8 Underrated Behaviors That Make Women Feel Well-Loved, According To Psychology
These low-key gestures may not seem like much, but psychology says they can make a woman feel deeply valued.
Anna Maloverjan | Canva Men may think quite a lot about how to love and care for their wife, girlfriend, or partner. An article by Goodwin University explained that mistakes and failures are essential for growth, development, and comprehension, and relationships might be better understood if you've had bad experiences in the past.
But instead of making these mistakes and having to learn for yourself, learn the underrated behaviors that make women feel incredibly loved and seen. You don't have to tune into your inner Shakespearean Romeo to show the woman in your life that you care about her.
Here are eight underrated behaviors that make women feel well-loved, according to psychology:
1. Consistently make time for her
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When you make her a priority in your life, you will make time. When dating, a lot of guys spend time with the women they like, but not after they're officially together. It's as if they become too comfortable in the level of effort they put in.
But it's just as essential to make time for the woman in your life as everything else. Don't make it a family affair; rather, make it a time for her to relax and have fun with you.
A woman's sense of importance, her feeling of being cared for and loved, is enhanced when she gets time to spend with you. She won't feel taken for granted if you keep dating and wooing her, just like you did in the beginning.
2. Showing genuine gratitude
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Most women go out of their way to nurture, care for, and serve the people in their lives, but there is a great deal of indifference toward their efforts. Even a simple expression of gratitude for everything she has done for you may profoundly impact her outlook on life.
Tell her how much you appreciate that she cooks dinner, does the dishes, or lets you decide what movie you want to watch. The smallest appreciation goes a long way in showing her love.
According to a 2017 study, a man's expression of gratitude in a relationship serves as a powerful way to show a woman she is loved and appreciated, strengthening the emotional bond and promoting a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
3. Accepting her for who she is
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Instead of pointing out her imperfections, praise her for who she is when she's at her best. To truly love a woman, you don't have to alter her or wish she were someone else. There's no need to tell her she's inadequate or doesn't measure up.
Throughout the ages, society has worked tirelessly to create an "ideal" shape for all women. A woman's life is dictated by society; she's told what to eat, how she should appear, and how she should dress. But you don't need to do anything like this, because what you see on the news, in the media, or in popular culture is false.
4. Giving up on trying to change her
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Accepting her is a step in the same direction as learning to let go of attempting to change her. If you want a woman to behave in a specific manner, you can't expect or insist that she do so. You can't alter a woman's nature.
Compassion, understanding, and kindness are the most acceptable ways to assist a woman in achieving her best self. Rather than trying to make her into someone she's not, focus on improving yourself so you can be the best person you can for her.
A 2023 study explained that when a woman feels accepted for who she is it fosters a sense of emotional safety and trust, which are foundational for strong and healthy relationships. A woman who feels loved and valued for who she is, is more likely to be motivated to grow and evolve within the relationship, not because she feels pressured to change, but because she feels supported and cherished.
5. Nurturing compassion
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Compassion and empathy for what she's going through are essential to loving her. Compassion implies being able to relate to and empathize with what she's experiencing daily. Being empathetic and forgiving are some of the most important things you can do to show compassion.
What matters is that you don't always have to be correct. It's allowing her to carry out her plans as she sees fit. To feel empathy, you must put yourself in her shoes.
Compassion is looking at things from her point of view and attempting to understand them. Compassion is being there for her or thinking of her while going through a difficult time in her life. Compassion may even be as simple as making room for her or just hugging her close to ease her pain.
6. Listening attentively
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For many women, talking is a means of self-expression, sharing, and even falling in love with another person. Men may show their love for women by listening to them without attempting to repair, assist, or troubleshoot them. Listening without judgments or offering suggestions makes others feel seen and heard.
In our culture, people tend to want to reply, repair something, or provide advice in every interaction. Instead of criticizing a woman for being who she is, try listening to her with empathy so she feels more comfortable sharing her thoughts and feelings.
Studies show that women report feeling more empowered and respected when men listen attentively, especially when they use 'interdependent listening' strategies like asking open-ended questions, compared to giving unsolicited advice.
7. Being open and vulnerable
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When you express your thoughts and emotions, both good and bad, with a woman, you make her feel cherished. She wants to know about your struggles and difficulties. She wants to be there for you just as much as you want her to be there for you.
To the woman in your life, it's an opportunity to soothe, nourish, and adore her. Talk about how you're feeling, both on the surface and about anything you may be pushing down. It shows that you trust her fully.
8. Committing to improve your relationship
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The most significant thing you can do for the woman in your life is to be the best version of yourself. Develop your skills and knowledge by learning new things. Eliminate negative behaviors and increase your emotional fortitude while decreasing your emotional overreactions.
Even if you spend a lot of time working on your personal growth, you should equally focus on improving your skills as a romantic partner. Learn how to be a better partner by reading books on becoming a better man, attending courses on the subject, and seeking therapy if you believe it will assist you in overcoming negative habits and tendencies in your life.
Women get the rewards of a better you when they sincerely try to become a better version of themselves. It's a significant gain for her when you heal your emotional scars, become a better listener, and become more present in your life. Small gestures of kindness go a long way in making a woman feel loved.
Women feel loved when men are intentional in their actions, making it clear they are devoted to her as a whole person. According to a 2021 study, this includes making time for her, engaging in meaningful conversations, and including her in various aspects of their life.
Fancy vacations and dramatic vows of love don't seem to impress most women. Small, ordinary acts of attention and care appear to mean more than heroic deeds and significant gestures. You may demonstrate affection for her in various ways, from making her life a little simpler to anticipating what she might need.
Make a conscious effort to make a difference in her life by doing little things, like putting your clothes away or washing your dishes. Tell her thank you, listen empathetically, and show up where and when you're supposed to be. These little things mean the world.
Sidhharrth S. Kumaar is an Astro-numerologist and Founder of NumroVani. He couples his knowledge of modern sciences to solve real-world problems in the areas of mental well-being and relationship growth.
