How To Make A Scorpio Man Obsessed With You

Certain things attract the water sign.

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Loving a Scorpio man is an adventure.

He's charming, handsome, and everything you've ever wanted in a partner.

So, how do you make him obsess over you the same way you do about him?

Scorpios are passionate and assertive people, who are also determined and decisive.

They live to experience and express their emotions.

If you want a Scorpio man to be obsessed with you, you need to connect with his heart.


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Scorpios manifest their emotions differently than other water signs. 

People born as the water sign are known for their calm behavior and their mysterious appearance.


Yet, they are known to be fierce due to their knowledge of the universe’s rules. 

Scorpio men have needs that surpass the superficial.

But which ones connect your heart to his the most?

Here's how to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you:

1. Go beyond the superficial.

Water signs are about spirituality, so being shallow is not the way to go.

Avoid obsessing over your appearance is a turnoff.

When you’re pursuing a Scorpio, it’s important not to obsess over your appearance too much.

For Scorpio men, your personality and character are more interesting than what you decide to wear on the first date.

It’s still important to look good for yourself, but don’t worry about impressing him.


A Scorpio will enjoy your confidence more than with appearance.

Focus on trying to understand him on a personal level.

2. Tell him how he makes you feel.

Complimenting him can go a long way.

Men enjoy a compliment just as much as women do.

Scorpio men love compliments, especially from the woman they are dating.

You should compliment him on his personality and even his appearance and he would fawn over you.

Throughout your date with a Scorpio man, make sure to give him casual compliments.

If he’s wearing a new outfit or he got a haircut, make sure to compliment him on those little things.

A Scorpio wouldn’t only love the compliment, but he likes that you’ve noticed things about him and that you’re interested in him.


3. Don't overshare.

A mystery is a way to be, and if he's interested in learning about you, you'll know.

You shouldn’t reveal everything about yourself all at once if you want to date a Scorpio.

There are some things that you should keep to yourself during the beginning of the relationship and it will keep him interested in you. 

He will be even more interested in what you have to offer if you keep some aspects of your life a secret.

Scorpio men would love you more if you turn out to be an interesting person outside of him.

4. Let him initiate.

Let him do the chasing.

If he's in love, he will want to pursue you.

Scorpio men enjoy a mystery along with a challenge.


It helps if you play subtle games with him and play a little hard to get.

It would be best if you didn’t come off as too eager and let his interest in you build naturally.

They don’t like to be chased as they may see it as being needy and desperate.

Make sure that you have a life outside of him and don’t obsess over trying to get his attention.

Scorpio men love it if you make it know that you are busy and also interested in him. 

5. Build trust.

You have to earn his trust.

The best way to gain a Scorpio man’s trust is to be as truthful as possible.


Scorpio men find it hard to fall in love as they deal with trust issues, making honesty the best policy for them.

Being sincere and honest with a Scorpio man can lead him to see you in a positive light.

Scorpios have incredible intuition and they can easily tell if you are lying.

If you lie to a Scorpio man, he will have no problem leaving you alone.

6. Be real.

Don’t play games as they take life pretty seriously.

Scorpios look for steady and long-term relationships.

They are pretty serious when they want someone in their life.

With his sensitivities and insecurities, a Scorpio man doesn’t fall in love easily.

Scorpio men want to spend their life with someone reliable and take the relationship seriously.


They want to be someone who takes life just as seriously as they do.

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Chinyere Ibeh is a writer who covers entertainment and pop culture news, along with quotes and zodiac signs.