If You've Got These 3 Things, Congrats! You've Found A GREAT Guy

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3 Ways To Find The Right Man For You

Is he or is he not the right guy for you?

If you're wondering how to find the right man for you and start a relationship, you're going to need to look out for some things with the guy you're dating. However, please note that you need all three of these below. Two out of three is not going to be enough.

To make sure you're not missing anything, here are the 3 things you need to find the right man:

1. You've got chemistry.


That's good news. This means your bodies lust each other which is a lot of fun and a great feeling.

The thing about chemistry is either you've got it or you don't. Be careful that you don't waste time trying to create chemistry where there isn't any. No matter how good a guy looks on paper, if your body doesn't like him, it's not going to work.

At the same time, don't think that you've found the right man just because you've got chemistry.

2. You're compatible.


Meaning you have similar interests and live close enough and have time enough to see each other. This makes a relationship possible.

If you want children and he doesn't, you're incompatible. If you want to live in a foreign country and he doesn't, you're incompatible.

The important thing to note here is that no matter how much chemistry you have, if you're not compatible and you can't come to an agreement, it's not going to work because in the long run, compatibility beats chemistry every time. 

3. You have communication.


This means that you can talk to each other, the conversation doesn't end, you can negotiate, and make and keep agreements.

Now, you have the three C's: Chemistry, Compatibility, and Communication. Awesome! 

This is great news and the start of something special. However, whether or not you'll last depends when you find out if you have the fourth C.

You typically don't find out if the man you're with has the fourth C until you have a disagreement. Men are easy to get along with when everything is going well and new.

A man with character knows how to get through the rough spots and get back in synch. They see being out of synch with you as something that is repairable and they make the effort to do it. In other words, they don't give up.

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To a man with character your feelings matter. He has the ability to feel what you're feeling and tune in with you. It's called empathy. More importantly; not only do your feelings matter to him, they change himIt's called communion, the hidden gem and beauty of love, the value of character with the right man.

Chemistry, compatibility, and communication. When you've got all 3, you have the recipe for the right guy for you.

James Allen Hanrahan is a dating relationship coach in Los Angeles. Get his FREE Chemistry to Commitment formula for lasting love.

This article was originally published at jamesallenhanrahan.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.