Complete Virgo Compatibility Guide: Understanding Love And Relationships

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Virgo Compatibility Guide: Love And Relationships, Trust
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Everything you need to know about the Virgo in your life.

You've met a Virgo, and now you're interested in dating her. You've checked your horoscope and noticed that your zodiac signs just might be compatible, but you're not sure you've quite figured out what attracts this zodiac sign to date you.

If you're wondering how the mind of a Virgo works and you've never had a sexual relationship with one, you might have questions about her romantic interests. 

Virgos are one of the most misunderstood signs in the Zodiac spectrum. Known to be full of mystery, she's not too keen on letting people in. Unraveling all the ins and outs of the Virgo zodiac sign doesn't prove easy because there are lots of layers to get through.

Trust me, I would know because I am one.

But lucky for you, looking to astrology can give you a ton of insight into what makes a Virgo tick. 

Birth Dates: August 23 - September 22
Symbol: Maiden
Element: Earth
Birthstone: Sapphire 
Famous Virgos: Beyonce Knowles (September 4th), Kobe Bryant (August 23rd), Michael Jackson (August 29th), Lance Armstrong (September 19th), Stephen King (September 21st)

So which zodiac signs are most compatible with Virgos? 

When it comes to Virgo compatibility in the sex and love department, we are picky. We take our time to decide who we want to be with and won't be the kind of girl to rush into things.

There are four zodiac signs who value the same things we do and have a higher chance in winning our attention and maybe even our hearts:

1. Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus and Virgos are both Earth signs so we naturally understand each other on a deeper level.

A Taurus is very stubborn and will repeatedly try to break down the walls that a Virgo has up, which will prove to us that his feelings  are sincere. Once that wall is broken down, we as a couple can communicate well, with honesty.

This relationship is one that has the tools to endure and last just as long as we keep that honest line of communication open. 

2. Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

A relationship between a Virgo and a Cancer is one that is based on fascination with each other. We both have the same out look on the way we live our lives and our similarities don’t stop there.

We can tend to be worriers so the knowledge that we can trust in each other will be a strong bond built in our relationship.

The nurturing attributes of both our signs will make our relationship one that is compatible just by the fact we are more willing to show our love for each other. As long as we have trust in each other this relationship will be fulfilling.

READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)

3. Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpios and Virgos have interesting relationships because we are both Mysterious signs and it is even said there is a magic in both of us that other signs do not posses. We find the mysteriousness of each of us intriguing and try our best to solve the mysteries in each other.

The passion from a Scorpio can prove quite intriguing to a Virgo as well. Scorpios are inherently protective and will feel a sense of that over Virgos. Both of us as partners however are seeking control so it might prove to be a balancing act of sorts in a relationship.  

READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)

4. Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Virgos and Capricorns make a wonderful team, we both like consistency and the way we make each other feel safe. We love to spend time together and want that feeling of security with each other. 

As Capricorns and Virgos we are both hard workers and bond over our sense of being goal oriented. Once our goals mesh and come together there is nothing that can stand in our way.

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)

Love is great and everything, but who is Virgo most sexually compatible with?

Sexual compatibility for a Virgo isn't hard to achieve with most signs — with the exception of Leo and Aries. Virgo is the sign of a Virgin and that relates to Virgos in the sense that we take all life experiences as if they are happening for the first time.

Everything feels a little more grand and rich. So in another sense we approach sex and the feelings associated with it like it’s happening for the first time.

This can make our drive extremely high because they are able to let go and feel everything as if it’s completely new and exciting. 

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What signs are Virgos NOT compatible with? (Maybe these we're just better as friends ... sorry.)

There are two zodiac signs that will need to work extra hard to be happy in a relationship with a Virgo. Chances are they might not be the most compatible in sex and love with a Virgo:

1. Gemini May 21- June 22

The Gemini twins and Virgos can achieve a compatibility but not without work. We as Virgos are very detail oriented and Geminis tend to be a little more spontaneous and do not get caught up in the small stuff. 

Reaching a balance between ourselves is not impossible but it does take an effort from both parties. The somewhat seriousness of a relationship that a Virgo wants tends to scare a Gemini away.

We are both also very indecisive signs and making decisions is not a strong point so this can prove to also be a barrier in our relationship. If both parties are not willing to put a little effort in then this relationship will for sure fizzle out fast.

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)

2. Sagittarius November 22- December 21

Compatibility can be reached here as well but again it takes work with the Archer and the Virgin. Virgos and Sagittarius have quite a few similarities in their views but more differences.

We as Virgos work hard and are persistent while a Sagittarius can be more flighty and unstructured. This can cause a rift because we will view them as reckless and careless.

A bond between both our signs will certainly be broken more easily because of our differences in the way we achieve goals. It's not impossible to find harmony but you have to be conscious and aware of the others persons differences and accept them. 

READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)

What is a Virgo looking for in a relationship?

Virgos love to be needed! We feel a sense of purpose and also get joy out of being helpful to others. Asking a Virgo her opinion or having us help you with small projects will make us feel complete in the relationship.

Doing small things such as showing your appreciation and saying thank you will get you miles. As Virgos we are HUGE worriers.

Over analyzing and getting hung up on small details is our jam (whether we like it or not). You don’t have to reaffirm your love to us but a Virgo does seek out admiration. Having someone admire us reminds us that we are the most important person in his or her life.

The mind of a Virgo is immensely powerful, it’s hard to control at times, so just being there when we overthink helps. We get hung up on things out of our control, think everything through and are not that reasonable sometimes when we are thinking too much.

All you can do to help us is just listen! We are being crazy, we know, so just listening shows you care enough to love us just the way we are. But we always snap out of it! 

What will a Virgo bring to a relationship?

A Virgo loves to show her love by doing for others. Whether its just a nice gesture or maybe gifts, we get satisfaction out of the joy of our partners. We want to do everything in their power to make them happy.  

Working on your house? We want to help. Starting a new project at work? We are ready with advice to help you make a decision.

Anything that involves solving a problem or coming to an end goal will be a Virgos sense of purpose in a relationship.

We as Virgos also brings a sense of wonder. We are curious and we view the world in a way that a lot of people don’t understand — we show you a glimpse and maybe have you looking differently as well.

A Virgos mind is always going and in turn we are always setting new goals for ourselves. By being with us, we will do the same for you. We are great at not only pushing ourselves, but also at motivating others. 

Where and when should a Virgo look for love? 

It's not easy to seduce a Virgo. We are persistent, hardworking and always aiming for a new goal so we tend to miss out on some opportunities for love. There’s no right time or place when looking for love — we need to be swept off out feet in order to make this happen.

What we as Virgos CAN do is try to be more vigilant, ready, and willing. Instead of running towards love we run in the opposite direction and consume ourselves with working on our next achievement.

If we do entertain the idea of love we will go over numerous situations in our heads and run though every possibility before we ever commit.

Maybe we need to take a step back sometimes and allow situations to play out instead of trying to be prepared for every outcome. Life isn’t scripted and it sure as hell isn’t predictable. Not every situation will go as planned and there are some times when we will be unprepared but that’s just the way it is.

Accepting it and taking on the fight and rolling with the punches is something that needs to be learned. Sometimes we need to allow life and fate to bring us to a certain point before we take the reigns back again. 

What makes a Virgo irresistible?

Being a sign surrounded by mystery tends to allure and seduce a lot of intrigue. People can't help but be fascinated by a Virgo. Our brain is our greatest weapon.

Being that intelligent and modest brings together an enigma of beauty. Instead of forcing and pushing trying to get the spotlight we will shine on our own without even trying. The natural and ease of a Virgos beauty is effortless. 

As Virgos we are viewed as problem solvers and are always willing to give advice and be the first to help. This selflessness shows just how caring of a sign a Virgo really is and this makes us more attractive. 

All the hard work and goals we place in our life serves as a vessel of admiration from other people. Anything in life is achievable to us and we are willing to put the work in to prove it.

So go on with your big bad self Virgos and let love naturally come to you!