How To Win A Guy Back (When You've Pushed Him Away), By Zodiac Sign

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How To Get A Man Back After Pushing Him Away, By Zodiac Sign

Some zodiac signs are more difficult to win back in love than others, but that doesn't mean it's impossible when you understand the way your horoscopes connected with astrology.

It’s never too late to turn your mistakes into a successful love story. What made a man fall in love with you the first time, can be the same thing that makes him come back when you've loved and lost him and regret it.

It’s not easy to always say or do the right thing in front of your crush. Nerves are a dreadful thing that makes you do terrible stuff, which is understandable as long as it’s not something super heinous.

But if love is real, then a guy who has felt affection for you won't forget those emotions. There's a chance that not only does he miss you, but he's looking for an excuse to come back to your relationship once again. But first, he needs to know if you are ready, and there are smart ways for a woman to show she's not intending to return to old patterns again.

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But the matter of reality is that first impressions are important, especially in new or forming relationships even if you are compatible zodiac signs. The first few times you meet someone is crucial in allowing the other person to understand who you are and whether you’ll be compatible with him.

But sometimes the gorgeous sparkle in his eyes can be way too intense, especially if he's got a little Scorpio in his horoscope, and make you do something foolish like sending a trail of snot into his food. Or maybe you called him a “mama’s boy” in an endearing manner (because you love men who know how to appreciate their parents) but he took it more offensively.

Either way, you’re probably curling your fingers and kicking your blankets in frustration at night because the chances he’s going to call you again are dim.

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Have no fear because mistakes are meant to be fixed and there is always something you can do to salvage the situation, which you should always start with a sincere apology and explain your mistake and side of the story. If he’s reasonable and understanding, he’ll laugh it off and you can put the embarrassing memory behind you. 

However, just because he understands where you’re coming from, doesn’t mean you automatically win his heart again. If anything, he’s letting you know it’s okay but that’s where he’s drawing the line. Now you have to put in work to win back his love again.

Here is how you can still win him over even if you initially scared him away, according to his zodiac, per astrology.

ARIES (March 21 — April 19)

Aries men are known to be quite competitive people. They dislike inactivity, delays, and losing. Invite him to do something you enjoy to do and that you’re good at like soccer or go-kart racing. He’ll appreciate being active and up on his feet (or brain). Not only that, but he’ll enjoy the competition that you give him, which will only make him work harder to win first in whatever you both are doing.

TAURUS (April 20 — May 20)

Taurus men are affectionate and curious people but hate sudden changes or spontaneous events.  They enjoy using their hands to create something and appreciate music. Schedule a cooking or pottery class for both of you to take together. He’ll feel happy to create something rather cool or marvelous and he’ll appreciate you for it. Congrats girl, you just score 10 points on his good side.

3. GEMINI (May 21 — June 20)

Gemini men are known to be quite indecisive who hate being alone. They’re highly sociable people who enjoy all types of music and books. Buy tickets to a local band concert or invite him to go book thrifting around town. Both of you can enjoy each other’s company and appreciate vintage books over a cup of coffee.

CANCER (June 21 — July 22)

Cancer men are very emotional and tenacious beings. They love art and being homebodies. Invite him to a local art gallery or play and then make him a fancy home-cooked meal. You guys can bond over what each art piece represents or discuss what the ending meant in the play. He’ll also appreciate you for the relaxing (and quiet) dinner after a long day of being outside.

LEO (July 23 — August 22)

Leo men love being the center of attention and expensive things. They also love watching theatre and being around a large group of friends. Invite him to an afternoon date at the local theatre showing and then go bar hopping with friends at night. He’ll love that you appreciate the theatre but can also know how to be loud and have fun.

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VIRGO (August 23 — September 22)

Virgo men are quite introverted and often have a methodical approach to life. They love being surrounded by animals and nature. Surprise him with a green smoothie in the morning and a hiking date. Having you by his side while he becomes one with nature will bring both of you closer.

LIBRA (September 23 — October 22)

Libra men are known to be peaceful and fair who can’t stand being alone. They enjoy to nature-watch a lot. Just providing the Libra man company will make him fall in love with you.

But if you really want to win his heart, invite him to your social gatherings even if you know he’s busy. He’ll appreciate the fact that you thought about him and will be forever thankful for it.

SCORPIO (October 23 — November 21)

Scorpio men are quite secretive beings. But once you crack open a Scorpio man’s shell, you’ll understand that he is very passionate and likes people who are loyal.

To win over a Scorpio’s heart, all you have to do is be transparent and honest with him. Scorpio men can be very jealous so it’s always good to clear his mind of any doubts, little or big. Then invite him to a dinner and movie at your house.

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 — December 21)

Sagittarius men are very energetic and humorous people. They hate taking things too seriously and love exploring new things.

A fast way into a Sagittarius man’s heart is to constantly keep him on his toes. Send him surprise flowers at work and plan a road trip somewhere he’s never been before.

CAPRICORN (December 22 — January 19)

Capricorn men are very disciplined people who love traditions. This means he values being around family and being proud of where he comes from.

Invite the Capricorn man to one of your family nights where you guys eat, drink, and play games. If you’re afraid this step is too fast into the relationship for your liking, introduce him as a friend first to your family. He won’t mind and he’ll appreciate that you care enough to introduce him to your safety zone.

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AQUARIUS (January 20 — February 18)

Aquarius men are known to deep thinkers. They have good social skills but also value alone time.

Invite your Aquarius man to a quiet cafe where both of you can enjoy good coffee and lose yourselves in an intellectual conversation. He’ll appreciate you for listening and love you for being able to bring another perspective into his views.

PISCES (February 19 —March 20)

Pisces men are compassionate and intuitive people who just love to help in any way they can. They value emotional relationships with the people close to them.

Offer to volunteer with the Pisces man at a Charity or animal shelter and he’ll forever love you for your big heart. The Pisces man often dreams of escaping reality to a world where there is no violence and there are only peace and love, which is an almost impossible reality altogether. However, support and allow him to know that you’re at least trying to contribute to a better world even if you can’t fix it.

Amy Le is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture and relationship topics.