If These 11 Things Ring True, He's A Keeper — DON'T Let Him Go

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He's the one you've been looking for.

Relationships can be wonderful things, they can make you a better person and make you look forward to so many different things. 

You've found a guy that makes you smile, makes you laugh and let's you imagine a future with him in it. If you're lucky he does more than one of these things below, and as you read through them you smile because the hints are all there, you've found yourself a keeper. 

1. He doesn’t make you question the way he feels about you.

At the end of the day, you aren’t left wondering where you stand in his life. He makes it perfectly clear that you are the girl he wants to be with, and that there isn’t anyone he rather be with.

2. He’s the person you want to talk to after a rough day.

Work was rough, you may have had a terrible conversation with a friend, family member or coworker. Before you would just go home, maybe have a drink, a bowl of ice cream and call a girlfriend but he’s the first person that comes to mind when it’s been rough. 

He’s patient with you, listens to you, and at the end of the conversation, you feel better about everything.

3. He wants you to meet his friends and family.

At first, you may have met his friends in passing and you’ve heard the names but now he’s making huge efforts to tell you about them and find time for you to meet the people closest to him. 

You meet his best friends, and there has been talk to meet him family and you’ve thought of when he’ll be able to meet yours.

4. You’re having the most and best sex of your life.

Before him, you weren’t having as much sex as you are now. It could be several times a week, multiple times a day and you catch yourself thinking about the next time. 

It just isn’t that, you’ve found the one that has meshed the best with you and the sex is phenomenal.

5. He’s talked about future plans with you.

It’s clear in his mind that you are the girl he wants to build with, to start having a life with. You’re the girl he sees when he starts thinking about where he wants to be and who he wants to be with in the future. 

You’ve also thought about holidays and summer vacations and things you want to do with him in the future as well.

6. You never get tired of each other.

With some people after being around them for a few days in a row you start to get tired of looking at them. You dread seeing their name pop up on your phone but with him it’s different.

You want to talk to him all the time and he responds to all of your texts and calls as well. You could see him several days in a row and go a day without seeing him and already miss him and it doesn’t feel strange to you at all, in fact, he already misses you as well.

7. He makes you feel beautiful.

It’s not only when you are dressed up on a Friday night to go out but when you wake up in the morning, when you’re just sitting on the couch and when you feel like you look your worst. 

He means it when he tells you that and you believe him.

8. He makes you smile.

Whether you’re together and he’s making you laugh because you think he’s funny or when you’re just texting him and he thinks he’s being funny. You catch yourself thinking about him randomly and all you can do is smile.

9. It’s not complicated with him.

He doesn’t make you over think everything which you are really good at. He doesn’t make you dread things or constantly worry about your relationship. When you are in his arms you feel safe and comfortable and you don’t have any worries. 

Home has suddenly changed from a place to a person; home is when you’re safely in his arms. 

Everything with him could never be complicated because it’s so simple.

10. He puts in effort; the relationship isn’t one-sided.

He has put in the time to show you that this relationship is important to him, that he isn’t expecting you to do it all. He wants you to be happy, in life and in your relationship. 

He wants you to feel safe and he wants you to know that he’s there for you when you need him the most.

11. Life is simply just better with him in it.

He makes you want to do better, to be a better person. When you think about him and everything that has led up to the two of you being together you can’t help but smile and realize that everything you went through was completely worth it.

It’s just simple with him, he’s the face you want to see in the morning, the hand you want to hold during the day and the chest you want to lay your head on at night. 

The best thing though is that you are the girl that he wants do all of this with as well. You make each other’s lives easier and happier and you can’t wait to see what the future has in store for the two of you.

This article was originally published at PuckerMob. Reprinted with permission from the author.