How To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You

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How To Make A Capricorn Man Obsessed With You
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To make a Capricorn man obsessed with you, you need to know how to appeal to his hard-working mindset.

Born between December 21 - January 20, Capricorns are practical, down-to-earth people who value traditional things such as loyalty, trust, and friendship.

They are independent, and Capricorns rarely rely on others.

Acting needy won't capture a Capricorn man's interest.

You want to show him that you are a partner, not someone he needs to rescue.

So, how to make a Capricorn man obsessed with you?

Just like anyone, Capricorn men do still want love, but they make sure that it is not an invasive love.

Capricorn men don’t want to be held back or misunderstood.

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The first step to grabbing the Capricorn man’s attention is by understanding him, knowing what makes him tick.

I’ve compiled a helpful list to provide you with just that, a guide to the Capricorn man’s heart.

Read on for how to make a Capricorn man obsessed with you, according to astrology.

1. Show that you are driven.

Earth sign Capricorns are pragmatic and goal-oriented.

They constantly strive to be the best and achieve all that they want in life because of their realistic plans and dedication.

As a cardinal sign, Capricorn man lives his life around his ambitions.

Showing him that you too have ambitions and means of meeting your goals will impress him.

A Capricorn man would be driven crazy by someone lazy or unfocused.

He would not give that kind of person the time of day.

Discussing your dreams and plans with the Capricorn man will excite him.

Maybe even make him picture a future with you in it.

He would love to be a part of a driven power couple.

2. Bring out his fun side.

All work and no play makes Capricorn a dull boy.

Capricorns get a bad rap for being boring because of their practicality and career focus.

They do have a fun side that only those close to him get to really see.

Draw that fun side out of the Capricorn man.

Learn his interests and appeal to them.

Pulling the fun side out of the pragmatic Capricorn man will make him appreciate that you can see a side to him that he often doesn’t display.

It can also balance his life in a way that he might not do on his own.

Be careful not to get in the way of his ambitions, or he could resent you.

Allow for fun when there is an opportunity to do so can bring more joy into the Capricorn man’s life.

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3. Have a dry sense of humor.

Part of the reason people think that Capricorns don’t allow for fun is that they often don’t recognize the kind of fun that Capricorns like to have.

Capricorn men have a dry, witty sense of humor.

Showing that you can keep up with his quips will not only impress him, but it will make him think you’re pretty darn special.

Some people think that Capricorn’s humor is mean or snarky.

So show the Capricorn man that you understand it is all in good fun he will feel understood.

Capricorns are highly intelligent and that comes through their wit.

Showing how witty you can be will prove to Capricorn that you can keep up with him intellectually.

4. Let him take the lead.

Capricorns are a cardinal sign, they are born at the beginning of their season, winter.

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Cardinal signs are known for being leaders and self-starters.

While a Capricorn man can admire strength in his partner, if that strength is exerted in a take-charge way, he can feel impeded upon or not needed.

Two leaders can often clash especially if they are trying to lead in different directions.

Allow the Capricorn man to be the leader.

Show your own strength and ideas in a different, more supportive, way will make him want to keep you around.

This is not to say you should let him boss you around.

In fact, a Capricorn man would welcome being challenged.

But if he feels like he is being bossed around, he may decide to continue on independently.

5. Ask him for advice.

Capricorn men like to feel needed.

They are smart and resourceful and usually know how to get out of sticky situations.

Asking a Capricorn man for advice or help will make him feel needed, and it shows that you recognize those strengths in him.

Furthermore, the advice he gives will no doubt be useful.

The Capricorn man doesn’t want to fix you by any means, but asking for his help on an issue will make him feel important and useful.

This will also allow for some vulnerability sharing which doesn’t always come naturally to Capricorn men.

A conversation like this will bring the two of you closer together and make the Capricorn man feel good about having you in his life.

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Colleen Fogarty is a writer who covers self-care, astrology, and relationship topics.