Love, Sex

3 Surprising Reasons Why Swingers Are Happier And Healthier Than Most People

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There are many couples nowadays who are opting to take part in the "swinglifestyle" — where they openly have sex with other partners — mostly because the lifestyle offers them something that has been lacking in their sex lives and breaks up the monotony. 

I'm betting if you're reading this, you're still debating whether to give swinging a shot. It sounds intimidating. There's an unfair stigma that surrounds swingers, but, the reality of the lifestyle is very different.

Before you make your final decision, you should discuss with your partner and consider these benefits of swinging:

1. Swingers divorce less often.

After couples decide to join a "swinglifestyle," they seem to have a much stronger relationship. And I think we all agree that divorce isn't a good thing.

Don't believe me? There's actual statistical evidence that suggests that couples that swing together have lower divorce rates than monogamous couples. 

2. Sexual fantasies are fulfilled, not repressed.

Interested in trying out a new kink? Always wanted to try a threesome? Well, unless you're open to swinging, that's probably just not going to happen.

There are also other really fun social activities, such as attending swingers clubs and parties, that'll you'll be able to experience once you become a swinger, which is great because it can help normalize your kinky desires.

Chances are, there are tons of people out there who have the same sexual fantasies as you and your partner, so just meeting those people and socializing with them can encourage you both to take the leap and try something sexually you've always wanted to try.

3. Swingers communicate more with their partners.

Swingers are open-minded people. As you meet more and more people like you, you'll end up discussing different issues in your life that will probably help you develop a deeper relationship with your partner.

Because couples who swing are more open to sharing their feelings with each other, they're better able to solve relationship issues. And better communication almost always equals a better, healthier, and more fulfulling sex life.