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Marriage: How Do I Deal With My Selfish Spouse?

Sometimes you just need to feel the endorphin rush of breaking up to make up.

You love your husband, but not his behavior. Should you really break up with your husband if he is acting like a selfish jerk? You'll be surprised to learn the answer is yes! 

Marriage therapist Dr. Bonnie Weil explains "break up to make up" and how this can be an effective way to get your husband to pay attention to his less-than-stellar behavior. The bottom line is that time apart can be beneficial to your marriage. Just make sure you don't give in too easily! 

Watch the video to hear more tips from Dr. Weil and why you should consider calling a time-out in your marriage. 

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