How Venus Moving Into Scorpio Will Affect Your Love Life In The Next Few Weeks

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The only way to get it all is to risk it all.

During early November, Venus moves into Scorpio. Venus, the planet of love, will leave behind peaceful, balanced Libra and move into the deep passionate waters of Scorpio where she’ll be challenging us to risk everything for what sets our hearts on fire.

Venus is the planet that rules how we love and also how we want to be loved. Depending upon where Venus is in our birth charts, we all approach the magic four letter word differently, but when she transits through different zodiac signs, we also are pushed to move through our own phases as well.

Venus had been setting up home quite literally in the sign of Libra. Libra itself is a more feminine sign enjoying partnerships, balance and peace. Sometimes this energy is positive for us, yet at others, it can be detrimental because Libra can lead us to put up with more than we would naturally be inclined to do so.

But that’s where Scorpio comes in. Scorpio is the sign of soulmates, deep passion, erotic expressions of love through sex, heightened desire, intense spiritual connections and high emotional experiences.

It’s kind of a big deal. So, what happens when Venus enters this sign? It doesn’t really care much about keeping the peace or playing house. This time, it wants it all: love, passion, sex and fire.

It’s a time when we are moved to not just talk the good talk, but to actually put in the action behind it.

Venus feels difficulty in Scorpio which means that it probably won’t be an easy transit, especially for those of us who are still trying to hang onto our Libra-like tendencies to keep everything status quo. But Scorpio is also the sign of secrets and, of course, bringing them to light. So we can hide, we can keep our head in the sand and hold onto the ideal that we had approached love and relationships with previously, even if they actually haven’t worked for us.

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The thing is that sometimes secrets aren’t necessarily a bad thing. There are situations like when a new relationship starts or moves into a different level of commitment that we might want to protect the truth around for a while. Not necessarily because this would be a secret from others, but because sometimes we want to keep those things more precious to us closer.

But there’s another fire that’s starting here and that’s that in the midst of when Venus moves into Scorpio. Because when this happens, we are also in the middle of Scorpio season so that is a double-whammy push of this hot and heavy energy. Essentially, we will be feeling this across every area of our lives from our personal routines during the day to our love affairs in the evening.

It’s this combination of heavy Scorpio energy that will be pushing us to step into that frontier where it’s either all or nothing.

We often become caught between worlds, decisions and even people. Sometimes we battle with these choices and situations, and for others, it seems like they happen for a very specific purpose. The questions isn’t what is happening as much as why your soul sought out the lessons it has. Why are you now in a situation where it seems there is an all or nothing agenda?

Ironically, we sometimes approach this standard as a negative one because we outright assume that it means we will be left with nothing; in fact, to get it all is just as likely. In order to move successfully with this transit we have to make the choice to not keep any secrets from ourselves, even if we have those that we might not want to world tweeting about.

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At the very least, we have to keep it 100 percent with ourselves. If we can get real with ourselves, we also step into the position of owning our story which means we then let ourselves take the director seat of our own life; no more playing second hand to someone else’s dreams.

We have to believe that it’s possible to have it all, even if that version differs from how we expected our lives to go. But there’s another important part of all of this that Scorpio is assisting us with: we can’t actually have it all if we don’t find the words to say what it is we want.

Even on the small scale with ourselves, if we don’t speak up and hold the truth in our hearts, there isn’t any way that anyone else would ever be able to sit with our truth either. If we can’t be real about what we want, then we also don’t stand a chance of actually achieving it.

This month isn’t just about love, but about those deep soulmate connections like twin flames. November is twin flame month; pair that with Scorpio season and Venus entering into the same sign and it is like giving us a one-way road into the kind of love there is no returning from.

The kind that marks a before and after in our lives; the one that we’ll never be the same again because of. It’s this energy that’s going to be pushing us past our normal comfort levels and igniting the spark inside to speak up for what it is that we need from the people in our lives that we are the closest to.

The scariest part of getting to the point where a situation has to be all or nothing is because deep down, most of us fear getting it all more than we do losing it. Yet, if we remain afraid to get what we want, it’s because there is still a part of us that doesn’t think we are worthy of it.

So, maybe Venus moving into Scorpio isn’t just about being able to go deep emotional and sexually with our partner, but also with ourselves. Sometimes it’s not enough to just say how far we’ve come; sometimes we actually have to just step up and prove it.

Because we really can have it all, but only once we believe that we can. 

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Kate Rose is an artist, free thinker, lover, writer, passionate yogi, teacher, life coach, mentor, mother, rule breaker and rebel. She truly believes the best is yet to come and waits, with bated breath, to see what it may hold.