How To Make A Gemini Man Obsessed With You

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Getting to the heart of a Gemini man is no easy feat.

In astrology, the sign of the Twins is hard to pin down.

Ruled by Mercury, he's a thinker.

He's an air sign, too, which makes him a free-spirit.

To get a Gemini man obsessed with you, you need to respect all that he is and all that he wants to be.

So, how do you capture his heart?

Gemini's most attractive personality traits are their impulsiveness and outgoing demeanor.


If you're spontaneous and open-minded, then you're off to a good start.

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Loving life and wanting to learn about the world is also helpful because a Gemini man wants a person who challenges his mind.


While these are appealing features, it is also what makes it hard to lock down a Gemini man.

Thankfully, there are a few tips to steal the heart of a Gemini.

Here’s how to make a Gemini man obsessed with you:

1. Be his friend.

Geminis love freedom and fun, making a serious commitment a bit of a turn off for them at first.

However, if you become friends first the idea of a relationship won’t seem as scary.

It's a great way for them to become comfortable around you and let you get to know each other before actually diving right into a relationship.

If you’re the person they are always laughing with and confiding in, they’ll start to think of you romantically.


Luckily, once they start thinking of you this way they won’t be able to stop.

2. Be confident.

Because Geminis are so independent by nature, they don’t like to surround themselves with anyone too needy.

Exerting confidence will show them that you have your own priorities and don’t necessarily need them to survive.

There’s nothing more attractive than someone who doesn’t need you, just wants you.

This will have them head over heels for you in no time.

This is also a reassuring sign that you will be confident enough to give them space in the relationship rather than being an overly possessive partner.

Even if you aren't an overly confident person, this is easy to pull off if you work at it. You got this!


3. Ask for advice.

While Geminis don’t want a partner that is too needy, they still like to feel valued.

Asking for their opinion or advice on things you have going on personally or even current events will show them that you value them as an intellectual.

This also demonstrates that you trust them to a certain extent and will make them feel closer to you.

They will love that you confided in them and will be more likely to come to you for advice the next time they need it.

Your bond will be strengthened once you both see that you trust each other enough to come to one another for meaningful advice.

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4. Go on an adventure together.

Geminis love to be spontaneous and try new things!

Plan a date that is more exciting than just dinner and drinks and that will push you both out of your comfort zone.

Not only will this make him love spending time with you but it will also strengthen your bond through new experiences.

A few fun examples could be rock climbing, scuba diving, or a trampoline park.

The boost of adrenaline will put you both in a great mood and when you think of each other later on, you'll remember that rush of excitement. 

This will give them a positive association with you subconsciously and make them feel super happy when you cross their mind. 


5. Be open to new ideas.

One of the best features of a Gemini is this zodiac sign's openness towards everyone and everything.

If you aren’t accepting of others or different ideas from your own, a Gemini will probably move on to someone who is.

Showing them that you are an open-minded individual will make them know that you share similar qualities and keep you on their mind.

This is a great person to surround yourself with because they will always be expanding your mindset and allowing you to do the same for them as well. 

This could mean trying new things, immersing yourself in a new culture, or engaging in new beliefs.


Keep an open mind and the Gemini man of your dreams will be obsessed with you

6. Don't ignore him.

Don't leave his text messages on read.

While most men like a chase and leaving them on read would make them like you more by finding you hard to get, the Gemini man is the complete opposite.

Geminis LOVE to talk and connect, so leaving them on read will only annoy them.

Let's face it, not many people actually enjoy being left with no response to their text. It's just not a good feeling, even if you aren't romantic with the person.

Instead, think of interesting questions to ask him about himself so that the conversation doesn’t fall flat.

This will also help you to get to know each other better.


If you do need to end the conversation, do so politely in the same way you would with a friend.

They will appreciate that you didn't just stop responding.

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Lindsey Matthews is a writer who covers love and relationships, news, and pop-culture topics.