Today's LOVE Horoscope For Monday, September 11, 2017 For Each Zodiac Sign

Today's DAILY LOVE Horoscope For Monday, September 11, 2017 For Each Zodiac Sign

Moon and Gemini and Sun in Virgo = lessons of love told by a high conflict couple.

Your daily love horoscope is IN! What do you get if you get if you love match up a Gemini with a Virgo? A hot mess of a relationship.

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Today, we have a moon in Gemini and a Virgo Sun entering the love scene. When you pair up Gemini Twins — who are just too hot to handle with a Virgo Sun the wants and needs are incompatible but for us, this is a conflict couple to learn from.

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Like going out on a double date with a couple who just can't get along, you go home thankful that you and your partner can find a way to compromise. You go home and psychoanalyze what it is that the odd couple could do to get along and it comes down to a single sentence "If only they could stop trying to control each other!"

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This nasty control topic comes up even in the happiest of relationships. You recognize it most when arguments are always about the same things, and you're about ready to throw in the towel because you can't get out of that rut.

Well, each time Gemini and Virgo are forced to share the sky, their opposing zodiac sign energy battles giving us a reason to talk about high conflict couples.

If you have ever fallen in love with a Gemini (and lived) you remember those amazingly heated love sessions, their awesome positive energy, creative and spontaneous love of life, and those deeply dark moods when they are unhappy with you. A Gemini is the symbol of duality. Hot and cold.

Passionate and apathetic. Intrigued and completely uninterested. But through it all, a Gemini is learning and gathering information faster than a Google search history on high speed internet. 

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There's truly nothing more contagious and alluring that a sassy, smart, and sophisticated mind wrapped up in a good looking human being (and most Geminis are amazingly good-looking).

But if you want to see all that loveliness get ugly fast do one thing: tell a Gemini what to do. 

Virgos are another sexy zodiac sign that are as sophisticated as they are calculating. A

Virgo loves to be pampered but at the same time, they want to believe that they are the one in control of their partner.

Virgos love to give as much as they receive, but a Virgo's insecurity button sounds off an alarm when you remove their right to tell you how to do things (and when).

Yikes! You can already see how this would add up to a whole bunch of drama in a relationship where control and the need for independence collide.

Here are 3 quick lessons about love and control from Gemini and Virgo dynamic that they really want you to know. So listen up and take notes!

1. Geminis don't like to be controlled or be given ultimatums in love. 

Most people dislike it when a partner tries to tell them what to do. It's not really good for relationships to begin with, but nothing suffers worse than a couple's sex life when one partner insists on controlling the other. A lesson you can learn from the Moon in Gemini is that not only should you not try to control your partner, but to keep the relationship going, you need to focus on romance and equality between partners. 

2. Virgos love to be pampered and to pamper, but gifts of service are done with a motive it's a bad move for the relationship. 

Let's say that Virgo notices Gemini is pushing her away, and what she really wants is for Gemini to come closer. She may decide to make her Gemini need her by doing things for him and being 'helpful'. The problem is this giving comes with a hook, and Gemini can smell motive a mile away. What does this spell for romance, love, and sex drive? Disaster. No one likes to be controlled, even if it's packaged nicely.

3. Sometimes you have to give each other space, but too much space is not good for love.

Virgos are all about 'togetherness' but a Gemini needs space. Sometimes relationships need a little togetherness and space. If you're always together, the relationship can become stale. If you're always apart, the the bond can grow distant. Learn to strike a balance with a little bit of both. Geminis love attention. How will you be able to give it if you're not around. Just make the most of the time you're together. 

What does this mean for you today?
  • Air zodiac signs, you can work on setting up a space that allows you to feel free, but also creates time to spend with your mate.
  • Fire zodiac signs don't hide your need to be alone or get some needs met through friends, hobbies, or time alone from your partner. Own it, and work towards balance.
  • Earth zodiac signs, try to not control your mate's needs, and even if it's not a need that you understand, respect their uniqueness.
  • Water zodiac signs, make time with your friends and don't lose touch them when you are in a new relationship. Instead make friendship a healthy part of your life when you're in love.

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ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Rules to loving Aries: Give me space. Don't tell me who I can be friends with.

Aries, you aren't a fan of being controlled and your need for space is real. You often find that relationships come at a cost to you.

When in a high conflict relationship, your need for space is greater than most and this can add up to tension that causes you to abandon your commitments.

The best way for an Aries to deal with relationship conflict is to cool down first, talk second. 

Power love quote: "It isn't possible to love and part. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love. Ignore it, muddle it, but you can never pull it out of you. Love is eternal." — A Room With A View

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

Rules to loving Taurus: Keep communication open. Don't tell me how to spend my money.

Taurus, you love love. You are truly into the whole commitment concept. But you can be part of the problem when it comes to how much conflict happens in your relationship.

Sometimes you come across as controlling. Amazingly, you also don't like being told what to do. Spending quality time with your partner often makes you feel happy to give space when needed.

You feel secure when giving affection, and a partner who doesn't take it away from you when things are tough gains big points.

Power love quote: "It's not a lack of love but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." — Friedrich Nietzche

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Rules to loving Gemini: Don't judge me. Don't lie to me. 

Gemini, you can be quite the catch with the right person. But the moment you feel like you're being manipulated, you perceive a potential liar and it's time to hit the road.

Your best relationship partner is the person who knows that the more freedom you're given the less likely you are to abuse it.

In a relationship, you can trigger the insecurity in others because you can be cruel when you need to be kind. 

Power love quote: "Don't forget I'm just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her." — Notting Hill

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Rules to loving Cancer: Don't question my judgment. Leave me alone when I'm tired. 

Cancer, you keep your trust circle tight, but when you are in love, you open yourself up and it's really a beautiful thing.

In a relationship you can add to the conflict by withdrawing and not saying way. Your partner can learn to overcome potential conflicts by letting you have your space.

You don't like to be left alone when you're in love. You can be a bit clingy. A partner who 'gets' this is one you'll keep.

Power love quote: "The only thing worse than a boy who hates you: a boy that loves you." — Markus Zusak

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Rules to loving Leo: Show me respect. Show me affection. 

Leo, you like to have the right to make your own decisions. You don't mind asking for input. You want advice from the person you love, but the moment you feel disrespected, things go a bit down hill.

You might not forgive a manipulating partner. You definitely won't trust someone who pries into your things.

A partner who allows you to share your thoughts and make mistakes will find the conflict in your communication will decrease. 

Power love quote: "The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves." — Victor Hugo

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Rules to loving Virgo: I need to be a part of the decision making. Let me shop in peace.

Virgo, you work hard. You are super generous. You love to be a fully expressive and a live person with the right to by lovely things that you buy with your own money. Some arguments that can come up in your relationship can involve money. Some problems will arise due to control. You may find it annoying when people don't do things your way, especially if it's thought out and strategic. A partner that works with you and doesn't surprise you with big decisions that affect your life will avoid conflict.

Power love quote: "The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well." — Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Rules to loving Libra: Let me listen. Don't hide things from me. 

Libra, you want to know what's happening in your partner's life. If your mate shuts you out, it can be devestating to your heart.

You don't want to feel like there's a reason to distrust what's being said, but if you are the last to know, or worse, on a need to know basis, the relationship may not last. 

Your partner needs to be encouraged to trust you to listen. You may have to work on listening without consulting at the same time. 

Power love quote: "Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution." — Mae West

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Rules to loving Scorpio: I need my privacy. Don't ask me too many questions.

Scorpio, you don't ask for much when you're in a relationship, but one thing is for certain, you do ask to have your privacy respected. 

So what. You're a private person, and yes, this does make for some conflicts in your relationship because it threatens the belief that to be a couple you need to know everything about each other.

The last thing you need is a partner who pushes you to open up before you're ready. If they allow you to choose when that happens, they can expect less arguments, and more joy.

Power love quote: "When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you. When I met you, I was afraid to kiss you. When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you, I am afraid to lose you." — Anonymous 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Rules to loving Sagittarius: Let me be myself. Don't expect me to change for you.

Sagittarius, you are not afraid to give love your all. You're happy to make sacrifices, too. But you really don't want to hide who you really are to have someone not love you in return.

You may find yourself trying to balance things out in your relationship and your personal needs, but after a while it's just not worth the effort, so you bail.

A partner who can come to peace that your way of doing things may not always be the easiest, but you never did like easy, did you?

Power love quote: "The worst thing: to give yourself away in exchange for not enough love." — Joyce Carol Oates

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

Rules to loving Capricorn: Laugh with me. Don't laugh at me.

Capricorn, you have a wickedly contagious sense of humor, and for you to laugh, it's a big release of energy. In a relationship, when there's tension, things can get a bit too serious.

With humor, you may feel down and wonder where did all the fun go?

A partner who can detach themselves from the conflict while bringing an open mind is a gem of a keeper. Thinking this way will help conflicts go down mightily.

Power love quote: "By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." — Socrates

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Rules to loving Aquarius: You don't own me. You aren't my boss. 

Aquarius, your free spirit and love for fun and friendships might be the first thing to go when you are in a new relationship, but deep down inside you don't like it that way.

Friends might become an area of conflict for you because you really just want everyone to get along, and when they don't, you handle it for a little while, but not for too long.

A person who understand that you need balance in your life in every way will find themselves the center of your love. But if someone tries to tell you who and what you can do and who you can do it with, it makes for a serious conflict and you might not be a couple for too long.

Power love quote: "I've never fallen in love right off the bat. I get scared to say I love you too soon because it means so much. It means you're not seeing an end to things." — Leighton Meester

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

Rules to loving Pisces: Let me feel. Let me dream.

Pisces, in a relationship your feelings really are important to you. You love sharing your heart but your mind is your own. Some might misunderstand your need to feel a sign of weakness, but that's not true.

You are strongest when you are deep into your emotions. You are most loving when you're allowed to dream. 

A partner who allows you to connect with your spiritual side in an environment that's safe and predictable invites harmony. A partner who is constantly changing and insensitive to your need for consistency will find conflicts aplenty. 

Power love quote: "First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. No self-respecting woman would  take advantage of it." — George Bernard Shaw

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