How To Know If She's The One For You, With Astrology And Her Mars Zodiac Sign

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How To Know If She's Wife Material, By Her Mars Zodiac Sign
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Is she the right one for you?

How do you know if someone is right for you? Is it the way they make you feel whenever you're with them? Or is it more than that? Lots of people wondering if they are making a mistake when falling in love with someone especially when you think you found your forever love.

Maybe you know that someone is the right fit for you because of the way she makes you feel inside, not because of anything she necessarily does. 

For example, being with her makes you feel way more confident in yourself because she's basically your hype girl whenever you do anything.

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Maybe she teaches you how to slow down and enjoy everything that life has to offer instead of rushing through everything like you're on a deadline. However she makes you feel, there's probably a part of you – no matter how long you've been together – that is toying with the idea of whether or not she's right for you.

She might not necessarily be The One for you, but she could be right for someone else, and that still matters. You don't want to be in a relationship that isn't really going anywhere, do you? Of course not! 

Even if you prefer casual, no-strings-attached relationships, you still want to know that your girl is on the same page about the future of the relationship with you.

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Trust me, miscommunication is one of the most common and one of the worst downfalls in relationships; if you can't talk to each other, then you're wasting each other's' time! End of story!

Astrology can help you figure that out, too. Not just how to communicate with each other better, based on your zodiac sign, but also how to tell if she's right for you. Each of the planets in our solar system can help us figure out more about ourselves; more specifically, different parts of ourselves.

When it comes to love and relationships, there are certain planets you should be studying to learn more. And if any planet is a good indicator to figuring out what drives your desires and passion, it's Mars. In astrology, the way a woman's Mars sign matches up to your horoscope traits is quite revealing.

Mars is the warrior planet that drives your desires in a primal, aggressive way. When you're trying to figure out how important she is to you, Mars is the planet that will tell you to dig deep inside of yourself and trust your basest instincts.

A lot of the time, the phrase "when you know, you know" is a good indicator to deciding if she means something to you. Looking to her Mars sign will tell you everything you need to know about what she wants in a relationship and if it's something you can provide or if you both need to find someone new.

Once you know, you can determine if she's right for you, by on her Mars horoscope sign, using astrology.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Aries in Mars was born confident; this zodiac sign is someone who can strut confidently through literally anything life throws at her without even breaking a sweat. Of course, she’s also very familiar with everyone around her seeing her confidence as a threat… except you. When you’re with Aries, you never feel like you have to compete with her – love isn’t a competition! And isn’t it so much more satisfying to say, “that’s my girl!” whenever she succeeds?

Because she’s the ram of astrology, it’s easy to see how her confidence can quickly turn into stubborn intensity. She gets fixated on one thing and won’t stop until she achieves it. But you’ll know she’s right for you when you see nothing but positivity from her need to thrive. And luckily for you, there’s already an abundance of honesty in this relationship in case you do need to vent. This partnership is a good fit when you can be open about everything without reservation.

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

It’s very easy to swoon over a Taurus in Mars because she has all the qualities everyone wants in their ideal partner. She’s patient and kind, but still knows how to leave you breathless in the bedroom. You’ll know she’s right for you when you can appreciate the stability she brings to your world. Life can get chaotic, but knowing that you can come home to someone who just has to smile at you to make you feel better is a gift that shouldn’t be overlooked.

Taurus is the zodiac sign who will look at you in all your frazzled glory and tell you, “We will make this work.” Taurus doesn’t fail – ever. Her tenacity to make a relationship last can bring tears to your eyes because no one loves like she does. She’s right for you when you both are able to take every up and down that comes with a relationship in stride. She’ll teach you how to be patient and collected because she knows that relationships are a marathon, not a race, and she intends on making the most of it all.

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Gemini in Mars’ dual personality makes her an absolute blessing in a relationship. Some people might consider her a nightmare, but that’s only because they haven’t taken the chance to get to know her completely. Gemini is the partner you stay up late with, texting or talking because there’s something magical about sharing an intimate moment like this with her when everyone else is asleep. She’s both brainy and witty, making her someone who is always keeping you on your toes with her sharp tongue and quick mind.

If you’re in a relationship with Gemini, then you already know just how expressive she can be. She doesn’t like suppressing any emotion because she knows that it will only hurt the relationship in the future – and trust me when I can say that her argument skills are prize-worthy. If she’s right for you, you’ll look forward to these thought-provoking conversations, as well as those times you need to work through a problem together. When your relationship is just as strong when you don’t like each other as it is when you can’t get enough of each other, then it’s real.

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Cancer in Mars is at the crossroads between being the caring protector in a relationship and being the bombshell who can blow your mind in the bedroom. In other words, she’s everyone’s dream girl. But because she’s so complex, she needs a partner who can care for all of her, not just the parts that suit them best. Cancer has always been the tender and protective partner you need; when you’re with her, it feels like a calm has washed over you and nothing can harm you. Oh yeah, she’s good like that.

But her caring side also translates into the intimate side of your relationship. She can be very sultry in the bedroom, but she’s still the caring and gentle woman who’s used to taking control of everything. If she’s right for you, taking care of her will come naturally to you. She’s more than capable of taking care of herself, but as someone who has always been the guardian over everyone else in her life, knowing that she can count on you to take the lead is refreshing to her. Let her know that you’re always there for her no matter what and she’ll be putty in your hands.

LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Leo in Mars is the kind of zodiac sign that brightens up a room the moment she walks in. Chances are you fell in love with her the moment you first saw her because of the light she carries with her. So, needless to say, she’s a pretty big deal and a pretty integral part of your life. Of course, Leo is also a very independent and dominant zodiac sign, which means that she needs someone who will be her equal partner, not someone intent on making her dependent on them.

If she’s the right one for you, you will know instantly. When you look back on all the time you’ve spent with Leo, you’ll notice that she’s brought so much more color and intention into your life. Knowing she’s right for you is all about realizing just how much worth she carries, with her creativity in the bedroom to the little romantic gestures she does for you without even thinking about it. When Leo is in a relationship she’s in it 110 percent; she wants you to know that being right for each other means being together for a long, long time.

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Virgo in Mars is one of those zodiac signs who doesn’t need anyone to feel complete. She definitely believes in soulmates, but she also knows that finding true love takes time, so she’s not in any rush to start something that will inevitably not last. Of course, she also knows which relationships will last and which ones won’t almost immediately after starting something new, so if you’ve been with her for a while now, chances are she already thinks you’re right for her.

But to know if she’s right for you is the question. For Virgo, a good relationship takes time to cultivate. Being an incredibly caring, helpful, and dedicated partner, Virgo believes in being her true self in a relationship. If she’s right for you, you’ll know through her actions, not just her words. She’ll be more attentive when you’re together, will always be able to read your mind and know what you need, and will inspire you to see your relationship as something that deserves the most love and attention to detail possible. Love is a journey with Virgo, so be prepared to work.

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Being in a relationship with Libra in Mars is like having a spiritual experience. Imagine traveling to an entirely new plane of existence and living in perfect harmony… yeah, that’s what loving a Libra is like no other zodiac sign knows how to bring calmness and love to your life just by being herself like Libra does. She is certainly the most peaceful zodiac sign there is, but she’s also so much more than that. Since she believes that all good things come from balance, she always tries to bring harmony to her relationship.

In addition to being peaceful and harmonious, Libra is also incredibly powerful. She’s the partner you need when times get tough because she will be with you through thick or thin, and always with a smile on her face. She’s romantic, kind, and understanding, and knowing if she’s right for you is all in how you feel when you’re with her. You know how people always say “when you know, you know” when it comes to love? This is absolutely true with Libra; when you just know that this relationship is worth it, then you know she’s the right one for you.

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpio in Mars is passionate, complex, and seductive. Whenever you’re with her, you can’t help but feel goosebumps because she is definitely something special. It will take her a while to open up to you when you first start dating, but the longer you’re together, the more you’ll discover about her. She is the kind of partner who takes love very seriously, so it’s best to figure out if she’s right for you sooner rather than later – once Scorpio decides that you’re right for her, she’ll jump into the relationship with both feet.

If she’s right for you, you’ll know by how much harder you work for the relationship to last. Some relationships tend to fizzle out before they really get started, but there’s something about Scorpio’s complexity that makes you want to roll up your sleeves and get into the nitty-gritty of it all. She’ll teach you that passion and intensity only make a relationship better and coming from a Scorpio, that’s totally true. When you find yourself loving her harder every day and wanting to make a serious effort all the time for her, she’s definitely right for you.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Sagittarius in Mars is an adventurous and optimistic zodiac sign. She’s always out looking for the next big thrill in life because she loves experiencing all that life has to offer her. Usually, she’s not interested in serious relationships because commitment weirds her out, but when she finds someone extra special (like you), she’ll make an exception. The only thing she asks is that grow with her; any partner that isn’t constantly learning and growing with her is not someone she wants to be with.

Sagittarius is also very honest, and the right partner for her is someone who will embrace her honesty, not use it against her. She will hold on tightly to her freedom and ask that you’re patient with her as she learns how to make time for your needs and her own. You’ll know she’s right for you when the relationship comes easily to her. Rather than hunting for the next thrill in life, she’ll make you her next big adventure. It might be a little scary at first for the both of you, but all the best relationships are a little scary, anyway.

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

Capricorn in Mars is ambitious, creative, and sexy – everything you’re drawn to. No matter what she sets her mind to in life, she doesn’t stop hustling until she gets what she sets out to achieve… including your love. Capricorn is also one of those zodiac signs that just knows when a relationship is going to last. That sparkle in her eye and that hint of a smile on her lips? Yeah, that’s her knowing exactly what the fate of your relationship is with her.

Capricorn might seem like a hard zodiac sign to please, but that’s only because she has a lot of respect for herself. She might have high standards, but it’s because she knows that she deserves the absolute best. You’re drawn to her mind and how she always seems to be thinking outside the box. But don’t get intimidated by her just because she’s a strong, independent woman. In fact, loving her because she’s a strong, independent woman is how you’ll know she’s right for you. You can be the power couple everyone wishes they were – but you have to be willing to work.

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Aquarius in Mars is the “always slightly out of reach” zodiac sign – she intrigues a lot of people, but no one can ever seem to lock her down… at least, not for a long time (if at all). When you are lucky enough to keep Aquarius interested, it’s a big deal. She’s incredibly social and enthusiastic about meeting new people, but she still very much appreciates having someone in her life she can always count on.

When dating an Aquarius, it’s always important to keep an open mind. She’s the kind of partner who will always want to try new things in and out of the bedroom. She’s attracted to a wide range of people, but what she’s really looking for in a relationship is someone she can call her best friend. You’ll know she’s the right one for you when she feels like your best friend. When the two of you can be weird and silly with each other just as often as you can be intimate and romantic, then you’ll know it’s right.

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

Dating a Pisces in Mars is like a dream come true. Trust me when I say that a relationship with her is like walking on air; everything is beautiful, happy, and light (just like her). Pisces is romantic, intimate, and compassionate, and she believes in a love that lets her be all of these things easily. There’s a good chance that Pisces already knows for sure if you’re right for her and probably knows if she’s right for you, too. She knows how to use her intuition to make the right decisions, so never underestimate this zodiac sign.

However, just because she already knows if she’s right for you doesn’t necessarily mean you know it just yet. When you’re with her, you feel at peace. You’ll know for sure that Pisces is the right one when she starts feeling like an extension of you. Instead of feeling like you have to guess what she’s thinking or feeling, you just know. Intuition is a very powerful thing, and when you’ve been with Pisces long enough, you know what it feels like. The right partner for Pisces is the one who has an unspoken bond with her that transcends this world.

Emily Ratay is a full-time writer living in Pittsburgh. She's passionate about the environment and feminism, and knows that anything is possible in the right pair of shoes. She plans on writing a non-fiction book in the future.