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The stars know what he's looking for in your kisses.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Dec 01, 2021
You might not think it, but kissing compatibility is hugely important. Just like with regular compatibility and sexual compatibility, kissing compatibility means that you go together well with the other person. Your likes and dislikes are similar, and you aren't constantly frustrated or disappointed with your partner.
Kissing may seem like a simple thing, but it's actually very complex and there are a ton of different ways to do it. So when a Capricorn man kisses you, it'll be different than when a Sagittarius man kisses you. Kissing may be extremely pleasurable if you have a partner that has the right kind of kissing style or kind of horrible. If your partner is really into wet kisses and you'd rather not get slobbered on, there can be a problem.
I was in a relationship with someone who was a horrible kisser. I felt as if he was deliberately hiding his tongue from me, and when I was in the middle of kissing someone, I find it rather disrupting to spend time searching for his tongue. Obviously, we weren't kissing compatible.
From the kiss you give your grandmother to the deep kiss you give your bae, there are so many different kinds of kisses. Kissing can be foreplay or just a way to say that you love the person you're kissing.
There are times when one can get so lost in kissing another person and their own satisfaction that they may not be aware of the subtle clues their partner is giving them about the kind of kissing they like, and if they don't tell you what they like as far as kissing goes, you may never know.
Maybe if my ex had said, "Hey, I like it when we play hide-and-seek with our tongues," I might have warmed up to the idea and not felt like on some level he was trying to punish me.
Once again, astrology is our friend and can tell us what kind of kissing he loves according to his zodiac sign.
The fun has just begun!
1. Aries (March 21 - April 19)
Aries men are adventurous, energetic, and impulsive, and the kissing they love best incorporates those things. Where do aries like to be kissed? That goes hand in hand with their adventurous, spontaneous, impulsive side. An Aries man loves to kiss you in the middle of the road.
If he's in the middle of a crowd, he might surprise you with a kiss, or even if you're with family he might drag you into the kitchen for a spontaneous make-out session.
If you want to really surprise him, try a Spider-Man kiss. when your Aries man is lying down on a bed or the lawn outside, you come above them and kiss them so they're upside down compared to you. Aries people are known for their superpowers.
2. Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus are very sensual and love their kissing to be slow and deep. Tauruses are choosy with who they kiss and aren't going to kiss you until they decide you're worthy of their kisses. Since Taurus loves food and taste, a chocolate kiss would be perfect for them. Kiss them their way —smooth and sensual — but do it with some melting chocolate in your mouth. Yum.
3. Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis are very versatile and like to keep things fresh and interesting. They love kissing where they can explore using their tongues. Sometimes they kiss slow and soft, and other times they kiss with so much energy and passion that the end result is bruised lips. Kissing for Geminis is all about changing and keeping it interesting. You'll never know what you'll get when kissing a Gemini.
4. Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Cancers can be very sensitive and complex, but they express their softer side through their kisses. Cancers will kiss your face, your neck, and even your earlobe. A Cancer's kiss is a soul kiss — very deep and caring. You'll feel like not only do they care about you, but they really understand you. Cancers don't just kiss you for foreplay; kissing is an expression of their being.
5. Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leo's kisses are powerful but playful. When your lips touch his, you feel an electric spark and you want more. However, Leos like to tease a little bit with their kissing, and they'll take you to the edge and have you craving more. Keep him off balance by giving him a lick-kiss, where you trace your partner's top or lower lip with your tongue instead of locking lips. It's surprisingly sensual.
6. Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgos are givers, so when you're kissing a Virgo, they're going to follow your lead. If you want rapid-fire kissing that leaves you breathless, that's what you'll get. Or if you're more in the mood for slow exploratory kissing, that's OK, too. With Virgos, the name of the game is "follow the follower," and he's going to love whatever kissing style you love.
7. Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Libras are true romantics at heart, and they've seen enough romantic movies to kiss like they do in those movies. Their kisses are tender and sweet without biting or face-squeezing with their hands. Try continuing with a movie theme and give your Libra man a slow-motion kiss. You'll be surprised at how a slow-moving kiss can speed things up.
8. Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpios, being extremely passionate, take their kissing seriously. Since they don't do anything half-assed, expect everything including kissing, licking, biting, and nipping. They can be very dominating, so don't be surprised if they kiss you with incredible power. As long as you don't get overwhelmed, you'll do fine.
9. Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius are fun kissers because they get so much joy out of kissing. They may seem a little aggressive when they kiss, but it's really that they're just so into it and enthusiastic. When you're kissing your Sagittarius, try blowing into your partner's mouth (but not too hard) so it causes their cheeks to poof out. It's not only silly fun, but it will make your partner laugh, which is another thing Sagittarius love to do.
10. Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Damn, Capricorn men are great kissers! Capricorn males have the perfect balance of lip force, tongue movement, and melt-worthy actions (such as cupping your face in their hands as they kiss you). Capricorns don't want frenzied, uncontrollable kissing; rather, something deliciously steady and sweet.
Their sensitive side is where their affection comes from causing these ver intimate kisses. Though it's safe to say you won't get this kiss on the first date, so don't expect it. These kisses have to build.
11. Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius always do their own thing, and that includes kissing. They're going to kiss you in ways that you've never been kissed before. Aquarians act as if they discovered kissing first, and they're happy to show you how amazing it can be.
If you're kissing an Aquarius, you need to give it everything you've got with energy. Suck their lower lip? Yes. Suck on their tongue? Yes. Kiss with so much energy, you think you might pass out? You got it.
12. Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
For a Pisces, kissing is more than just kissing — it's making intense eye contact across a crowded room, it's the touch on the shoulder, whispers, and even breathing in the scent of their partner. Kissing is an all-encompassing event for Pisces and you should know that they're going to use their imagination to throw in some extra surprises. Go with the flow when kissing a Pisces and they'll be extremely happy.
Christine Schoenwald is a writer who covers zodiac, pop culture, health, and wellness content.