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Making the first move is scary.
By Lani Akingbade — Written on Feb 10, 2018
When trying to get a man's attention it can be hard to know the right words to say, and we wind up not knowing how to approach a man we start to develop feelings for. Making the first move and flirting can be really scary, but looking to his zodiac sign and to astrology can help you figure out the right way to go about it.
In most cases, first impressions are everything, so knowing exactly how to flatter a guy — whether it be our already boyfriend or potential boyfriend — is important.
When it comes to flattering signs such as the Aries or the Leo, it is important to show how much you admire them.
These two zodiac signs as men, enjoy being recognized for their accomplishments and being treated like a hero. For these, flattery is very effective.
Not only that but they also enjoy being around a woman with similar characteristics- just as long as you are never better than them, otherwise they will start to feel like they are in a competition and take your flattery as a joke.
Signs like the Taurus and Cancer are more of the initially reserved kind so it will take a little longer than normal to catch their attention.
But patience is virtue because once you have it, you will definitely keep it. When flattering these men always make sure your compliments are coming from a place of honesty.
Taurus men are used to being made a fool out of so genuine flattery will get you a very long way.
Libras and Pisces tend to take themselves and their relationships very seriously, so when trying to attract these horoscopes, flattery must be on point.
They enjoy less superficial compliments and would rather be complimented on their intellect or how goof of a person they are.
And while giving out compliments is wonderful, don’t be afraid to want to receive them as well. So always be on the lookout to see if they have been telling you how lovely you look or that they like the way you think as well.
Here is how to genuinely flatter him based on his zodiac sign, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Aries men are known for their driven and hardworking personality. And more than anything they love when they feel like their hardworking way of life is matched by their partner.
But with that comes a limit to how hardworking and successful you are. They never want to feel intimidated, which is why they generally feel like they need someone who admires their hard work and wants to be like them, but can never quite get to that level of being like them.
They love when women give display a confident demeanor. And the best way to make him smile would be by expressing to him how much you admire his hard work and dedication, then express your dedication to projects as well.
That is sure to make him want to learn more about you. And when he does show that interest that you were hoping for, make sure you play hard to get. Aries men love the challenge.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus men normally have a soft spoken yet strong character. And to attract this character, remember how valuable it is to be yourself. This is also because they tend to be misled easily and often.
The best way to flatter a Taurus is by giving them compliments not about their looks, but their actual personality, once you get the chance to uncover it.
This will give them more trust in you that you are being honest with them and don’t have an ulterior motive.
Being consistent with the genuine compliments make them more prone to talk to you again.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
You may find it a little harder to catch and keep the attention of a Gemini man. This is because they are known for how quickly they get bored of people, things, and situations so it is important to know the best way to avoid this.
Gemini men like to enjoy their freedom so it is important that you initially make it known with your actions that you’re not there to ruin it. They love when they get complimented on their energy, so make sure you tell him how much you love the good energy he brings whenever he’s around.
Or even tell him about the new cool restaurant you heard about that you knew he would appreciate. Showing them that you acknowledge how great and fun a person they are will make them never forget you.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
It isn’t hard to capture the eyes or heart of a Cancer man. It is important to remember that like all Cancers, they hold a very shy exterior. They are very caring, which is why it is important to show them how caring you are as well.
The best way you can show this is by checking up on him on more than one occasion and pay attention to what he shares; which at first is probably very little.
So if you somehow were able to score a conversation with him and he mentions how his sister is his best friend but she’s away in the army or something, make sure the next time you get the chance to talk to him that you mention his sister and that you hope she’s doing well.
This is sure to flatter him because it shows that you care about not just him but the people in his life as well.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
Leos love to be told how great they are on a constant basis and the Leo man is no exception. He believes that he is on the top of the food chain and that everyone else should believe that as well.
Even with their egotistical tendencies, Leos are often quite popular with the ladies. This is why it is important to make sure any form of flattery you give them is different from the others they are probably receiving.
Ask him about himself often, and show genuine interest in the things he does. Complementing the jokes, he tells and the things he wears are sure to get him to remember you.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
There is nothing a Virgo man finds sexier than order. They admire those who are clean cut and well put together. And while on one is necessarily perfect, the Virgo man seeks people who are close enough, so flattering him correctly may require a little extra practice because first impressions mean everything.
The best way to flatter him is not necessarily by giving him a flat-out compliment, but actually inviting him to places that reflect his personality. So, if you have been invited to any high-profile event, he will very honored if you invite him as well. It will also show him that the two of you share common interests.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra men love to be in relationships, and women wanting to settle down love Libra men. They look for a woman who they can see a long-time future with, and if it does not work out they will move on quicker than ever.
They admire charitable and noble women, so when trying to flatter him it is important that these characteristics show through you. Never belittle another person when trying to flatter a Libra because they will take note of this and feel offended — even if the offense was not directed towards them.
Asking him if he would want to be a guest speaker at a charity event will definitely flatter him because they love to help others, and you noticing that will be an added bonus.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpio men are known for their easy ability to be ladies’ magnets. Scorpio men can be easily drawn to anyone who lets off sultry characteristics; from the way you talk to the way you walk, Scorpio men will have the eyes for anything you do.
Flirting is a very important part of flattering when it comes to them. While they do appreciate comments on their character or intellect, the best compliments to give Scorpio men would be on their physical features that you like.
Telling him that his lips look soft or that his hair looks so nice that you want to run your hands through it will definitely flatter him and set you apart.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
There is nothing Sagittarius men love more than gaining experiences. They like an adventure and they want to be around people who feel that way as well. Showing genuine interest in his thrill-seeking lifestyle is the main way you can flatter him.
And don’t forget: spontaneity is key. Asking him if he wants to visit an exhibit with you that is only open for ten days of the year, will flatter him because it is a rare find that won’t be around for long.
This shows him that you appreciate his lifestyle just as much as him and he is now more likely to invite you to places that he enjoys.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn men have a long list of ambitions and goals, and they tend to take life very seriously. They are usually always focused on the betterment of themselves, so making sure your flattering skills are strong is very important and will make Capricorn men want to know more about you.
It is important that the initial chat on the road to flattery does not sound like you are flirting with him whatsoever; they really don’t have time for play in their lives unless they know you well.
Showing that you acknowledge his goals and find his way of living and determination admirable is the best way to flatter him.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius men are known for their easy going and fun personality. They are attracted to women who are sociable like themselves.
Aquarius men are known to be talkers, so in the initial stages of flattering him showing empathy as well as genuine interest in everything personal that he says will make him feel good. Showing that you can not only listen, but also keep their secrets will flatter them as well.
With that being said, the one thing that is important to remember is to keep the flattery to a minimum with Aquarius men, otherwise they will be quick to get annoyed.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces men take anything that has to do with relationships and romance very seriously, and whether you are interested in one or already with one, they take flattery very seriously as well.
Pisces men are extremely caring by nature and feel good when others notice this. They also have an imagination that runs deep and appreciate a woman who supports that instead of bashing them.
Even something as simple as telling him you like the way he thinks will set him over the moon because not everyone likes the way a Pisces man thinks. If you share your dreams in exchange, the Pisces man will feel flattered that you trust him enough to do so.