Don't Be The REBOUND Girl! Find Someone Who's Over Their Ex!

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The only way to handle a person who is emotionally unavailable is to let that person go.

Nothing hurts more than being with someone who's still in love with their ex. It happens, and there's nothing you can do about it. People take time to get their exes out of their system. When a man still loves another woman, you will only hurt yourself.

The first thing to consider isit's nothing personal. You cannot compete with pain or with a dream. People stay in love with impossible situations until they get the lesson.

Our lesson is to let them recognize the situation and let go of unavailable people. Read A Life Of Love.

Consider that unavailable people pick unavailable people. When you're truly available, you won't even see this person you will walk right past them. Keep in mind, we always pick the wrong person until we get the lesson.

The good news is the right person is right around the corner. This can be almost impossible to believe in the moment. The key is to let go. Let go or be dragged. I want to assure you it doesn't have to be this person. Believing the guy you're with is the only possible guy is a recipe for pain.

It takes courage to let go of the pain we know, but it's worth it. If you're willing to get through it, you are well on your way to being with someone who's available. Remember, it's not personal; timing is everything, and take yourself out of the holding pattern. The right guy wants you now.

Much love,


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This article was originally published at http://www.jamesallenhanrahan.com/blog. Reprinted with permission from the author.