How To Win Her Back After A Breakup, According To Her Zodiac Sign

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Your guide to getting her back (for good!)

Winning your girlfriend back is NOT easy, but when you love someone enough to want them back, you always find a way to fight for them. Looking to astrology and to her zodiac sign can be a great place to start to re-kindle your relationship after a breakup.

And if you ask me, fighting for someone you love is about as romantic as you can get.

And when I say fight, I mean really fight for her. No, not fist-fighting and no, not sending her love letters and roses.

I mean, making it known that she is the only person you’ve ever wanted in your life and that you will wait as long as it takes for her to realize you mean it.

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Basically, any part in a romantic movie or book that makes you bawl. But your life was not written by Nicholas Sparks and neither was mine, so we have to fight for love the old fashion way — by looking to the stars and her horoscope's personality traits for help.

Sure, you can take notes from these books and movies, but it’s also important to really know who you’re dealing with and, if she's the one who left the relationship, why it is that she broke up with you. 

For example, if you want to know how to win her back for good, you need to know whether her zodiac sign is a Cancer or a Capricorn.

One will react to gifts and romance, while the other will want you to give it to her straight without trying to butter her up with kisses first.

Do you know which one is which? Because before you can win her back, you need to strategize exactly what will work for her and what will send you packing again. But even before that, it’s important to ask yourself why you want to win her back.

If you keep thinking about how great it felt to have someone to come home to, to have someone to go out with, and someone to joke around with, then you might not necessarily want your ex back – you might just want someone in your life.

But if you can’t seem to fall asleep without remembering what it was like to stroke her hair or see her smile whenever you told her a cheesy joke, then you clearly still have feelings for this one particular person.

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And it might be scary to go back to your ex, not knowing if she’s moved on yet or if she still thinks about you too, but if you really do love her still, that’s a risk you should be willing to take. You never know what will happen! But don’t worry, no matter how you feel, you aren’t going into this alone.

Knowing her astrological sign is a good starting point; everything else is up to what you know about her. So, if you want to win her back for good, here is everything you need to know, based on her horoscope and astrology.

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

Winning an Aries back isn’t impossible, but you do have to play your cards right. This is a vulnerable time for her, especially because she doesn’t take relationships or break ups lightly, so it’s important that you show her you’re serious.

The most important thing is to respect her needs and her space. If she tells you she needs time to think, give it to her; violating her space will only make things harder for you.

But before she asks for space, she’ll want to hear why you think you should get back together, so be assertive. Don’t beat around the question, tell it to her straight: you love her and you miss her.

Not only that, remember to show her that she’s important enough to fight for. You don’t want to get back with her because you’re lonely, you want HER. Most importantly, prove that you are — not that you can be —independent, with or without her. She needs to see that you can be an adult, not that you rely on her for everything.

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus knows as well as you how romantic winning her back might look in the movies, but that’s a totally unrealistic standard to live up to in real life. When trying to win a Taurus back, remember to use logic, not your imagination.

She doesn’t want you to romance her and pretend like your past together never happened. At the same time, walking up to her and asking her to take you back into going to work, either.

Take your time; winning Taurus back is a marathon, not a race. She’s going to stick to her guns at first, but chances are, she still thinks about you every once in a while, so you haven’t lost her yet.

When she starts to warm up to you again, treat her like a princess. Court her like it’s the first time; remember how much effort you put in on your first date?

Do that again and she’ll be putty in your hands. Show her what you miss about being with her and then let her make the final decision about your relationship.

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

Gemini probably broke up with you in the first place because she was getting bored. So, one of the most important things to do when trying to win a Gemini back is proving to her that this time will be more fun.

And no, that doesn’t mean spamming her timeline with photos of your skydiving. She needs to see that you’re not just all work and no play; that you can be a “Why not? Let’s do it!” kind of person.

When first approaching Gemini about getting back together, be vocal! She wants to hear you say you love her and want her back; roses and a cheesy song won’t do it.

When you can say it out loud, it means you aren’t afraid to speak up. And if she does take you back, you need to be a better communicator. So much so that she tells you TMI; let her be the judge about how much you’re sharing.

For her, communication equals honesty. Then, give her freedom while she thinks about it all, as well as in the relationship; don’t be clingy or she’ll be your ex again.

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

It doesn’t matter if the break up between you and Cancer was amicable or messy, she’s going to be sad. When you want to win back a Cancer, you need to know beforehand that she’s going to try to milk this for a while.

It might be a little annoying, but it’s important to let her be selfish. When she realizes you’re there to listen to her, she’ll drop the act and really consider what you want.

Most importantly, be honest with her and use sincere words; don’t put on a show or get too sappy. She wants you to come from the heart, rather than use words you learned from a romantic comedy.

That said, TLC and romance do her you win her back. Bringing her her favorite flowers or holding her hand and using eye contact when you state your case will show her that you’re being heartfelt and genuine.

Of course, make sure you’re being you, too. If you’re just using these techniques to get on her good side, she’ll tell you to forget it.

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

Leo believes that every apology should come with a “kiss and make up” gift. But even if you come to a Leo to try to win her back with flattering comments about how good she looks and some expensive chocolates, you need to remind yourself why you’re really there. S

he won’t say no to gifts, but if she thinks you’re just buttering her up before begging her to come back, she’ll just roll her eyes and tell you, “Boy, bye.”

Winning her back is going to be a little hard, but it is doable. It might not seem like it at times, but Leo wants love and affection just like everyone else. Let her know that she’s still in charge; just because you’re willing to work hard to keep her doesn’t mean she has to say yes, right?

What helps is making a plan together. Whether that means couples counseling or just a night every week to really bond with each other, show her that this relationship is meaningful to you by penciling “Leo time” into your calendar. Being proactive is very important for her to see.

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

When trying to win a Virgo back, you have to be prepared to break through her hard outer shell. She might still have feelings for you or she might even want YOU back, but she sure as heck isn’t going to be the first to admit it.

To do this, you need to stay logical and be calm’ she will not react positively to crying or an expression of any kind of your emotions. The biggest thing for Virgo is showing her that you can commit to things outside of your relationship with her.

She might have ended it in the first place because you seemed flaky, but if you can prove that you’re still at the same job you were before you broke up or even, oddly enough, that you haven’t freaked out and cut all your hair off, she’ll be more receptive to what you have to say.

She knows you won’t go back to your old ways again. Tell her you want to perfect your relationship with her, too; she’ll like that you want to make a continuing effort.

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

Libra wants a big love, so when she breaks off a relationship, there’s a very good chance that she has weighed the pros and cons and has made up he mind about you.

If you want to win back a Libra, you need to put in a lot of effort – like, more than you think. Firstly, you need to show that you respect her as a person. She wants to be seen as an individual and not just an extension of you; if she feels lost, the relationship won’t last.

Don’t be reluctant to tell her you want her back (and why), either. If she can be strong, you should be, too. Be honest and show her she’s worth the effort to win her back.

Give her an explanation about what went wrong before and why you still care, but NEVER an excuse. If she still won’t budge, work out compromises for each other.

If you show that you’re willing to work on your issues together, she’ll see that you mean business. Like I said, she wants a big love, and big love takes a lot of blood, sweat, and tears.

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

Winning a Scorpio back is going to be very hard, but if you love her, it’ll be worth the effort. Before anything else, be honest and upfront with her. Nothing turns a Scorpio off more than not getting to the point and generally just wasting her time.

Yes, she wants passion and intensity from you, but only afteryou kiss and make up. Be reasonable with your argument, too; there’s no reason to get cheesy or emotional with her.

What makes her so tough to crack is that there was probably a very good reason for her to break it off in the first place. So, when you come back to her looking for forgiveness, you really need to prove that you’re not just full of crap.

Let her control the conversation and be in charge; it’s her decision, after all. Prove you can be trusted by being honest and answering all of her questions head-on.

She wants you to work with her, but total compliance won’t work. If you submit to her and agree just to make her happy, that’ll only make it harder. Be considerate, but defend yourself.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 19)

Confronting the past is a difficult thing for Sagittarius to do, so when trying to win her back, be prepared for a totally new Sagittarius. She doesn’t hold grudges and she doesn’t like starting drama about things that have already happened. Chances are, your break up was an open and shut case.

If you want to win a Sagittarius back, though, you need to be willing to leave the past in the past and start from the beginning with her. Defend yourself and the relationship, but don’t get defensive.

She wants to see that this is important to you, but not so much that you aren’t willing to listen to her side, too. You can really reel in a Sagittarius by talking about how you want more adventure, passion, and honesty in your revamped relationship.

She wants to see excitement for the future from you, not just that you’re sorry about the past.

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CAPRICORN (December 20 - January 19)

Winning back a Capricorn is all about using your brain, not your heart. You love her, but listening to your brain over your heart will ensure that she takes you seriously.

When you first approach her, it’s important to be logical and calm. Capricorn almost never responds well to emotions, so trying to win her over by crying will only push her away.

You also want to be practical in how you explain why you want her back and, above all else, respect what she says; listen to her, don’t just talk. She’ll be one of the tougher signs to crack, but asking for forgiveness definitely helps.

And while you’re primarily there to fight for your relationship, remember to fight for yourself and your own needs, too — it’ll help prove to Capricorn that you’re devoted to your own wants and needs, as well as staying with her.

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

To win back an Aquarius, you need to come to her with a totally open mind and heart. She knows relationships are hard, so she’s more than happy to give you a second chance, as long as you show her you deserve one.

At this early stage, while she’s still trying to figure out what she wants to do, it’s important to focus on verbal communication, no hugs or kisses just yet. Be honest about your past and future with her.

When your relationship ended for the first time, it was most likely because she felt like you were putting too much emphasis on being just her lover and not her friend, as well. In part two of your relationship, do the opposite — show her that you can be more than just someone she sleeps with.

And once you tell her you want her back, remember to give Aquarius as much time and space as she needs, but don’t ghost her. Let her take control and come to you when she’s ready, but check in every once in a while so she knows you’re serious about her.

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

You might think that Pisces is putty in your hand, and that you can ask to take her back a million times and she’ll always say yes, but that’s not the case at all. Pisces loves to love, but she hates being hurt more than anything.

And if you hurt her, she will never take you back. But it isn’t impossible to win a Pisces back, as long as you really want her, not just what you used to have together.

To get Pisces to really listen to you, listen to her. She’ll most likely want to open up about the emotions she’s feelings now, as well as what she was feeling when you first broke up.

It’s also important for you to talk about your own feelings — this is a two-way conversation, after all. If she’s receptive, throwing in a little romance doesn’t hurt.

But above everything else, be empathetic, but not pathetic. She’s a strong girl, she can handle her own stuff and if you whine or lose it altogether, she’ll decide she can be single without missing you.

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Emily Ratay is a full-time writer living in Pittsburgh. She's passionate about the environment and feminism, and knows that anything is possible in the right pair of shoes. She plans on writing a book in the future.