5 Things Every Women Should Do To Find Mr. Right

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5 things every women should do when looking for Mr. Right.

There is so much advice and information out there on how to find Mr. Right. However, it is important to keep in mind that men also out looking for their perfect match. So instead on trying to decide where to look, focus on how you can make yourself the best possible mate for your Mr. Right.

Tip 1: Be Yourself
Even though this tip should be a no-brainer, for some it may still be very hard to do. Pretending to be something that you’re not could potentially turn a man off. Ever order something on a menu that looked absolutely delicious, but the actual taste was horrible? Men feel the same way. Though he may not be comparing you to food, he is expecting the things that you say you can deliver.

Tip 2: Be A Friend
I know this sounds scary, but trying to become his friend is a good thing. Ask him questions about the things that he likes, and reveal things about yourself that you like as well. Don’t become defensive if he says something bad about some of the things you like; remember that it’s just his opinion. Also, don’t try to change everything about yourself just to have things in common. Enjoy being different and be confident in your personality. Additionally, enjoy his personality as well. Keep in mind that you won’t agree on everything, but you will still have things in common.

Tip 3: Be A Lady
Men love women who enjoy being a woman. Show him that you like taking care of yourself. Smell good, brush your hair, and always look presentable. Jogging pants and a t-shirt is fine for the gym. However, keep in mind that you can still look neat and sexy. If he comes over, make sure the house is clean and organized. It’s no secret that men and women can be slobs, but that’s just common knowledge and not a trait that you should live up to when you’re trying to get a man.

Tip 3: Flirt
Flirting is easy! Just casually compliment him with a smile. Making up compliments just to have a reason for conversation could sometimes back fire in the long run. Surely there is something that you like about the guy, you just need to express it. To do this, try touching him lightly on the arm or shoulder. Be sure to make the touch gentle and innocent. Be sure to touch and not feel. Too much caressing could cause him to think that you may be a little too promiscuous for his taste. If he touches you back, try not to be offended unless it was inappropriate. When a man opens the door for you, it is common for him to put his hand in the small of your back. Let him treat you like a lady.

Tip 4: Look Attractive
Take the time to look your best. After all, the first thing that attracts a man to a woman is her looks; followed by the things that she has to say. Keep in mind, there is always more to a person than what meets the eye; and this includes you too. Be sure to keep some things a secret until the appropriate time. In other words, dress sexy and sophisticated; dismiss the hooker type clothing. Showing will all your goodies will definitely get you attention, but probably not the type of attention you were looking for. Also, remember that confidence is always attractive. Men like it when women are confident and sure of themselves.

Tip 5: Be Nice
When all else fails, smile! When you smile at a guy, be sure to look him in the eye. Let him see that you are genuine. If you choose to say ‘Hello’, ask him how he’s been AND listen attentively. If you go to the bar for a glass of wine, ask him if he wants a glass too. If you see that he could use a napkin; give him one. If you are ordering food, be extra kind to your server. Be aware that he’s not only looking at how you treat him, he also wants to see how you treat others as well.


Just as there are things that can make you more attractive to men, there are things you may be doing that are turning men off or sabotaging your relationships. You might not even be aware of the fact you are doing it. CLICK HERE to watch my free video on the #1 mistake women make.

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