If A Woman Wears These 11 Things As She Gets Older, She's Done Caring What Anyone Else Thinks Of Her
Fashion is for every woman, no matter her age.
Jacob Lund / Shutterstock Society makes women who are getting older believe that there is a certain way they should dress that is acceptable for their age. This societal expectation is incredibly outdated and makes it difficult for these women to truly embrace who they are and feel empowered by their newfound self-esteem and sophistication.
Women should feel like they can embrace their own personal style and experiment with different fashion pieces without having to worry about what other people will think of them. When a woman truly stops caring about what anyone else thinks of her, there are several things she will wear to express her own sense of style and go against societal expectations.
If a woman wears these 11 things as she gets older, she's done caring what anyone else thinks of her
1. High-quality basics
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When a woman chooses to wear high-quality basics as she gets older, it shows signs that she no longer cares what others think of her. She escapes following trends and instead takes a mature and confident approach to her own personal style.
Becoming comfortable with letting go of following trends allows her to truly understand and develop a strong sense of self. She no longer feels a need to follow trends simply to appear younger, but instead she embraces where she is in life and fully steps into her body, fashion, and lifestyle. Basics also aid her ability to layer and make an outfit easy to plan while still looking put-together and well-tailored.
2. Comfortable, stylish shoes
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An older woman who decides to wear comfortable yet stylish shoes no longer cares about what people think of her. When she starts prioritizing her personal well-being and comfort, it exudes confidence.
Instead of trying to abide by the expectations of others, she would rather dress for herself and fill her wardrobe with pieces that she genuinely loves to wear. It shows that her perspective on functionality has matured, and she has realized how much more rewarding it is to focus on her inner self rather than the opinions of others.
3. Tailored pieces that fit perfectly
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A woman who is getting older but still fills her wardrobe with tailored pieces that fit her perfectly no longer cares about what others think. Instead of seeking out validation, she now works on having self-respect.
By embracing timeless style and well-fitting attire, she displays confidence and autonomy while celebrating her body and personal sense of style. “Commonly in teenage years, there is often a high value placed on being like your peers. Wearing what is fashionable for your group or community. With age as you discover more about your own personal preferences this can alter, you may want to remain like your peers, or you may prefer to create your own unique and individual style,” explains Imogen Lamport, a Certified Image Professional designation from the AICI.
4. Signature style outfits
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When an older woman begins embracing her signature style, she has officially stopped caring about what other people think of her. Showing her personal identity and representing herself authentically through the clothing she wears displays the confidence she has in herself.
What a woman chooses to wear not only shows her lack of care for what other people have to say about her, but it also helps reflect who she is while also boosting her confidence even more. “By dressing intentionally and embracing our personal style, we can elevate our self-esteem, boost our mood, and set the tone for success. Remember that how you dress is a reflection of how you feel about yourself so take the time to invest in your wardrobe and wear clothes that make you feel empowered,” according to lookingGlass Lifestyle, a team of personal stylists who help individuals find their personalized style.
5. Jeans that fit and feel good
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When a woman no longer cares what others think of her, she will start wearing jeans that fit and feel good. As she disregards societal expectations, she is able to empower herself through embracing her own sense of style and prioritizing authenticity and comfort.
“Let’s ditch the outdated concept of 'age-appropriate' behind and instead celebrate the individuality, creativity, and confidence that come with age. Dressing, living, and expressing ourselves authentically should have nothing to do with societal rules and everything to do with what makes us feel empowered,” explains Cindy Hattersley, an interior designer who writes a blog that helps empower women.
By choosing jeans that not just fit well but also make her feel good, a woman is able to feel empowered by the clothing she wears.
6. Youthful, timeless leather jackets
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By wearing a youthful and timeless leather jacket, a woman is showing that she no longer cares what other people think of her. It shows that she is rejecting outdated age-appropriate fashion rules and is embracing her individuality.
“One common misconception is that leather jackets are only for the young. However, fashion is about self-expression, not age. Breaking these stereotypes allows for a more inclusive and diverse fashion landscape,” according to Baciano, a fashion brand that specializes in women’s contemporary clothing.
7. Bold accessories
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When a woman chooses to accessorize with bold pieces, she is displaying that she does not care what other people think. No longer conforming to safe fashion stereotypes that make it difficult to truly express themselves, but instead fully embracing their own sense of style, breaks down barriers and displays genuine individuality.
“Bold fashion choices can help break down stereotypes and challenge societal norms. When you defy conventional expectations about how you should dress, you empower yourself and inspire others to do the same,” explains Dean Clothing, a fashion brand that sells pieces for women, men, and children. Women who choose to empower themselves through their bold fashion choices not only increase their own confidence, but they also become very influential to those who wish to do the same.
8. Bright colors
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An older woman no longer cares how people think of her when she embraces wearing bright colors. Wearing bright clothes makes it difficult for her to blend in, so she feels liberated when she wears them, and they help boost her mood.
“Bright colors mean no discrete blending into the crowd. Arguably age brings the confidence to wear what we choose and less concern about pleasing others. Perhaps this offsets societal expectations that older women should quietly fade away,” explains Nilgin Yusuf, a fashion writer with a bachelor's in fashion communication and promotion from Central Saint Martins College of Art and Design. Bright colors are also known to stimulate happiness, so not only are women who wear bright colors rejecting absurd societal expectations, but they are also enhancing their mood while doing so.
9. A classic, well-made handbag
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A woman truly no longer cares what others think when she wears a classic, well-made handbag. Not only does this signal that she is dressing for herself, but it also shows that she prioritizes quiet confidence and sophistication over trendy accessories.
By choosing timeless and classic handbags that are good quality, an older woman can embrace her elegance and emotional maturity. Age is usually accompanied by higher self-worth and a better understanding of one’s own personal style. Embracing this rather than just following trends shows a woman is truly stepping into herself.
10. Luxurious fabrics
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Choosing to wear luxurious fabrics can be an older woman’s way of showing that she is embracing herself and no longer cares what others think about her. It shows her values have changed and that she is breaking away from societal rules.
Instead of thinking she has aged out of fabrics like silk, cashmere, and linen, she chooses to wear them often and embrace their comforting feel as well as impeccable quality. She invests in herself and dresses for her own personal pleasure.
11. A well-cut blazer
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When a woman who is getting older decides to wear a well-cut blazer, it signifies that she no longer cares what people think. Not only does it show her self-confidence but it also exudes effortless sophistication and timelessness.
Self-esteem peaks between the ages of 60 and 70. When women begin feeling this boost in self-esteem, they should be comfortable embracing it and breaking down any barriers that societal expectations have built. By wearing what makes them the most comfortable and happy, women reject social norms and empower themselves by showing that age is just a number and fashion is for everyone.
Kamryn Idol is a writer with a bachelor's degree in media and journalism who covers lifestyle, relationship, family, and wellness topics.
