5 Things A Man Can Do To Get More Sex From His Wife

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Want more sex? 5 things a man can do to get more sex from his woman!
Love, Sex

It's not rocket science.

Do you remember those early honeymoon days with your wife, the ones where you both couldn’t get your hands off of each other?

Each day was about "waiting for tonight" and you both had great willing sex. In fact, she even asked for it rather than you begging her. Oh, how you long for those nights of multiple pleasures. 

Men want more sex. Women (after marriage or a long-term relationship) aren't interested. That's the usual see-saw, right?

We should just get used to it, right? Absolutely not! Absolutely not. It’s a myth that women lose their interest in sex after marriage and kids.  Men and women can match each other's needs.

To know how to get your wife to want more sex with you, here are 5 simple things you as a man to get it:

1. Make dinner.

Oh yeah! Does your wife complain that she feels tired and overwhelmed? If yes, take that cue and do something to help her remove one of her things to do, especially when you want sex!

When women are rested and relaxed, they are able to give more, including sex. 

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2. Give her massage.

No, it doesn't have to be a 90-minute spa massage. If she's sitting down, take a few minutes to rub her feet. If she's doing something around the house go over and give a shoulder massage.

The physical touch will release oxytocin which will pay off  — a relaxed wife is a sexy wife. 

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3. Talk to her.

Yes! Ask her how's she's doing? How was her day? What was work like for her? How did it go with the kids? What was the toughest thing in the day for her? 

Just by asking her one of these questions and genuinely listening to her, you will send her a message she matters. Again, this will help her brain prep by releasing oxytocin — the hormone that's also released during orgasms. 

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4. Forget your phone for the evening.

If you are someone that's always on your phone that means there's a highway to your phone and a dirt road connection to your partner.

Do you think you are going to get sex via that connection? Think again! Ditch the phone for an evening and see the sparks. 

5. Don't just leave after sex.

I don't mean cuddling if that's not your style. Stick around and ask her if she needs something.

Ask her plans for the rest of the day or next day. Really show interest in her life. I mean that's why you are together, right?

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Musarat Yusufali is a clinical licensed social worker taking an integrative approach to healing the mind.