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How To Get Each Zodiac Sign To Trust You Implicitly

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What does it take to get someone to trust you? Building trust is difficult enough, but when there’s not a history of cheating and infidelity, it’s practically impossible.

Every zodiac sign in astrology has their own set of things they need in order to trust someone. So, when it comes to how to get the zodiac signs to trust you, it may take them a lot of time or they may have their own system of vetting someone to see if they’re trustworthy.

There are different kinds of trust. You may trust your co-worker with a business deal, but you wouldn't trust them to make the right decision when it came to a moral issue, nor would you trust your child to make a big decision regarding a business dealing. You might trust your best friend from high school to pay back a loan, but you wouldn't trust them to take care of your dog. We get a sense from people to the extent that we can trust them.

There are various levels of trust as well. The more one proves themselves trustworthy, the more likely we are to trust them a little bit more. However, if someone betrays you, you’re probably not going to trust them on any level. How do you get the zodiac signs to trust you?

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)

If you want to get an Aries to trust you, show them that you value the relationship you have with them and you're not going to abuse it or let it go lightly. You'll be there when they need you and you're open to trying to new things, being challenged, and you'll never throw them under the bus just to save your own skin.

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)

If you want to get a Taurus to trust you, you're going to have to have patience and be willing to take the time to show them you're a trustworthy person. They may test you and they may make you feel as if you have to jump through hoops, but ultimately, it will be worth it.

Once a Taurus trusts you, they will trust you forever unless you really screw up. If you do that, know that second chances aren't given lightly and you'll have to work your butt off to get them to even trust you at all.

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)

If you want a Gemini to trust, you're going to have to be direct and honest — no trying to con them with your words because a Gemini will see right through you and know that you're not the real deal. Try to be as knowledgeable and definitive as you can when asked a question.

Don't use pausing techniques like repeating the question back or saying what a good question that was. Gemini will know that you're only pretending to know what you're talking about, and bad communication doesn't fly with them.

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)

If you want to gain a Cancer's trust, you're going to have to be vulnerable and open yourself up. Be honest with your feelings, even if it embarrasses you or makes you feel awkward.

If you can be truthful about how you're feeling, then you can be trusted in a Cancer's eyes. If you're there for them and allow them to express how they feel without judgment, that will make them feel close to you.

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)

If you want a Leo to trust you, you're going to have to be as confident as they are. Let them know that you've got a healthy sense of self-esteem and that you won't crumble when things get rough.

Don't try to impress Leo because they'll see right through that and it will make them less likely to trust you. Be you and be honest and you'll earn Leo's trust.

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)

If you want Virgo to trust you, don't be a know-it-all and don't challenge them on the things they know. Virgos are smart and they are very good judges of character. If they sense something shady about you, their guard will come down and you be considered untrustworthy.

Show them that you're dependable, reliable, and do what you say you're going to do. When you deliver what you promise on a consistent basis, Virgo will start to trust you.

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)

If you want a Libra to trust you, you have to let them know how amazing you think they are. Libras like praise and attention, but if a compliment isn't sincere, they'll just think of you as someone who is trying to manipulate them.

The more specific you can be when complimenting a Libra, the better able they will be to see that you mean it. Show them that you can be trusted and that you'd never betray them. 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)

If you want a Scorpio to trust you, don't lie to them and don't try too hard to get on their good side. Listen to what they say and be present. Ask them questions that show you're listening and actually processing what they're saying.

Refer to problems or topics that were brought up in previous conversations and offer effective solutions or additions. Scorpio will be flattered to know that you genuinely care, and over time they will slowly start to trust you.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)

If you want a Sagittarius to trust you, you're going to have to be open to new ideas and philosophies. When you're in the middle of a conversation with a Sagittarius and don't understand something, let them know and don't try to fake it.

Show that you're interested enough to learn and that your ego isn't so big that you have to be the smartest person in the room. Give them good advice repeatedly so they'll begin to associate you as someone they can go to when they need help.

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)

If you want a Capricorn to trust you, you're going to have to go beyond the call of duty. If they ask a favor of you, then do it, even if it isn't easy. Know that in return, a Capricorn would only ask for something they themselves would do for you.

Be fair, treat people fairly, and stand up for those that need an advocate. A Capricorn responds well to people who do the right thing because they see themselves in those people. Show a Capricorn loyalty, and eventually they'll trust you in return.

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)

If you want to earn an Aquarius' trust, don't be too perfect. No one is without flaws and an Aquarius will know right away if you're trying to be something you're not. Show them that you're comfortable enough with yourself to show who you really are and, in turn, Aquarius will see you as someone they can relate to.

If you hide your weaknesses or mistakes, Aquarius won't want anything to do with you. Demonstrate to them that you are a trustworthy person and that trusting you would not come back to bite them in the butt.

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)

If you want a Pisces to trust you, you're going to have to show them that you're a compassionate person who deserves their trust. Be sensitive to what they're going through and be their champion.

Encourage them to be creative and let them know that you understand them. Be responsive when they ask for your help, no matter what kind of help it is that they need. If you want a Pisces to trust you, you're going to have to trust yourself.

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Christine Schoenwald is a writer, performer, and astrology lover. She has written over 500 articles on the zodiac signs and how the stars influence us. She's had articles in The Los Angeles Times, Salon, Woman's Day, and is a contributing writer to Ravishly, I AM & CO, and YourTango. Check out her website, her Facebook writer's page, and her Instagram.