If Your Relationship Has These 10 Components, You Have What It Takes To Last Forever

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10 Major Signs Your Relationship Will Last

You two are meant to be.

Relationships don't always work out and last forever. Issues in everyday life and simple compatibility questions can come to play. These circumstances can make or break a relationship. Some relationships crumble when truly tested. 

However, there are some that seem to flourish and grow even stronger. These couples hold on to certain relationship attributes that totally make them unbreakable. If they were a superhero duo they would rule the world. 

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Can you think of any couple like that in your life? Maybe your friend and her significant other, or your brother and his love. Or maybe even you and your boo? 

These relationships just ooze the vibe that they are truly on the path of forever-ness. They just click and seem to work. But that's the secret, its way more than just clicking. Relationships take work and these couples always truly seem to be willing to put in the time. There is no book with the recipe to make a relationship last until the end of time.

But there are certain attributes that the couple has that makes that bond more inevitable. If you want to find out if you and your honey are set for the path of longevity than check out the list below to see if you are on the right track. 

1. Someone who is your biggest fan.

Your significant other should be someone who supports you in everything you do. Someone who is proud to have you by their side through the good and the bad. He or she should be the person holding up posters in a stadium full of people rooting you on. This person will want to show you off to the world. Your happiness is their happiness. One believes in you even when you do not believe in yourself.

2. The ability to be yourself.

You should never have to change yourself to please someone else. People change when they are ready to do so. The person you date will overlook your flaws; they won’t try to change you. One will accept you for who you are and what you are not. Remember you cannot rely on someone else to bring you happiness. It happens from within first.

3. Clear and effective communication.

Someone who is willing to call you out on your bullshit without fear of retaliation. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to speak to someone in a calm, rational, and logical manner. Your bond should be built on teamwork and seeing your partner as your equal. You should be able to express your opinions, emotions, and problems without fear of judgment.

4. Trust and in turn, loyalty.

Your partner should be able to hand you his or her phone for a day without having anything to hide from you. Don’t be secretive unless you’re planning them a surprise party. Secrets prevent people from trusting one another. You and your partner should have mutual respect for one another.

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5. An honest person.

Honesty is the best policy. Be reliable. Admit to your mistakes. Every human being makes mistakes and there is nothing wrong with that either. Learn to be straightforward and tell the truth. Do not waste your time speaking poorly about others behind their back. Gossiping is an unattractive quality in any person.

6. A good listener.

If someone truly cares about you, then one will be willing to listen to you. One does not necessarily even need to give you advice or solve your problems for you. You should be able to vent to your person when you need consolation.

7. A great sense of humor.

Life is short and there is beauty in not taking yourself too seriously. You should be able to laugh at the ridiculous and silly things you do. Be able to take a joke and not take everything to heart.

8. Someone full of kindness.

In my opinion, this is probably one of the most undervalued qualities in a human being. It’s such an attractive trait to see someone else genuinely care about another person’s well being. Be friendly, generous, and considerate.

9. True compatibility.

The person you date should share the same core values as you. You should be intellectually, sexually, and emotionally attracted to this person especially if you want to be together in the long run. There’s more to a relationship than just sharing some mutual hobbies, you should care about their future aspirations, how they treat others, and whether or not they have a desire to have a family.

10. The ability to maintain independence.

It’s essential to have and maintain your own life outside of your relationship. In every relationship, you give a piece of yourself to that person, but make sure you do not lose your sense of self. Being your own person is important too. You should have your own friends, hobbies, and passions and your partner should want the same too.

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Sarish is a 25-year-old Pakistani American girl with a big heart, short stature, and much to learn. Check out her website and follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

This article was originally published at Thought Catalog. Reprinted with permission from the author.