someone scares you.

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It's surprising how much value is given to the first time you lock lips with another human being. First, there's the issue of chemistry, and the way noses align just right leading up to the place, and the timing of a simple peck.

For some people, they finally reach an age where they start to see their first kiss as perhaps their last one with someone new. When you get married, you are promising to save all of your kisses for that one person you pledge your life to.

When you kiss your spouse on your wedding day in front of the world or in a private ceremony with a select few,  you are kissing a fiancee for the last time, and now sharing a special moment with a spouse who you want to love forever.

Perhaps, you've saved up your last kiss all of this time and wonder when that time will come for you. Are you reaching that age where you imagine what your first kiss will feel like or even taste like?

It's natural to ask yourself certain questions when you've never been kissed before or when you become single again and are looking to share your love with a new person.

Everyone asks themselves, Who will my next first kiss be with? Where do I want it to happen? Do I want a peck on the cheek, a kiss on the forehead or full French kissing?

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When you date someone and you realize you may actually have the opportunity for the relationship to become something more, you start to wonder if kissing him (or her) will be magical or spur of the moment?

Is it going to be like a princess fairy tale where the one you love sweeps you off your feet and you live happily ever after?

You may ask yourself how many dates should pass before having that first kiss with one another? Should you be a couple or test the waters out? For some zodiac signs, kissing is casual and for others, it's a signal that they are committed and falling in love. 

Everyone puts so much pressure on a first kiss because in some ways it's even more intimate than holding hands. Some people think it's more special than sex, even! The ancient practice of this special moment has changed from rubbing noses, or even eye lash aka butterfly kissing. Now, there's flavored lip glosses to try, breath mints to buy, and even Youtube videos explain how to and what each type means.

There's stress and anticipation before that moment, but there shouldn't be. There is no need to be nervous or to just find any joe shmoe to get it over with because you want to say you have kissed someone and don't let someone dare you into just giving away your first kiss.

You want this to be special because you only have one first kiss. So, don't jump the gun, your time will come. 

You need to remember that everyone goes at their own pace. You shouldn't rush into it because if you aren't really ready, you will regret not waiting for the rest of your life. Take the time to get to know that special person who makes you feel butterflies in your stomach.

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Don't appear more than who you actually are or, shall I say, fake because you have heard so much gossip on "what men like their women to act." But don't listen to that mess because there is that one special person in the world who is meant for you.

Yes, he may be stuck in the middle of the desert riding a turtle, but he is out there. You will find your soulmate and that person will love you just the way you are. Then, go for it. Have your first kiss with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. 

Find out what stage of life or in your relationship you may have your first lip-lock with someone you really care for by zodiac sign.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

First kiss as a couple, the third or fourth date

Aries are very enthusiastic and jump in with both feet. You will not be timid when you have your first kiss as a couple. For your personality, you will probably have your very first kiss very early in life, probably during your early teens. You are not shy to jump into a relationship and learn everything you can as quickly as you can.  

You might prefer a first kiss after a few dates, because you like the fun of getting to know someone, but if you really find that person attractive, you may make an exception and kiss on that first date because why not?

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

First kiss as a couple, when you know you are in a real relationship

A Taurus’ kiss is very intimate. You are very expressive in kissing and you may be knocked off your feet the first time you kiss someone. As a Taurus, you will want to be wooed. If someone puts in the effort to romance you, you will find it easier to jump into your first kiss.

So, when did you have your first kiss? You may still be waiting and will surely know it’s the right time because you will be ready. If you've already had, it was with someone you truly loved with all your heart, perhaps even until this day.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

First kiss as a couple, it depends on the situation

Gemini’s are very giggly when it comes to intimacy, so kissing can be a sport as much as it is for love. A Gemini understands the nervous tension and excited anticipation of their first kiss.

If you work to put your significant other at ease and more comfortable with the idea of a first kiss, you will find that your patience will set you up for the perfect first kiss when you are comfortable.

As a teenager, you may have had some experience with kissing before graduating from high school. Now as an adult, you might dive right in on the first date, just because.

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

First kiss as a couple, when you feel safe, and definitely in a romantic place

A Cancer’s kiss will feel like home. You will be drawn into your first kiss because there is such a pull between you and your significant other. Your first kiss will be both exactly what you need your first time, tender, flirty and heartfelt, and also deep and sensual.

You will probably want to wait until you are a little older and are deeper into a relationship before you have your first kiss. You want to make sure that there is compatibility between you both, so kissing may take place after a few dates once you're certain you are falling in love. 

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

First kiss as a couple, second date

You will be swept up in a wisp of passion when you are going to have your first kiss. You will be deeply attracted to your partner. You will know when you are ready for your first kiss once you have imagined it in your head over and over and you can’t fight the temptation anymore.

You will most likely wait until you know your partner a bit better before you have your first kiss ever. You don’t want a fling, so you want to know that there is a deeper connection between you both, so you want to make sure it's special and that there's mutual respect and understanding involved. Your first kiss with your significant other may happen after a dinner date, right at the door when you're ready to say goodnight.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

First kiss as a couple, a month of steady dating

You may be very nervous or are putting off your first kiss because you have larger than life expectations of how it’s going to go. You are very methodical so you want everything to be perfect about your experience or you just won’t give in.

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You will most likely wait until you are more comfortable with your partner before you attempt your first kiss because you don’t want the let down of finding out that it doesn’t live up to your imagination. 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

First kiss as a couple, first date

You are very seductive and are made for romantic relationships. So you will probably have your first kiss early on in life because you let yourself express your sensuality. You will never forget your first kiss because it will be epic and exploding in passion. 

You might want your first kiss to happen right away when you feel the moment of love come on strongly. When it doesn't happen the way that you hoped, it can leave you wondering if things are going anywhere in the future. 

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

First kiss as a couple, before the first date

Your first kiss will always be with you. You will feel permanently marked by this kiss. So, it’s not something to take lightly for your first kiss. You will remember the long-lasting, sensual and deep kiss. You will find that you lost track of any semblance of time. Make sure you are confident in your relationship before you decide to give in to your deepest desires.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

For your first kiss, your partner will have to woo you a little bit more before you are ready. As a Sagittarius, you don’t hesitate for the casual, friendly, spontaneous kiss here and there, but an intimate kiss is much different. You may want to jump in head first and go for it.

If you are going to, you may want to make sure your compatibility is off the charts. Keep the flirting fun, playful and interesting. You are a bit more erratic in your daily life and that translates over into your intimate relationships. Your first kiss will be filled with highs and lows but you will never forget your first kiss.

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

As a Capricorn, you are very hesitant and reluctant to start a relationship. You need to give yourself the time you need to become comfortable with your partner. Your first kiss will be very awkward and you will be beyond shy and nervous.

But that's OK. If you really want it, you will give yourself a perfect pep talk before you go for it. When you have your first kiss, you will feel passion beyond anything you have ever felt before.

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

You will find that your relationships will be quirky and romantic. Your first time kissing someone you like, you will probably blush, but you will get the hang of it quickly. Your first kiss will most likely sweep you off of your feet.

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

You are a natural born kisser. Your first kiss will most likely lead you into the best romantic relationship of your life. You will feel like you have been awakened by your first kiss. You will be left dreamy. Make sure you really like the person you are going to kiss the first time because you will instantly catch feelings for that person.

So, even though you may have the desire from the first moment you see this person, you may want to wait to make sure you are compatible. Oh, what a kiss you will have when you take that first leap.

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Emily Francos is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.