20 Ways To Embrace Your Feminine Energy (That Will Help You Attract Your Soulmate)

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Give your personal magnetism a boost.

Does feminine energy make you more magnetic? And if it does increase your charisma, can using your femininity help you learn how to attract men — and maybe even your soulmate?


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Many women, such as myself, are pretty masculine in energy. Women who have been single for a long time are used to taking care of all of life. Without a male partner to share in the tasks of a household, we pick a hammer, plunger, jumper cables, and ladders and fix everything ourselves.

Sara Chetkin says, "We are all very familiar with this energy because our culture glorifies these traits, but what about the feminine energy? The yin aspect of self is associated with night or darkness, inner potency, pre-manifestation, introversion, and receptivity (stillness!)."

Even worse, many over-masculine women have absolutely no skills to ask for help.

Independence is a lovely thing... until you get a flat tire. Don't get me wrong, I love my single life, but I am definitely getting better asking for help. Recently I asked a guy friend of mine to help me with my care. He replaced the distributor while I got to watch.

If you're ready to embrace your feminine energy — and use it to your advantage to help you attract your soulmate — then try these 20 ideas from the Feminine Energy Experiment below.

This list of fabulous feminine power-promoting actions will add more softness and receptivity to your sometimes hard-nosed self. They might help you find love, too.

Before you begin your Feminine Energy Experiment, ask yourself these questions:

  • Are you fairly sure you do not have a problem tapping into your feminine energy?
  • Do you feel feminine and not masculine at all?

Next, do a "body audit." If you have tightness, stiffness, sciatica or any joint or muscle issues on the right side of your body, you might have too much masculine energy activated.

And lastly, if you read this experiment and some of the ideas upset you or make you angry or fearful, pay attention to that. Resisting feminine actions could be a major clue to you in your hunt to get over your resistance!

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Now here's the challenge: For the next two weeks, choose as many of these actions below as you can and try a softer side on for size. Take note of how it affects your charisma, magnetism, and receptivity to love.

Ready? Go!

Here are 20 ways to embrace and celebrate your feminine energy — that will help you be more open to finding love:

  1. Make it a priority to find women who will support you unconditionally, and spend time with them on a regular basis.
  2. Release any guilt you may feel about being "girly", participating in "traditional" roles that feel right to you, and in engaging in feminine activities that nourish your soul, mind, and body.
  3. Allow men to celebrate their masculiniity.
  4. Create a plan to spend time on a regular basis in a way you find nourishing — and stick to it.
  5. Compliment yourself when you look into a mirror.
  6. Any time you have a negative thought about yourself, "erase" it and replace it with ten positive thoughts or compliments.
  7. Appreciate that calm and emotionally wholesome relationships provide opportunities for personal growth.
  8. Exhale, and allow yourself to be confident and secure in the wisdom of your womanhood.
  9. Exercise in ways that feel comforting and supportive of your beautiful, womanly body.
  10. Appreciate that nature creates, just as women do, and make efforts to spend more time in it.
  11. Celebrate your body as a temple, and delight in the gift of your sexual nature.
  12. Greet personal growth and exploration with childlike openness and eagerness.
  13. Genuinely like yourself.
  14. Appreciate the menstrual cycle as a time for reflection, renewal, and self-nurture.
  15. Empower yourself during pregnancy and in birth and trust that your body is a divine being of creation with inherent self-knowledge about the process.
  16. Step out of your comfort zone, and then applaud yourself for your bravery.
  17. Wear frilly, soft pajamas, or undergarments for your own pleasure.
  18. Allow yourself to flirt innocently and smile at the world.
  19. Decorate your environments in ways that uplift and inspire you to be your best self.
  20. Recognize that it is healthy to want personal time and step fully into it.

The ideas for this experiment came from Caroline A. Shearer, the founder of Absolute Love Publishing, which was born out of a mission to create and publish projects promoting goodness in the world. 

Try these ways to embrace your feminine energy and see what can happen in your love life.

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Catherine Behan is a peak performance coach specializing in communication who can zero in on and uncover hidden blocks to success like nobody’s business. Curious how your personal magnetism is being interpreted others? Take the quiz at Reset Sex.

This article was originally published at CatherineBehan.com. Reprinted with permission from the author.