What Do You Do If You Have Occasional Great Sex, But...

What To do If Your Man Can Only Ejaculate While Watching Porn Videos?

Well, ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s not a good sign if your man can only ejaculate while watching porn videos. But there is hope.

If your man does not want to speak about his failure to ejaculate during sex, he may not feel you are strong enough to handle the truth and still love him. So our goal, of course, is to show him that you are strong enough to not only handle the truth but to make the necessary changes to solve the problems with your sex life.

Remember, no matter how comfortable you make it for your man to communicate his innermost feelings, it will take some time for him to truly be able to trust you and discuss his desires for another woman or, in some instances, a man. Men can be very immature. Our desire to sleep with other women has very little to do with you. It’s the nature of the beast. We are selfish and do not want women to act as we do. We prefer y0u to be examples of how to behave with the Man of Your Dreams. In short, we want to sleep with other women, but do not want our women sleeping with other men. This is a part of our makeup, much like instinct. It can be explained scientifically, but most men simply know they do not like their women to have sex with other men.

You can think of a million different possibilities for what could be wrong (“Am I too fat?” “Am I too skinny?” “Is my vagina too loose or too big?”), and drive yourself insane. However, most of the time his lack of desire for sex with you will not have anything to do with you, but rather with his past memories and innermost wants and needs. (All Vaginas Are Not Sexually Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed)

It’s true you may not be the woman of his dreams. But there are dreams and then there is reality. So stay focused, and let’s bring your man back to reality with the woman he truly loves and not the false images that plague his mind from watching staged pornography, which is telling him lies through visuals. He’s jacking off to a screenplay. The characters are not reality but fictions that have embedded themselves into his mind like a virus. So let’s go eliminate the symptoms of this flu.

When it comes to a serious commitment, a man can do a quick double-take as his energies shift. He sees his single life fading away, and he is stricken with fear. Many of the traditional roles in relationships are also shifting, as women take on more leadership and financial responsibility. Men will sometimes be with you just for the amenities you provide, much like the women of yesterday would use a man. (5 Sure Ways to Know if the Man You’re Dating is a User)    Side note: If you are paying the bills, it is not an unreasonable request to make of your man to have great sex with you once a week.

But your goal is to obviously get what you want: more sex and more communication. So let’s stay focused. We are sure that you are asking yourself the big question: “Why would my man not want to communicate with me about his inability to perform sexually in the bedroom?” The huge reason that most men choose to remain silent is to avoid conflict. We also know that most women do not want to hear anything different than the traditional “Boy meets girl, boy marries girl, boy and girl have 2.5 kids and live happily ever after, the end." Every man with any intelligence knows this is all that a woman truly wants to hear. Everything else is irrelevant. Men also instinctively know that how we feel naturally is in conflict with the natural pull of women to be with just one man. The average man is scared to death to tell his woman the truth if it is contrary to her beliefs and desires.

Age does matter

There is an old saying: “Patience is a virtue." Dealing with male issues, you will soon learn what this means. Be patient with your man, stay focused on your goal and realize a lot of men need to grow up. And through experience, they eventually  will.

How do you get your man’s attention without pestering him for more sex?

Your man loves you like wifey, but the wifey role can be quite boring. So how do you keep him excited about you and away from the porn videos? How do you keep him only humping on you? Can you be the wifey and allow him to have additional sex partners? I know that’s one hell of a question. But before you go there, be honest with yourself about your sexual needs. Let’s send a message to your man to give you more hot sex, without you ever having to say a word. There’s something very sexy about a lady that never complains, but still finds a way to get what she wants. Obviously, if you are reading this article, we are speaking about you.

Using Mr. Dildo can send a clear message to your man without insulting him or having a long, drawn- out conversation about not having enough sex, which is boring. Here’s the strategy: Conveniently use your dildo every time your man comes home. Be extra excited to the point where it is noticeable. Remember that acting class you took? Timing, of course is everything, so once he enters the house, it’s a go. Go into the bathroom and close the door, so that he hears you having all this fun and starts knocking. “Honey, you okay in there by yourself?" Of course, you can barely respond because you and Mr. Dildo are going at it. You say, out of breath, “I‘m okay, honey… be right out...you hungry?" Mr. Dildo is your new best friend, so dress him up in a shirt and tie and set him up properly on your dresser with a little note that says, ”I will be back later for more." There is talking and there is pure action. A dildo represents the action you desire from your man, without a long conversation.

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Relationship Coach Stevey B.

This article was originally published at How To Get The Man of Your Dreams . Reprinted with permission from the author.