What It's Really Like To Have Sex With An Aquarius

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Showing mirror opposite personality traits than normally are on display in their publicly sweet and sunny demeanor, Aquarius men and women, born between January 20 and February 18, take on a totally different persona in the bedroom.

In fact, they can be the most downright kinky of all zodiac signs in many people's eyes.

Aquarius folks try to put forth a nonchalant attitude about sex because they want to project the image that they can take it or leave it.

But if you want to know how to have great sex with Aquarius males and females, you should know that, in reality, Aquarians are extremely lusty — horn dogs and sex kittens, if you will.

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What It's Like to Have Sex with an Aquarius

1. For Water Bearers, sex is never without substance.

Things erotic are intensely deep and personal for them. Just like they can be prone to over-think and intellectualize everything else in their lives, Aquarius puts a great deal of brainpower into the sex act.

2. Many Aquarians are into anal sex.

Its social stigma attracts them, as do the sensations, which are hyper-intense, bordering on pain, and complex.

Even straight Aquarian men crave a digit or two inserted deep past the knuckle every now and again. Many Aquarius ladies report that they can achieve orgasm solely from anal stimulation, much to the delight of their partners.

3. Aquarians are turned on by the taboo.

While some Water Bearers are disturbed by this fact, most are not.

Although they might appear cool and nonplussed in bed, Aquarians are generally adept lovers and are extremely open-minded. They hold their passion deep inside and try their best to contain their excitement, which they fear makes them appear vulnerable.

Being sexual, in their eyes, is akin to losing control.

4. They love sexting, as well as phone and cyber sex.

They are drawn to phone and cyber sex because of the pretense of they're creating a safe distance both from themselves and from their messy passion.

Since Aquarians are very heady (they're the big thinkers of the Zodiac), the idea of detachment is a huge turn-on for them.

Disembodied erotic encounters, a faceless voice on the telephone, or engorged, unattached genitals on a video monitor offer Aquarius a perfect escape. Men, in particular, may carry on lengthy private chat room trysts that get hot and heavy, yet don't jeopardize their marriages or serious relationships.

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5. Aquarius loves cuckold fantasies.

When Aquarians indulge in role-playing romps, a favorite theme is cuckold fantasies. These days, cuckolding means not just having an unfaithful spouse, but actually getting aroused by watching your partner partake in another. So cuckold away, Aquarians!

This could mean setting up an encounter with another man or woman that the spouse watches from a clandestine spot, unbeknownst to the other partner. Or it could mean that the "other" is in on the whole thing. Often, this type of three-way relationship can endure for many happy years.

6. They tend to produce a lot of semen and can 'squirt'.

Even though the Water Bearer is not a water sign, they have certain water elements, especially in the sack.

Aquarius gals are often gushers — that's right, they actually squirt copious amounts of a thick, clear liquid when they climax. While this might put off some timid partners, others take it as the rare gift it is.

I remember a cousin confiding in me that he once dated a lady who was a gusher. When I asked what happened to her, he gave me a wicked grin and said, "I married her!" And wouldn't you know it, his wife was an Aquarius through and through.

Likewise, a good number of Aquarius men are right up there with their female counterparts, blessed with intense and bountiful emissions.

7. They are attracted to those branded offbeat or odd.

Because those born under this auspicious sign also tend to be very wise and knowing, they see the spark in potential partners that others do not.

Physical differences don't faze them. They have the gift of looking beyond the fact that someone may have a prominent scar, lost a limb or has dwarfism, and are able to see the unique, special qualities in someone society labels "disabled."

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Ariella Moonstone has been a sought-after astrologer for several decades, counting many recognizable names among her private clientele. Vivian Woodley, MA/MFT, has been a licensed therapist for more than 20 years, specializing in issues related to sexuality.