10 Ways To Tell If He's The One You're Going To Walk Down The Aisle With

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He's perfect in all the right ways.

Being in love is amazing. It’s one of the best feelings in the world. When you’re madly in love with someone special, it’s hard not to imagine spending the rest of your lives together.

But how do you know for sure that it’s true love and it will last? Here's how to tell if he's the one.

1. He loves all the little things about you.

Whether you’re having a great day or a bad one, he understands. He loves you at your best and your absolute worst. There’s no pretending. You don’t have to be “on” in front of him — you can just be you. He makes you feel good about all those things you don’t like about yourself.

2. You adore everything about him.

You’ve never cared about someone this much. You love everything about him. You have fun with him wherever you are.

3. You can confide in him.

He’s your best friend and your confidant. You feel comfortable telling him everything. He knows what you’re trying to say without you having to explain it. He helps you solve any dilemmas and he gives you advice when you need it.

4. He makes you a better person.

He should be your biggest cheerleader. Does he bring out the best in you? Does he push you to be a better person and try new things? Does he believe in you and encourage you to accomplish your goals? If he sees the best in you, respects you, and makes you a better person, that's how to tell if he's the one.

5. You’re extremely attracted to each other.

Physically and emotionally, you’re so compatible. You find everything about him incredibly sexy. Your life in the bedroom is just as exciting as it was when you first met.

6. He treats you like a queen.

You know he’s the one because he treats you like a queen. He’s good to you in ways that you never thought were possible. He compliments you and makes you feel beautiful. He never stops trying to make you happy. He makes you feel special and knows exactly what to do to put a smile on your face.

7. It’s easy to communicate with him.

Talking to him is easy. Whether you’re sharing exciting news or telling him about your work day, he listens and he cares. He’s the first person you want to share exciting things with. He’s there for you whenever you need him.

8. You have the same beliefs.

It’s not common to agree on everything. You probably have different opinions on a few topics. But when it comes to fundamental beliefs, you’re on the same page. You share the same principles and values about kids, finances, and family.

9. He cares about the people in your life.

He makes an effort with the people you care most about. He’s kind to your friends and includes them in your life together. Your friends and family mean something to him.

10. He makes everything better.

Last, but not least, you want to be with him. Regardless of what kind of mood you’re in, you’d rather be with him than without him. If you’re having a bad day, just by being with him, you instantly feel better. You want to be near him, all the time.

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Carly Spindel is a Matchmaker and relationship expert who has introduced 110 couples. She is passionate about spreading love throughout the country.

This article was originally published at Confessions Of A Matchmaker. Reprinted with permission from the author.