My Significant Other Gave Me This Book — What Does It Mean?

My Significant Other Gave Me This Book — What Does It Mean?

Does he want to break up or spice things up? His choice of literary gift is a tell-all.

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We've seen that books are great for attracting mates. After lovebirds pair off, they tend to take on another function: as excellent (and meaning-loaded) gifts. Every title sends a particular message, and if your partner is in the habit of gifting you reading material, you do well to learn how to decode their offerings. Here, we've broken down five kinds of messages books can send, with five examples to look forward to (or watch out for).

1. The Time Traveler's Wife

They want to take the next step
This bestselling novel doesn't mess around when it comes to the subject of love, and if your sweetheart gives you a copy as a gift, it probably means they don't either. Niffenegger's novel, which Time named one of the 10 most romantic books of all time, tells the story of Henry, a librarian capable of travelling back in time who visits his lover, Claire, at various stages in her life. As the novel progresses, the dimension-hopping inevitably leads to complications — imagine having to date two vastly different versions of the same person at once — but the end result is a picture of true love that cuts across every kind of barrier, quantum-mechanical and not.

2. Shakespeare's Sonnets

They'll never cross you again
Nothing says "I'm sorry" like a collection of Shakespeare's 14-line riffs on love, loss and beauty. But, don't let your partner out of the doghouse until they've recited at least one out loud. We suggest number 116, which begins with just about the closest thing to "My bad" as you're likely to find in Shakespeare: "Let me not the marriage of true minds / Admit impediments."

3. Only Revolutions

They want to take risks with you
If your significant other gives you this National Book Award-nominated experimental novel by Mark Z. Danielewski as a gift, it might at first seem like the only thing they're trying to give you is a headache. The story of two teenage lovers on a cross-country road trip, the novel moves at random between different time periods in American history and boasts some seriously pomo page formatting. Like Danielewski's popular debut novel, "House of Leaves," it's a challenging, not-always-intuitive read, but one that will ultimately win you over with its sense of thrill and romance. It might be your significant other's way of opening your imagination, or simply stoking your wanderlust. In any event, the message is: Let's take a journey.

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