7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius Man

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The good, the bad, the Aquarius man.

So you've finally found the perfect man, right? One you hope might be "the one"? Well, if he's an Aquarius man, there's a ton hiding inside his head that you probably don't even know about yet.

If you want to stay in your relationship and be happy (on both sides), learn these things about loving an Aquarius man so you're prepared. Here's a list of 7 things you probably didn't know about Aquarius men, so you can love them just as they are:

1. He's not exactly the best at telling you how he feels.

As compassionate and caring as an Aquarius man can be, speaking his thoughts is NOT one of his best traits. Because of this, he can seem pretty distant sometimes. But don't let it fool you — these guys care a lot about you, your feelings and your relationship. They just may not say it.

But take his non-verbal cues as signs that he's in it to win it. If he kisses you when you get home and smile at your jokes, you've got nothing to worry about.

2. He takes everything you say to heart (so be nice!).

Now knowing that verbal communication of his feelings may not be his forte, be careful with what you say if you are upset with him. These guys really do take it to heart.

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If you're pissed that he didn't call you back and say something like "don't EVER call me again," you can bet your bottom dollar he's probably not going to. So be patient and know that you need to be strong and secure when loving an Aquarius man.

3. He's extremely trustworthy.

When an Aquarius man is single, he's most definitely ready to mingle. He comes across as not-so-much a one-woman man, but make no mistake: he is, but a lot of the time he feels like it's hard to really connect on a deeper level (and he's a deep kind of person!), so if he's not feeling a solid relationship, he's not going to be in it. Period.

Take that as a good thing, though, because if he's with you, then he's WITH you. You and him have a connection. He's not going to mess that up for anything. He'll make sure of it.

4. He won't tell you if he's not feeling your relationship.

On the same token, if you've just been seeing this Aquarius guy and he's not into the relationship, he's probably not going to say anything. Most likely he'll ghost you. I know, it sucks. Why can't he just be clear, right?

Well, it's just not in his nature to deal with these kinds of awkward situations, so give him a little break, move on and don't think much of it.

5. He just wants some time to himself on a regular basis.

As social and exciting an Aquarius guy can be to hang out with, because he's in his head all the time when it comes to his feelings, he needs some alone time to decompress and process those things on his own. Don't take offense; I'm sure there are times when you don't want to be around anyone either.

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So make sure you're giving him enough alone time to just do whatever he wants... no questions asked.

6. If he believes he's right, he's right. That's it.

One thing that can be really difficult for someone in a relationship with an Aquarius man is that he is SUPER stubborn. Like really stubborn. Get the point? So if he thinks that something is right or you are wrong, in his mind, that's just going to be that way. End of story.

That can be really annoying to someone on the outside, understandably, so the best you can do in that situation is just to understand that is just how he is, and make the decision just to agree to disagree. That's what the world is like anyway, right? We don't always get everything our way.

7. He's a really, REALLY good listener.

And lastly, even though we've gone over how much he's in his head all the time and how he's stubborn, the one thing that is undeniable is that your Aquarius man really does listen to you, through and through, and cares while he's doing it.

He honestly is probably the best listener in all of the zodiac, because he's so insanely tuned in to his surroundings and always absorbing everything, so his interest in you is never feigned. Run with that, because it's hard to come by.

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Kayla Cavanagh is a full-time editor and writer living in Central Florida. When she's not feverishly obsessing over spreadsheets and grammar, she enjoys drinking margaritas by the pool, watching movies with her husband, Matt, and dancing with her kids in the living room.