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Scorpios are tricky whippersnappers to figure out.
By Camila Isopo Novi — Written on Mar 29, 2018
When you get into a new relationship, everything is exciting and everything’s all good.
But life and love both experience forms of failure and it can feel like you've suddenly fallen out of your relational A-Game.
As time passes, you should continue to feel happy to be with your partner. But, relationships are as dynamic as horoscopes and zodiac signs.
That’s kind of the point. Relationships are for inspiring personal growth and growth as a team. As life changes and people change too, emotions aren’t always going to stay the same either.
Life sometimes gets in the way which shouldn’t be a problem if you attack challenges as partners and not as opposing competitors. However, it’s hard not to react or change to these new circumstances.
There isn’t one proper way of reacting to something or someone. There isn’t one right life path for someone to take in order to achieve their goals. Not for you or for the person you’re dating.
That’s why it’s important to get to know your significant other’s horoscope, zodiac sign, personality, moods, habits, and their stressors. Along with those things, it’s important to get to know about their goals, events, and the people in their lives.
Their inner thoughts about everything around them is going to determine their behavior. So, it’s important to realize that they’ll change and it’s important to be able to acknowledge how these changes come about.
The last thing someone needs to feel in the relationship is that they’re caught off guard or like they have no clue who they’re dating. If you know you’re person, you also know when they aren’t being themselves.
That’s also important because it clues you in that something’s wrong. When something’s wrong in the relationship, you’re both going to want to fix it. That’s really the main reason why you should truly get to know them well.
It’s to understand them better. You can’t know when something is wrong with your partner when they are feeling stressed and seem and you don’t know how they should normally behave. A lot of it has to do with their zodiac sign. It tends to influence their basic personality traits.
Scroll down to find out how each zodiac sign reacts when they’re off their game, according to astrology!
1. ARIES (March 21 - April 19): Watch out for those horns!
When your Arian feels unstable, he charges full steam ahead. He's usually one to do his own thing. He's infamous for his fieriness and aggression but you don't have to worry about it.
Unless, he's out of it. When this happens, stay out of the way no matter how hard he tries to get on your nerves.
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2. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Sometimes he goes on strike.
If you're in a relationship with a Taurean man, you already know he's stubborn. When he's upset, he shuts down emotionally and you can't pull him out of it. It's not necessarily his thing to deal with conflict directly.
It's best not to get him to open up when he's not ready. Push him too much and he might start charging like an Aries, but that shouldn't really happen considering how shy he is.
3. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You get a second boyfriend without cheating.
Gemini is infamous for its huge personality. Your Gemini is so out there they need two humans to symbolize one of them. When they're stressed out, you think you'll have your regular boyfriend and get a different one instead.
They won't make a proper decision and they'll lose that focus or zest for their life. You might go a little insane wondering where that loveable person has gone (temporarily, hopefully).
4. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Is anybody in there?
These people are tough on the outside and mushy on the inside. They're more emotional than people realize and they feel with depth. If your Cancerian is upset, it's quite likely they'll get overwhelmed by their own negativity.
So, they'll retreat into their shell in order to avoid being hurt by conflict. What is your normally emotionally receptive boyfriend, turns into emotionless mush.
5. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You get a free theatre show against your will.
It's pretty easy to figure out when Leo's unstable and hard to handle afterwards. Your Leo will probably be highly unstable, anyways. But, when something sets them off, they bring the drama and theatrics.
You'll hear their roar and sense them trying to get a reaction out of you. It never lasts and so it's wise to just be patient, if you can.
6. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You'll receive an assessment.
You're not their employee but you know they have high standards and love to have a chance for criticizing. So, if they're unstable, nothing will please them.
You will more than likely be the recipient of their criticism. Don't bother changing your choices. They'll criticize you if you make the opposite ones, anyway.
7. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): They get unusually quiet.
My friend used to disappear or get really quiet when upset with something. If she'd get embarrassed, she wouldn't want to be around people.
If I said something crazy, she'd get even quieter than normal. A certain face would accompany it too. If you've got a Libra male, it's a similar thing.
8. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): I don't even know and I'm a Scorpio dating a Scorpio.
If you're Scorpio is unstable, good luck! We are tough cookies to grab and we're not everyone's favorite flavor. This is a water sign, through and through, but they're dark and challenging whereas the others empathetic and soft.
My person and I are quite moody in general. But, I've noticed we'll act incredibly serious or fussy when upset by something.
9. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21): They become long-distance runners.
Your Sagittarius is one of the people with a love for life and the energy to live it. You already understand they don't need you because they have their own life. However, when frustrated, they lean away from you as opposed to against you.
Always allow them some space. You never want an upset Sagittarius to feel like you're smothering them.
10. CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19): They hate you and everything else in this universe.
They probably hate you anyway. If you're with them, they're with you. They love their people very much.
But, they get easily frustrated and impatient with things they consider flawed...which is everything. So, don't be surprised if they're not always showing how much they love you.
11. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): They lean on you for your brain.
These are highly cerebral people. They shouldn't have to depend on you for what they think. It's been my experience, though, that an Aquarian male will constantly ask what you think is right whenever they're unstable.
Sometimes, you think the answers to their questions are obvious. Be patient with these weirdos and they'll eventually start sorting these problems for themselves.
12. PISCES (February 19 - March 20): So. Much. Waterworks.
Yeah, these fishy people are sensitive normally. But, they aren't necessarily sad people. Your Pisces person will bring on a flood through their eyes when upset.
Just be patient and kind with them. They're probably not doing this to you out of maliciousness.