Daily Astrology Love Horoscope For Today, Tuesday, 4/3/2018 For All Zodiac Signs

Daily Astrology Love Horoscope For Today, Tuesday, 4/3/2018 By Zodiac Sign
Love, Zodiac

Vulnerability is a strength even though it does not seem like it.

Your daily love horoscope is here, astrology lovers! It's a great day for all zodiac signs to learn about being strong and soft all at the same time when it comes to love. 

 The Sun is in Aries and the Moon is in Scorpio, but it's too hot in the kitchen so the Scorpion cannot stay.

What is it about an Aries fire sign that makes the most passionate zodiac sign leave?

Can a person have too much personal power that no one can handle all that fierceness?

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There are a lot of single women (and men) out there who are perfectly wonderful, loving and caring human beings but for some reason they have not found their soulmate, yet. First, let's be sure to define a soulmate as the person who 'gets' you. The person who sees to the heart of who you are and loves you just the same. 

There's nothing wrong with who you are when you expose the dark and light sides of your personality to someone who decides that they can't handle what they see. They just weren't meant for you and you were not meant for them. That happens. With Aries, as a female who has walked a mile in the Ram's high heeled stilettos, it's not easy to accept. It's more than frustrating and can be discouraging, too. 

There's a balance that needs to be found between being strong and being vulnerable. When people give advice about what it takes to make being in a relationship last, they mention words like transparency, vulnerability, openness, showing your weaknesses, and letting your guards down.

But some people can't let all their guards down. It goes against the grain not only because they are afraid of getting hurt, although that might be it. The other reason is that their strength makes them appear to be guarded when the fact is that they are not guarded at all. They are literally that strong and not much can knock them down, save for maybe a broken heart. 

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For a very long time, I thought I wanted and needed a soulmate who was stronger than me so that he could handle all my rough edges. To be stronger than me would mean that he would have a lot of rough edges of his own, too. There would be an understanding, I thought, of why I was a bit of a handful to handle when it came to loving my independence. And I dated an alpha male for a little while. It worked for some time, but then something really BIZARRE happened that I had not expected... AT ALL!

Being with someone who was so strong made it difficult for me to let my guards down the way that I needed as time progressed. The strength of another person against my strength actually made me feel not feel the feminine, softer side of me. It's really hard to bump heads against another strong person when neither of the two people will let their guards drop. It's literally the most frustrating thing in the world when two vastly independent human beings are in a relationship with each other.

For some reason, pride and ego come with the 'I don't need anyone' package deal. What ends up happening is a truce that forms and it's really not even a truce, it's a holding pattern until one person finds a way to have their way, and that's not too far from the exit sign on the intersection of Heartbreak Hotel and See You Later Street. My car finally broke down in the parking lot, and I had to call it a day. 

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I realized to be weak, it was superior to be with someone that had a softer slant. Love does this funny thing, it creates compassion and understanding and a protectiveness when you sense someone is willing to give up their heart to you. There's a beauty in that, and when you find that someone is willing to be less pride filled and more humble, it can melt even the strongest cast iron cloaked Ramsling in the world. True story.

Perhaps that's why today the Scorpio Moon in all its power and glory needs almost a full day to catch a breath before entering the sign of Sagittarius. Maybe after being with Aries for two days it has had enough bumping heads and thundering fire in the bedroom for the rest of its sweet life and needs to call it quits to spare itself more grief in the name of lasting love!

What we can all learn from strong love is that it's not a bad thing to be strong and fiercely you when single, but there is a time for egos to be checked at the door and to let each other be soft. As like attracts like, you have to wonder what kind of love do you want to experience?

Do you want soft, warm and all the fuzzies? Or do you prefer strong, unbending, cool exterior with a hard inner shell? For me, I'll take the weak stuff when love is in the mix any day. It's a whole lot nicer to snuggle with at night!

To find out more, look for your zodiac sign below to find out what's in store according to your love horoscope for today in astrology.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Tarot: The High Priestess

Aries, it's tough being a Ram, I know. There's a soft side to you that often is hidden but can come out in the right situation. Today, remember that with the right situation, you'll see that you too can be less edgy and more gentle. Be open to the possibility and let those you love and that love you see the inner you.

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

Tarot: Strength

Taurus, strength and weakness are the yin and yang of self. While you know inherently when to pull the stops and be the tough in a relationship, there's also a side of you that would like to be pampered and be the softer one. Today, explore the expression of all of you in various ways while connecting with others. 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Tarot: The Star

Gemini, when you have to always look out for yourself it can get tiring at times. Today, you have an opportunity to see how the universe cares for you, too. Let your mind and heart feel the protectiveness of love that is around you. Let it go bone deep. 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

Tarot: The Emperor

Cancer, when things don't happen the way we hope and dream it can feel like a great big disappointment and you wonder if you should even put yourself out there again. The answer is yes, you should put yourself out there again. Today, let love remind you that good and beautiful things come from ashes. 

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Tarot: The Fool

Leo, you made a mistake in the past? We all do. You don't have to hold on to anything that brings you down. Instead, be encouraged with the fact that there's always a new opportunity to get a do-over.

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

Tarot: The Lovers

Virgo, there's always a choice to make and you can choose to do things with love or fear. What will you decide to guide your decision making today when it comes to matters of the heart. 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Tarot: The Moon

Libra, awareness can be like a slow lifting of darkness when the light starts to creep in. How are you allowing your eyes to adjust? Do you see the beauty of your ow soul? When you do, you'll discover that same loveliness in the world around you. It's everywhere. 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Tarot: Justice

Scorpio, be it rain or shine things happen for a reason and sometimes we may never know why. Just rest in the assurance that karma is real, it's watching and it has your back. 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

Tarot: The Magician

Sagittarius, give thanks for all that you have and be encouraged that more is coming your way. Life is full of gifts to open in your future. 

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CAPRICORN  (December 22 - January 19)

Tarot: The World

Capricorn, when you imagine what the future will bring include an image of abundant love and joy. If you can see it, you can receive it. 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

Tarot: Death

Aquarius, there's more to do and be than you can ever imagine but there is only room for things that are good for you. When a door closes remind yourself that it's not for you. When a window opens, realize that this may not be what you were expected but it's still a treasured gift. 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

Tarot: The Wheel of Fortune

Pisces, life like love is cyclical. There are highs and lows but with each bend in the ring there's a lesson of love that takes us to the next adventure. 

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Aria Gmitter earned her degree in comparative religious studies from the University of Miami. When she isn't exploring the meaning of life with help from the universe, she can be found stargazing. Follow her on Facebook!