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It's their way, or no way.
By Ruby Miranda — Written on Aug 21, 2019
If you're unaware of what a unilateral decision is, well, it's basically one person's decision to do it their way and to hell with anybody else's input. This kind of steamrolling can take place in just about any situation too, ranging from breaking up with someone to ordering meals for the table.
When one person takes it upon themselves to be the decision-maker, it really doesn't matter if anyone else has or wants to give input. Because the zodiac signs who steamroll others practice a lack of integrity and a true disrespect for others.
Using astrology as a guide, you may even do your steamrolling with good intentions, thinking you know best; however, you don't know what's best when someone else knows what's best for them. When you get in the way of someone else's plans by interjecting your own plan, with the assumption that it's both better and accepted by others, you're a bulldozing bully who always thinks they are right.
Heads up: Stay out of my lane! Don't assume your way is the only way, and stop steamrolling all over my plans! Are you the kind of person that unilaterally decides what's up for the rest of the gang? If so, you're probably resented a helluva lot for your selfish actions, and you're probably one of these six zodiac signs.
1. LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Unfortunately, Leo thinks they're cute when they steamroll over your plans. They are born with this idea that they really are adorable and that even when they're wrong or boorish, somehow the world forgives them and just swoons over their choices.
It's not true; we are ruined by your steamrolling actions, Leo! We don't like it and we don't like you for doing this to us! Stop. You're not cute — you're selfish, rude and self-centered.
2. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius doesn't steamroll, they bypass. If you have a plan and your Sagittarius friend has an alternative plan, they just won't show up for your event. They won't tell you they're not coming, and they won't pretend to want to.
They are satisfied only with their own plan-making, and should you have a plan that you might find better, and should you suggest it, Sagittarius will smile and ignore you henceforth. If you thought of it, Sagittarius is already uninterested. They do things their way. Get on board or get mowed down.
3. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra is way too afraid of confrontation to let you know they fully intend to ignore you and your plans. They let you think you may have a fighting chance at suggesting a plan that might actually come to be, yet we all know better.
Libra does what they always do: they lie to get out of confrontation; they never took you seriously, and they never wanted to listen to what you had to offer. Libra can't communicate, so they lie. They are afraid of being accused of steamrolling, so they do it without words.
4. ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries will listen to you, but they already have their plan on lock, so whatever you say, they already know they're not taking it seriously.
The point for Aries is to have it their way or the highway, and this means that if you bring the best ideas in the world to the table, Aries will hear you out, and then ignore everything you've just said.
5. CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
When Capricorn has something in mind, they get it done. If you have something to add to that idea, they'll consider your words and then do it their way anyway.
They want to play fair, and in their minds they believe it's best to stay open to the ideas and plans of others; however, in the long run, they will always defer back to their own plan, and they do expect you to applaud their decision as well as do what they tell you to do. (Yes, that gets dull.)
6. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini never took your plans seriously and never will. When Gemini has a plan, that's what gets done and nothing else. This sign steamrolls right over everything you hold sacred.
You will never hear a Gemini agree to doing something you want, not unless it's identical to what they want. But know this: if you are with a Gemini and you have a plan, they will trash it and you will never get what you want with them. Ever.
Ruby Miranda is a New Yorker who learned astrology, I Ching and all types of cartomancy and numerology from her crazy, gypsy mother. She currently writes for a wide range of esoteric publications.