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They make sex FUN.
By Emily Ratay — Written on Sep 22, 2017
The swinger’s lifestyle isn’t something that crosses everyone’s mind. It can be hard to keep relationships casual while still have a serious one, especially with emotions being so unpredictable.
If you don’t know what swingers are, they are couples who look for other couples to have casual, consensual sex with. Swinging is good for those who are open-minded and committed to their own relationship without getting jealous or stingy. Swinging is about sharing affection with more than one person, which can be a lot of fun, really kinky, and incredibly sexy to watch your significant other be with someone else if you’re into that.
I myself am not a jealous person in the least. I know that if there is something I’m worried about regarding my relationship, all I have to do is have an adult conversation with my partner. Of course, this isn’t always as easy as it sounds, especially if talking about something hits a nerve with your partner, but you should always try to work things out in the end.
Watch the video below to hear confessions from couples who are swingers:
That said, I don’t think I could get into the swinger’s lifestyle. I don’t think I’d get jealous, but when I’m in a relationship, I like being someone’s one and only. I know swinging isn’t permanent, but you definitely have to be 100 percent open to it before you try it.
But for those of us who are into swinging and can do it without getting emotional or jealous, I applaud you. I love when people can be totally open and confident about sex, don’t you?
But who are these people who are totally into the swinging lifestyle? Usually, those who have their emotions in check, for the most part. But more than that, it’s important to remember that just because these zodiac signs are into swinging doesn’t necessarily mean their significant others are, too.
In fact, they might be into swinging solely for the opportunity to have casual sex outside of their relationship or because they tend to jump from one partner to the next (if your horoscope is constantly telling you to take it easy with your relationships, this is probably you).
It's not necessarily a bad thing, but swinging can make for some complicated relationships. However, here are the zodiac signs who are swingers and are crazy about the lifestyle.
1. ARIES (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
Aries feels confident enough in her relationship that swinging won't change the dynamic. She enjoys trying new things during sex and with an equally confident partner, swinging is just another thing she wants to explore.
For Aries, swinging is all about getting to know new people and getting out of her comfort zone. She's not a jealous person by nature so all she cares about is having fun, casual sex.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
2. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
When it comes to relationships, Gemini can be incredibly flaky. She cares more about her own feelings than her significant other's and often bounces around from partner to partner.
Swinging for a Gemini is just as similar as the dating life she leads. Be careful if you suggest swinging with her, though; she might have more fun with the other couple than she does with you.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
3. LEO (July 23 - Aug 22)
Because Leo has such high standards for her relationships, you would think that she would be better in a causal, swinger's lifestyle. Unfortunately, what she really wants is constant attention, which can be hard when you're sharing partners while swinging.
That said, Leo is one of the zodiac signs who are swingers because not only is she getting attention from her significant other, but she's also getting attention from the other partners. This extra affection is enough to brand Leo as a swinger for life.
Read: Characteristics Of The Leo Horoscope Sign That Makes Astrology's Lion The RULER Of The Zodiac
4. SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 - Dec 19)
Sagittarius thrives in casual, carefree relationship, which can be good and bad for her. When swinging, she looks for partners with similar mindsets as hers so that there's no confusion later on about what this relationship really means.
That said, she can get too caught up in swinging that she sabotages her important relationships. Instead of making it an experience to remember, swinging can make her more prone to cheating or careless behavior.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
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Emily Ratay is a full-time writer living in Pittsburgh. She's passionate about the environment and feminism and knows that anything is possible in the right pair of shoes. She plans on writing a book in the future.
