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He won't be able to stop thinking about you!
By Lindsey Matthews — Written on Dec 16, 2020
Is there a way to make a man obsessed with you?
If you're loving an Aquarius man, you might find that there are certain things he loves and emotionally wants from you.
Aquarius men are best known for their rebel without a cause attitude and their free spirit persona.
This can make dating them exhilarating but sometimes exhausting.
You might feel like they always have the upper hand and would like to make them fall for you a bit harder.
Follow these tips on how to improve your love life with an Aquarius man.
Here's how to make an Aquarius man obsessed with you:
1. Play hard to get.
Aquarius men love the chase and will find you more appealing if you play hard to get.
Leave him on read and don’t be overly available to keep him thinking about you.
If he feels like he’s an option to you, he’ll be dying to become your number one.
Keep him guessing and working hard for your attention to win him over.
Aquarius men are kind of used to getting whatever they want to an extent so having to chase you will be something new to them.
This will make you extra intriguing to them and he'll be wondering what else or who else has your attention.
Still show him that you like him when necessary but be sure he knows there are plenty of other guys who would be dying to get your attention.
2. Don't be the jealous type.
Aquarius men are already a little scared of commitment and getting jealous frequently will only drive them away.
While you are probably just looking for reassurance that you’re his priority, he will be running for the hills.
If something is truly bothering you, calmly voice your concerns to him rather than getting overly jealous.
This will make him love you for being levelheaded and mature.
Avoid being an overly possessive partner and have an open conversation about what you are both comfortable with.
This conversation should give you both a healthy chance to set boundaries before jealousy becomes a bigger issue.
This is beneficial for you both and will work wonders for setting a solid foundation of mutual trust between the two of you.
3. Surprise him.
Small gestures go a long way for the Aquarius man and they’re even better as surprises.
They crave spontaneity and surprises are the true keys to their heart.
Picking up their favorite drink from Starbucks without being asked or planning a secret weekend getaway will warm his heart and prove to him you are the girl of his dreams.
Little surprises here and there will bring you both closer together and show him how much you care for him.
Chances are that he will notice the nice things you are always doing for him and act the same towards you in return.
4. Be mysterious.
It’s important to be yourself but resist the urge to reveal too much information right away.
Keep some details to yourself so that he feels like he is always learning something new about you.
While you don't have to lie or resist being who you really are, it is a good idea to take your take letting him get to know you.
This will cause him to think of you as sexy and mysterious, ultimately leading to him wanting more.
He'll be wondering what else there is to learn about you and will want to plan more time with you as soon as possible.
5. Be independent.
Aquarius men love women who are go-getters and have their own thing going for themselves.
Feel free to focus on yourself while still pursuing an Aquarius man, it will actually make them more interested in you.
Show him that you have your own priorities going already and that he will have to work hard to become one of them.
As mentioned before, Aquarius men love the chase and this will drive him crazy in the best way.
Being responsible and mature are major turn-ons for the Aquarius and they will want to lock you down asap.
6. Show your intellectual side.
Aquarius men are wildly attracted to women who are all beauty AND brains.
Show him that you’re more than just a pretty face by striking up a conversation outside of small talk.
Having deeper conversations will make him remember his time with you more and make it impossible for him to stop thinking about you.
An Aquarius man looks for a woman that have conversations about everything under the sun and those who have a bit of an analytical side to them as well.
Chances are one of the reasons you're interested in the Aquarius man is because of his intellectual personality.
Showing off your intellectual side will be the best way to show him how compatible the two of you are.
Lindsey Matthews is a writer who covers love and relationships, news, and pop-culture topics.