Top 5 Dating Sites For Lesbians Seeking A Serious Relationship

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Top 5 Dating Sites for Lesbians Seeking a Serious Relationship
Love, Self

How does a woman meet a serious girl?

It can be really difficult for single lesbians to meet other single lesbians who are looking for a serious relationship.  

Dating sites are a great way to meet someone special simply because you can make it clear what you are looking for in a relationship. All you need to do is to create a profile and wait for that special person to get in touch.

However, some dating sites are better than others. Here are some reviews of best dating sites for lesbians who are seeking a serious relationship.

#5: PinkCupid.com

This well-established dating site has been in operation since 2007 and it claims to be different because the members are all seriously looking for a partner to spend the rest of their lives with.

Setting up a basic profile is free and Pink Cupid offer many dating tools such as a personality profile, the ability to upload photos, instant messaging, a chat room, and video chat. However, to use all of the dating tools, offered users need to have full membership which can be paid monthly.

The great thing about this dating site is every woman you interact with identifies as a lesbian, bisexual, or bi-curious which means you do not have to plow through a lot of profiles to find other women who identify the same as you. You can also join through your Facebook profile as well and the site is very easy to use.

PinkCupid also has a section on the site where members can share their success stories. It seems the site really is great for lesbians who are looking for love.

#4: OkCupid.com

One of the coolest features on OkCupid is the fact the personality questions are different because they are coupled with the answers you will accept, not just the answers you give. This helps the site’s algorithms match you up with someone that you are well suited to.

For example, you might be asked if music is really important to you and then you will be asked what response you will accept from a potential match.

OkCupid is also popular with lesbians and because of the matches the site carries out, you will find matches from other lesbians who share your interests and are searching for love, just like you are.

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#3: CompatiblePartners.net

Compatiblepartners is really cute. It’s only for the lesbians and gay community and has one ultimate aim — to help members find love. When new members join, you are asked to complete a relationship questionnaire which then creates your own unique personality profile.

Through this profile, the website then sends you compatible profile matches for you to look over. You can then look over the profiles but you need to pay for membership if you are interested in getting in touch with the profiles that have been selected for you.

Compatiblepartners is fantastic in the way that all users are looking for something serious.

This dating site is not about casual encounters or hookups, which means that all the girls you are matched with are also looking for something long-term. That definitely saves a lot of time finding out if someone you are interested in wants the same thing from a relationship as you do.

#2: EliteSingles.com

EliteSingles is a dating website only for members seeking serious relationships. A great bonus when you are looking for a serious relationship as all other members are looking for the same.

One of the unique aspects of the website is the extensive questionnaire new users fill in at the beginning. It contains over 200 questions and was designed by psychologists and professors in order to create a detailed personality profile from your answers. The website algorithms then find your matches according to your personality.

Another fantastic bonus about this website is the fact the personality test is free. And when you are sent your matches you can also make contact with them for free as well via the messaging service.

This is limited in length though if you are not a paying member, but compared to many other dating websites, the free membership that EliteSingles offer is really good.

Paid membership gives you a lot more facilities though so it is often worthwhile considering becoming a paid member. This website is very popular with lesbians too so there is a good chance of finding the girl of your dreams on here. 

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#1: Match.com

Match is probably one of the biggest and most well-known dating sites and judging from the success stories on the website it works really well in helping singles find love. Match also state they have over 1 million members who are women that identify as gay.

In fact, they have an entire section of the website dedicated to gay and lesbian dating. Match also boasts the largest number of weddings in which couples met using their dating website.

New members fill out an In-depth questionnaire that takes about 30 minutes to complete. The questionnaire is broken into three main categories and nine subcategories, which includes "About Me", "About My Match", and "In My Own Words" sections.

These categories consist of questions regarding appearance, interests, lifestyle, and background. This means that profiles are really in-depth so users can get a feel about other members before deciding to get in touch.

The website has a huge number of features and you will receive daily suggested matches as well as having the search facilities to find potential matches yourself. In some places, they even host special match singles nights and events where members can attend and meet other singles.

Now you’ve read some reviews of best lesbian dating sites around, it’s time for you to create some profiles, get out there and find the girl that has been waiting just for you.

Shawn Yale is a voice for the voiceless in the LGBTQIA community and has been writing for over a decade on topics related to the successes, suppression, and insecurities faced by the community.

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