What He Finds Attractive Vs. What He Finds Unattractive, According To Astrology

What He Finds Attractive Vs. What He Finds Unattractive, According To Astrology
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Have you ever been in a relationship and wondered what made a guy fall in love with you? Was it all physical at first, then the emotions grew after the fact? Perhaps, for you, it was the other way around. You caught feelings first and then the rest flowed from there. 


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As I’m sure you know, there are a plethora of ways a man can fall in love with someone, and if you’re like me, you like hearing those “how we met and fell in love" stories from whoever’s willing to tell you

I’ve heard so many different ways people fall in and out of love, to be quite frank with you. One of my friends met her boyfriend because she was at a bar and the bartender kept going up to him and his friends before paying her and her friend’s any attention so she wanted to save some time and started a conversation.


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Two of my friends met their significant others because we all have the same alma mater, but they didn’t meet until after our undergraduate education. The stories get more entertaining time after time.

The truth is we all have ways that we can be wooed into falling in love, it just comes down to who’s working on building the attraction and who is the one who is either attracted or not. How they’re doing it and the context of the situation.

Oh, and zodiac signs play a role in it too. Depending on your horoscope sign, different characteristics about a person attract you and there are things that kill the attraction for each zodiac sign, too. 

Here is what makes a guy fall in love with you, per his zodiac sign, and the things that make him find you unattraction, by horoscope date in astrology.


1. ARIES (March 21-April 19)

Attractive: Aries love boldness and dirty talk. They thrive off of excitement and that very much comes into play in the bedroom. Show your enthusiasm and spontaneity in the in the sack and they won’t want to let you go.

Unattractive: Control freaks and anyone trying to change them. You’ve got to let them be them or they’ll leave you in the rear view because they’re independent thinkers.


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2. TAURUS (April 20-May 20)

Attractive:  Fancy dates, sensual massages, and other romantic gestures. Romance is a Taurus’ weakness; so showering them with your time and affection (in different ways) will solidify you winning them over.

Unattractive: Two things, constant complaining and being dishonest. The Taurus sign tries their best to avoid drama at all costs, so when their potential significant other is constantly involved with drama (let alone the cause of it) it’s extremely aggravating to them. Also since the Taurus sign is so loyal, they can’t stand liars and/or cheaters.


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3. GEMINI (May 21-June 20)

Attractive:  Honesty, intelligence, and wit. Geminis are social beings, so having these qualities will be the best way to keep them interested. Quite frankly, otherwise they’ll be bored.

Unattractive: People who give off negative vibes. Geminis won’t even let a person out of the friend zone if they don’t think that the person will be fun down the line. Therefore if you’re going to be predictable and boring they won’t keep you around for long.


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4. CANCER (June 21-July 22)

Attractive:  Sensuality and affection. They’re suckers for these things. They love thoughtful and romantic gestures, as well as being touchy feely.

Unattractive: Arrogance, selfishness and reluctance to compromise. Cancers value empathy big time, so when they come across people who are all about themselves, it disgusts them.


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5. LEO (July 23-August 22)

Attractive:  Playfulness and confidence. Leos are very much drawn to people who have fun in life. Being outgoing is sexy to them.

Unattractive: Constant negativity and selfishness. Leos don’t want to be around someone who’s going to constantly bring the mood down. They’re optimistic by nature so someone’s who’s too much of a realist would be doing just that. They crave excitement and people with a can-do attitude and avoid people who are the opposite.


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6. VIRGO (August 23-September 22)

Attractive:  Being an expert in the sheets.  Virgos get very turned on by people who know how to keep them wanting more.

Unattractive:  Bad hygiene, bad habits, and laziness. They literally have no tolerance for it. If they find that you’re a slob, it won’t be too long before they’re walking out of the door. Their sign is just very much into people who have their s&%t together.


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7. LIBRA (September 23-October 22)

Attractive:  a loved one being touchy-feely with them, as well as natural beauty. Something about a playful and seductive attitude just gets their juices flowing. In terms of natural beauty, Libras are #teamnatural all of the way and are drawn to it very strongly.

Unattractive: Confrontational people who also happen to always find themselves in drama. Libras are just one of those signs who are too mature to involve themselves in pointless drama, so they don’t. If having no choice but to be involved in a conflict they will usually play the role of a peace-maker, which obviously is unpleasant.


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8. SCORPIO (October 23-November 21)

Attractive: Challenges. Particularly when an interest plays hard to get. It’s just simply exciting for them. The chase is evenly as pleasurable as the destination. They’re also highly attracted to those who take care of their overall well-being. Therefore staying in shape physically, mentally and spiritually will help your chances of winning them over.

Unattractive: Dishonesty and unfaithfulness. Scorpios have big time trust issues so they have no tolerance for any kind of dishonesty. Do yourself a favor and keep it real. If not they’ll be quick to cut things off with you.


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9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22-December 21)

Attractive:  Spontaneity, sense of humor and an open mind. They’re not into uptight personalities and will always prefer adventurous souls to any others. They also can’t stand judgmental/overbearing people either so that’s why being open-minded is a plus.

Unattractive: Being boring, dishonest and controlling. People playing mind games and wasting their time set them off more than anything else so they can’t handle it. Also, people that bark orders at them never stick around in their life for too long because they don’t tolerate it. Sagittarians love their independence so that’s why the controlling thing doesn’t fly.


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10. CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19)

Attractive:  Someone with class, and a bit of mysteriousness. Go to fancy dinners or other events where you have to dress up so they can see how you clean up. It will definitely impress them. Also because they like mysteriousness don’t go telling all of your business, leave some things to their imagination.

Unattractive: Obnoxious, conceited people who live by their egos. Capricorns are literally disgusted by this. Don’t take too many selfies, only talk about yourself and do yourself a favor and break out of the habit of thinking about them as an afterthought, and you should have a solid chance with them.


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11. AQUARIUS (January 20-February 18)

Attractive:  Confidence, Intelligence and your ability to bring something new to the table. An Aquarius is one of the signs that dig the adventurous type. Therefore passion and excitement is very attractive to them. You’ll want to share your wit from time to time as well because brains are attractive to them.

Unattractive:  Being clingy, demanding and needy. These qualities are a turnoff for Aquarians because they’re freedom seekers by nature. Therefore they need their space even in a relationship. If you expect them to be waiting around for you all of the time (or vice versa) it will make them run away.


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12. PISCES (February 19-March 20)

Attractive:  Artsy, romantic and playful people. These qualities draw Pisces in like no other. If you write them a song or do something else romantically artistic, they’ll probably start wondering what date would be best to get married.

Unattractive: Closed-mindedness, bossy and unkind people. Pisces is one of the most open-minded signs so people that are the opposite are a huge turnoff to them. Bossiness is a turnoff because typically people that are bossy try to belittle other’s ideas. Therefore Pisces would be prime victims of this. You can disagree with a Pisces, but they’ll demand that you at least respect their ideas, or it’s over.


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