If He Does These 10 Things, He's Proving He Loves You

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If He Does These 10 Things, He's Proving He Loves You

This is how you know for sure.

By Emilia Gordon

In this world full of fake people, it’s difficult to understand who is genuine. Lovers will be there to flatter but the ones who are to stay forever show certain signs. How do we know? If your man does these 10 things, then you will be able to understand that he is your forever man. 

Here are the signs you're in the right relationship:

1. He supports you when you are going through difficult times.

It’s easy to be there for someone during good times. But very few stick along when we actually need them. If your man is your biggest support system and you always have his back whenever you need him, then he’s someone who will be with you forever.

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2. He tries his best to be liked by your friends.

He understands that we all have flaws and it’s okay if he is not liked by some of your peers. But he makes effort to bridge gaps and tries his best to be accepted by your social circle. This is because he is visualizing a future with you and he wants to be a part of your circle; he wouldn’t isolate you from them.

3. He talks a lot about the future.

He doesn’t remain only in the present. He talks of things like where the two of you will settle down together, buy that house you have been dreaming of or go on that vacation you have been talking about for so long. If he sees his future with you and makes you a part of his dreams, then he’s definitely the one who will be there for you always.

4. He’s always his true self when the two of you are together.

He doesn’t hide anything from you and he doesn’t pretend. He isn’t afraid to show his real face because he is serious about you and he doesn’t need to fake. This is a sign he is interested in a long-term relationship with you.

5. He respects you and cares for you.

He doesn’t flatter a lot. Rather, he respects you, your character, your ideologies of life. He cares for you, he’s never rude to you or he doesn’t criticize you or mock you in front of others. This shows the strong love he has for you and that he will remain by your side always.

6. He is always honest no matter how difficult times are.

Even if he’s broke or lost his job, he tells you. He doesn’t need to fake anything to get appreciated by you because he is serious about you. He is honest about everything no matter how tough times. It’s a sign that he will remain honest forever no matter what.

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7. He has introduced you to his friends.

His peers know you and love you. He always talks good about you and they have accepted you as a family. Isn’t it great? You are already a part of his circle and it’s a green signal he has accepted you as his partner.

8. He listens to you always.

He always listens to you because he loves you and he’s responsible. He pays equal attention to your life in the same way he does to his own. This is a sign he will be there for you.

9. He gives you space and doesn’t dominate over you.

He understands that you have your life too and he makes effort to be a part of it. He doesn’t control you or dominate you. It shows how serious he is about the relationship.

10. He always makes an effort to make you smile.

He will bring you your favorite flowers and chocolate, he will crack funny jokes and try to solve your problems just to make you smile. He can’t see you upset and can do anything to cheer you up. He’s a man you should be keeping.

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This article was originally published at The Mind's Journal. Reprinted with permission from the author.