How To Make A Virgo Man Obsessed With You

What to do to get his attention.

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So you're in love with a Virgo man, and it's going great.

You want him to feel the same way he makes you feel whenever you're together.

Getting a Virgo man who is already in love with you to find you even more attractive is easier than you realize.

Virgos tend to pay attention to the smallest details.

They observe everything about the woman they love.

So, how do you make a Virgo man obsessed with you?

They have a methodical approach to life, which doesn’t allow anything up for chance.


You want to be a consistent person. Someone they can trust. You need to be yourself.

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Virgo is associated with the sixth solar house in astrology— work and healthcare.

Having a Sun sign in Virgo leads to a strong character, so this type of man prefers practicality in their everyday life and in someone that they love.


Even when chaos descends around them, their goals and dreams have concrete and defined borders in their mind.

And if you want to woo the one who has won your heart, look no further than their zodiac sign and astrology.

How to make a Virgo man obsessed with you:

1. Be yourself

Show your intelligent side.

A Virgo man loves an intelligent conversation and he may become distant if he feels that he’s not getting it.

If he’s impressed by your intelligence, he will be intrigued and he wouldn’t be able to get you out of his head.

Virgo men are more concerned with your intellect and personality rather than you dressing for success.

Once you caught his attention, the next thing would be for you to appeal to his intellect.


His interests may be boring to some people, but a Virgo man will be intrigued by you if you can match his intelligence.

Even more than sexuality, Virgo men are attracted to your intellect and mentality.

2. Say what you mean

Stay true to your word.

Virgo men are intrigued by seeing that you are unique as you stand out from other women.

One way that you stand out would be that you don’t play games or you share his high standards.

More than any other man, a Virgo man tends to be honest and consistent.

Virgo men expect their significant other to be the same.

When they can depend on their significant other, he’ll be more comfortable with them.

3. Be drama-free

Keep the dramatics to yourself.


As a perfectionist, a Virgo man is always evaluating you.

You may meet nine of the 10 points of his top criteria, but there’s one issue he will get stuck on.

That issue tends to be when you’re too dramatic.

One way to have a Virgo man obsessed is to keep the dramatics to a minimum.

Virgo men don’t like to be overpowered by their emotions.

Plus, they don’t want any unnecessary attention.

If you embarrass them in public, it will be a huge turnoff.

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4. Strive to be your best

You don't have to be perfect, but you can always work hard to be the best version of yourself.


As I mentioned before, Virgo men are perfectionists and they want things done a certain way.

Even if you fall short of your goals, always try to strive for perfection.

A Virgo man will take notice as he will appreciate your efforts.

The more that you show that you have a perfectionist streak, the more attracted to you he will be.

A Virgo would want to see that you have the same standards as he does.

5. Be authentic

Don't bother putting on an act.

A Virgo will see right through falsehood.

Virgo men don’t like to act upon their emotions as they are suspicious of feelings.

If you force him to express his emotions, he may pull back and he won’t be as open as you would like.


If what you say doesn’t match up to what you do, he will question your truthfulness.

He wouldn’t want you to put on an act just to impress him.

Be genuine and don’t try to mold yourself to fit his standards.

6. Be transparent

It doesn't hurt to live your life like an open book.

That doesn't mean you have to reveal all of your secrets.

It does mean that you ought to be real and genuine.

One important thing for Virgo men would be the truth.

They trust that you won’t hide how you truly feel about something.

If you’re unclear about how he feels about you, don’t be scared to ask and let him express his true feelings.

Make sure to question calmly as Virgo men don’t like making a scene.


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Chinyere Ibeh is a writer who covers entertainment and pop culture news, along with quotes and zodiac signs.