What Men REALLY Want In A Woman (From A Matchmaker Who Knows)

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We all know the stereotype that all men want is sex. But that’s not true. Yes, they want sex, but who doesn’t?

They want MORE than just sex. What men want in a woman is all about the 4 Bs: beauty, brains, body, and balance. Do you have these qualities? If so, you might find that men are extremely attracted to you.

1. Beauty

Men want women who are beautiful. Don’t worry, you don’t have to look like a model to be beautiful.

You should be the best version of you and focus on your positive attributes. If you have beautiful eyes, accentuate them. If you have great legs, show them off. If you have amazing hair, make sure you wear it down. Hopefully, you see where I’m going here. Work with what you have!

2. Brains

Intelligence is sexy, and men are captivated by smart women. You don’t need an MBA from Harvard Business School to be considered smart (if you do have one, kudos to you). Instead, you should be aware of what’s going on in the world — read the news, watch CNN, and be in the know. Men are intrigued by women who challenge them and bring something to the table.

3. Body confidence

What men want in a woman is someone who is fit and in good shape. They aren’t attracted to someone who’s rail thin. Curves are sexy. Keep in mind men like toned women so you should make sure you look good in AND out of clothes.

4. Balance

Leading a balanced lifestyle is important. Men enjoy dating someone who can balance their job, their family, their friends, and a relationship. They’re drawn to women who are independent. They like women who are down to Earth and aren’t drama queens.

For even more information on what men really want in a woman, check out the video below:


Carly Spindel is a Matchmaker and relationship expert who has introduced 110 couples. She is passionate about spreading love throughout the country.

This article was originally published at Confessions Of A Matchmaker. Reprinted with permission from the author.