I have been overweight my whole life. I was a size 12 when I graduated High School, Up to a 20 thanks to college and then down to an 8 after busting my ass (but at 4'11" that is still not tiny by any means. And now I'm a 20 again thanks to the depo. shot for birth control oh yeah!!! But anyway, I'm 34 years old. I have had 6 boyfriends. Only 2 of the 6 were overweight themselves. The rest 5'9 and taller and no bigger than a 34 waist. Good looking, normal down to earth guys. I have always been outgoing and "perky" as it's been called. I don't put myself down. I don't eat like a pig at all. And I've asked before, WHY ME?? I'm FAT, so WHY me? And they say its all about how you feel about yourself and how you treat others and personality. I've always had a lot of friends. I'm not a slut by any means. (not now for sure, I've been married for 9 years) But out of those 6 I only had sex with 3 of them out of respect for me for the first 3 in early early 20's and still a virgin at the time. But the other 3.....holy crap....best sex anyone could ever hope for. I got an email from an ex from 12 years ago. He said he still thinks about me from time to time because it was the best sex he's still ever had in his life and he's 37 now and married. It's all in the attitude and the way you carry yourself on the inside, not how much weight you carry on the outside. And being married, I would never ever cheat, but I even still get flirted with by men at church even...that's kinda weird.