How To Attract A Cancer Man

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How To Attract A Cancer Man

Cancer men are deeply intuitive and sentimental. But, when it comes to love, they are one of the most challenging zodiac signs to get to know.

Cancers are emotional and sensitive, and they care about matters of the family.

How to attract a Cancer man:

Cancer men are sympathetic and attached to people they keep close, so if you want to attract a zodiac sign like this, you need to be authentic.

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Men with their Sun in Cancer are loyal and they’re able to empathize with other people’s suffering.

Here’s how to attract a Cancer man, per astrology:

Love people.

Cancers love their family, so if you want to capture his heart, be a people-person.

As mentioned before, Cancers care about family matters. Family is significant to Cancer men and it tends to be their main priority.

The best way to his heart is to take an interest in his mother. Cancer men tend to have a close relationship with their mother.

In exchange for getting to know his family, tell him about your family. Mention your childhood and pleasant family memories.

Be patient.

Don’t come off too strong, too quickly.

The constellation of Cancer represents the giant crab that attacked Hercules during the second of 12 labors he performed. The crab was sent by the goddess Hera to prevent Hercules from succeeding as he battled Hydra. So, to attract a Cancer man you want to be someone he can win over.

So, Cancers aren't afraid of strife. Cancers like to assume the traditional male role, so you should ask to help him in some way or to give you advice. In doing this, you’re showing him that you trust him enough to make yourself vulnerable.

You don’t have to come off as strong all of the time. The male Crab is shy and reserved and he is easily scared by predatory types. With that in mind, Cancer men are usually reluctant to open up.

In order to gain a Cancer’s trust, you have to take your time and don’t come off too strong. You have to be caring, empathetic and a great listener.

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Make the first move.

Even though coming off too strong is a concern, make sure to make the first move. Cancer men love women who are a combination of soft and assertive.

Due to a Cancer’s shyness, he’s unlikely to make the first move. You have to be very blunt in your interest in him.

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Follow traditions.

He has a traditional view of love.

Cancer men aren’t looking for a one night stand or a “situationship.” They are actually looking for someone to settle down with, someone to consider his soul mate. Due to this, he’d rather have someone who’s loyal and faithful rather than someone who plays the field.

Cook for him.

The best way to a Cancer man’s heart is through his stomach.

If you want to impress a Cancer man on a date, you should invite him to dinner at your place. The best thing to prepare is a home-cooked meal rather than ordering takeout.

He has a strong sense of romance, so he enjoys candlelit dinners in intimate settings. He has a wicked sense of romance, so he enjoys a candlelight dinner with intimate surroundings.

Give hugs.

He loves to be touched.

Cancer men are very tactile and part of their love language is touch. So whenever you can, touch his arm or kiss him on the cheek whenever you meet up with him.

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Chinyere Ibeh is a writer who covers entertainment and pop culture, news, and astrology.