8 Sweet Signs You've Already Found The Woman Who Will Love You For The Rest Of Your Life
She's here to stay.
Yan Krukau | Unsplash You might think you'd know instantly when you've found your forever person, but that's not always the case. Real signs of lifetime love are usually much sweeter and far more subtle. Strong women are the women who have been through the ups and downs of life, yet still stand tall with a hopeful heart.
They’re fierce, mature, and resilient, with an endless capacity for love. If you’re lucky enough to be in a relationship with one, then you'd better be prepared because she does these things no matter what.
Here are 8 sweet signs you've already found the woman who will love you for the rest of your life:
1. She’s straight with you
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The woman who will love you for the rest of your life will always be straight with you, no matter how long you have been in a relationship together. She doesn’t beat around the bush or say one thing while expecting you to do another. She communicates with you honestly and openly. There are no mind games with her, whether big or small matters. She knows what she wants, and she’s done with wasting her time.
A recent study examined couples discussing difficult topics and found that those who were honest with each other had greater emotional well-being and relationship satisfaction. Honesty can be a crucial avenue for people to come to know one another, shaping relationships for the better.
2. She stands up for herself
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The woman who will love you for the rest of your life isn’t afraid to draw her boundaries and stick to them even when they might cause conflicts. In fact, she’s ready to handle any conflict if it arises. She won’t let you push her around, undermine her, or treat her like a doormat. She has her standards, and she will make sure you treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Or else, you can bet that she won’t bat an eye at sending you out the door.
This kind of assertiveness is actually a hallmark of healthy, lasting relationships. A 2020 study found that clear communication about boundaries led to greater relationship satisfaction and emotional support between partners.
3. She’s true to her feelings
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The woman who will love you for the rest of your life is true to herself. She doesn’t hide how she feels, and she isn’t scared of being “too much” because she knows she’s being real and she values being real. That’s why being with her, you won’t ever have to worry about appearing weak or silly. She wants you to be real and true to yourself, too, because that’s how she can see you for who you are.
Seeing a partner as authentic is directly linked to greater relationship satisfaction, and people who value authenticity in their relationships tend to engage in healthier relationship behaviors overall, one study concluded. You won't have to worry about seeming goofy or foolish around her because she wants to know the real you, not a polished version you think she wants to see.
4. She takes care of herself
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The woman who will love you for the rest of your life is independent and self-sufficient, most likely because she has had no choice. She has learned that ultimately she’s the one who’s responsible for her own well-being and happiness, whether she’s with a partner or not.
She’s attached to you, but she would absolutely not expect you to be her carer or savior, because she doesn’t need one. She takes good care of herself, her life, and she’s been whole and happy long before she met you.
5. She calls you out
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The woman who will love you for the rest of your life won’t let you get away with any garbage just because she’s worried it might make you lose interest in her. You will soon realize that there’s no room for monkey business when it comes to this woman. She will call you out on your disrespectful behaviors not only because she knows her worth and what she deserves but also because she cares about you and the relationship enough to make it right. You’ll come to appreciate it later.
Being straightforward and honest with your partner predicted greater well-being, relationship satisfaction, and motivation to change, even when those honest conversations involved difficult feedback. One study noted that honesty provides useful conversation that spurs long-term growth and improves relationship quality.
6. She takes responsibility when she’s in the wrong
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Just like how she firmly straightens you out, she admits it when she’s at fault, too. She doesn’t point fingers or blame others. If she’s wrong, she will say she’s wrong. She won’t go anywhere. She’ll be there to solve any problem with you and keep working on the relationship even in the toughest times. Because she is not a quitter, she’s a fighter. She will fight for you till the end.
7. She gives you space when you need it
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As the independent and self-sufficient person she is, she understands when you need space, and she is secure enough to let you go and be with yourself till you feel ready to return to her.
The woman who will love you for the rest of your life will make it clear to you through her words and actions that being with her is always a choice you’re free to make, and she respects your decision. Meanwhile, she’ll keep herself busy and joyful with her own life.
Research found that autonomy is essential for lasting relationships, with studies emphasizing the importance of maintaining a sense of self while in a partnership. When she trusts you enough to let you have your solitude without making you feel guilty for it, she's showing confidence in what you share.
8. She's not afraid to walk away
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All that being said, she isn’t afraid to walk away from a great love if it ends up being toxic to her. She always sees the best in you, and she’s not one to give up easily, but if you keep failing her, she will leave, and she won’t look back.
While walking away from love is never easy, studies show there's light on the other side. Research found that people reported positive changes following a breakup, such as feeling more self-confident, independent, stronger, and more emotionally stable. For a while, she might feel weak, defeated, broken, and see no light ahead, but she will take steps to regain her strength and believe that one day she will love again.
Ellen Nguyen is a writer and content creator. Her writing has appeared on many popular websites such as Huffington Post UK, Medium, Thought Catalog, and Cosmopolitan UK.
